Originally Posted by Watermelondrea
Can't be that hard, considering most of the girls that use online dating are using it for a reason
Quality > quantity. Always, and in every situation in life.
Plus, quantity today = herpes, so keep it quality.
Intentions of sleeping with women is setting expectations. And you will end up disappointed 9/10 times.
I was saying you shouldn't set exactions for doing sexual acts with X women .
Meeting women is different . Meeting women shouldn't be hard . Escalating is harder
Originally Posted by ff7sephiroth_phantom
Ive had sex with 5 different girls in 7 days, it isn't something that is really hard to do, in fact i think there are two problems guys usually encounter when going out that if they solved these two problems would be set for life. First is logistics ( having a place to take a girl, having a clean house to take her to, a way to get there after everyone has been drinking...ect.) Second is the amount of sexual confidence a guy puts off. some guys when talking to girls aren't comfortable, i think the main reason for that is that the guy isn't confident in bed, or they think they aren't good enough for that 9 or 10. When a guy realizes that it is a mindset not a physical barrier, that guys chances of getting laid multiply.
when it comes to THE GAME, im almost done with it, its getting old. Most of the girls you talk to in the game mentality are dumb bimbos. very rarely do i find an actually smart and articulate girl when i go to the bars or a party. No one wants to tell their kids or their friends or their family they met at a party or bar, its not the place to find a long lasting relationship. idk about you guys, but if im going to live in a world where both parents work, im going to find the girl who is actually smart and has a drive to her that will drive me to be a better person... you don't find that person at a bar
That's what happens when your living in MO
Come to NYC LA or Montreal and let me know if every girl is a dumb southern bimbo that's an open net goal . (* the south & Midwest are insanely easier then other parts of the world . I was surprised to find you can start off almost everyone with a how are ya )
Originally Posted by JohnnyBananas
I definitely have some mental barrier when it comes to extremely attractive women. I can not give a ****/say whatever to a cute girl but for those 9s/10s I just sorta freeze up. : /
You need to not car as much . * I know saying this is like no **** advice *
Attractive women are used to having most jackasses all over them as if they are queen Elizabeth .
Try this . Go out get lightly buzzed and have a friend there more sober to remember to tell you what to do . Do any of these on a 9/10 .
Walking through or just matter of fact bumping int her . Omg you are soooo ... In my way .
After talking you know what I really like about you ? Nothing
You know your actually kind of cute for a blonde / tall girl / Philadelphia girl / (any thing about her )
(This one takes a good supporting cast) you know you should wear your hair up / straighten it
P2: oh definitely that would be a much better look for you
P3: yeah and and swap this out with something that doesn't clash as much with your purse .
P1: absolutely , you should hand out with us more we'll make you look hot
Best part is when you **** with 9/10s their friends love it because your making them seem human and they normally get sick of hanging out with them where they always steal the limelight .
So you will see you still get human reactions however , they should just blow them off because they know their the **** right ? But they don't . Hence it proves 1. All females are somewhat insecure 2. All people are human 3. You can theoretically picture 9/10s like walking talking Breasts & Vaginas when you go out in the future .
* note you need to seem absolutely serious when saying these says . It's even better once you internalize them. Like sure she is hot but she might look better doing x y or z. Just don't ever compliment any females physical looks until maybe the 3rd date (definitely not when your white girl wasted the first time you meet them )