Few updates type things:
Firstly, got a movie date with this girl tomorrow. Haven't really hung out with her in like 8 months, this will be the first time hanging out just her and I. The previous time was with a few other friends. She seems interested, texted me today and said "I'm so excited". Always enthusiastic in texts, lots of smileys, etc. We'll see how it goes in person
I should be able to get an invitation to go back to her apartment afterwards, where I can definitely get some quality cuddles in
I know that we both love the same TV shows, so it should work out
Secondly, mentioned to the girl I posted yesterday that my buddies and I are having a holiday party next weekend. She wants to go with me. This is going to be interesting, because our parties can get interesting.
Lastly, and the interesting one: This girl I know messaged me on Facebook a few weeks back after I posted a witty Doctor Who reference and was like "OMG you like Doctor Who! I'm a Doctor Who Freak! This just made my day!". So I proceeded to texted her with another witty Doctor Who reference, to which she responded "<3 <3", and she followed up that by saying "Can we please watch some Doctor Who together?!". I of course tell her that's a good idea, and try to gauge when she has some free time, to which she responds "I don't have any free time
Work and school are my life". I was saying to myself, then what the **** was the point to asking me to hang out?
She texts me any time she sees something Doctor Who, including pictures of her and the Doctor Who stuff, and uploads pictures to Instagram of her sporting Doctor Who stuff and tags me in them, etc.
I can tell her that we're going to hang out and do something, and she'll always be down. But when I actually try to close in on a specific date, not just plans to do something, but a specific date on which we're going to do something, she doesn't respond. The thing is, I know she's been sleeping with/has been having a thing with this guy. I know this guy, hung out with him a couple times, and he's a cool dude. Super chill.
At this point, I'm not really trying to sleep with her. I mean, I most definitely wouldn't say no to it. If I saw a chance, I would have trouble not escalating on it. But my main goal is just to watch Doctor Who with her. Maybe some cuddling? But any time I try to arrange a specific time, she won't really reply. She seems interested, we've both established that we're compatible, and it seems like she wants
to hang out, but then remembers that she has a thing with this guy, and feels guilty, then avoids hanging out. Suggestions? Maybe she's just flaking, in which case I'd just say **** her. But I do think that she's interested, and wants
to hang out.