[R2-D2]

the only advice you need: ****. Everything.

[nwestpballer]

Originally Posted by R2-D2

the only advice you need: ****. Everything.

Been there man, **** gets boring and lonely after a while.

[Ly$ol (Banned)]

Originally Posted by PuzL

Female friends are cool. I boned this chick friends mouth while my bestfriend was ****ing her...we highfived lmao it was amazing

Eiffel Tower bro

[DrobertsPB]

H clap

[dub CRISP]

the devils threesome

[ProtoBaller1991]

Originally Posted by dub CRISP

the devils threesome

gross

[PuzL (Banned)]

no cause we didnt touch weeners

[Rampager2000]

But your balls did..

[PuzL (Banned)]

dude its only gay if someone catches you

[Mr.Familiar]

Originally Posted by nwestpballer

Been there man, **** gets boring and lonely after a while.

[EmpireEmperor]

Originally Posted by nwestpballer

**** gets boring

Try eating glitter

[R2-D2]

Originally Posted by nwestpballer

Been there man, **** gets boring and lonely after a while.

get a bottom *****, and then continue to **** everything.

[PuzL (Banned)]

what the hell are you doin on earth R2

[nwestpballer]

Originally Posted by EmpireEmperor

Try eating glitter

**** that, that **** gets everywhere.

[xFSUxlaxflip]

Originally Posted by smokeage

This will happen but you have to come to the realization your urge to hang out with her probably has a lot to do with your romantic feelings for her.

I'm pretty sure the saying "better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all" applies perfectly to this situation.

You have to weigh the benefits of her friendship and the lack of her as a romantic interest against the benefits of a potential relationships and the possible loss of her friendship

Originally Posted by Rampager2000

But there are still feelings. Attractions. Empire, you're friends with this broads? Unless you had a good reason (like STD, with your best friend etc.) and she came onto you, you would do it.

No matter what you do, how you do it, there will be attractions. And to tell me you have these gorgeous friends you're not attracted to just sounds like bull**** to me.

I love having female friends and holding back making moves for reasons. But I would be lying if I said I didn't have certain attractions to some of them.

It is far far more subjective and complex. I mean there are plenty who will tell you they can handle it no problem and do so but there are some who like ****ty females cannot keep friends of the opposite sex. When it comes to long term type relationships I actually feel that if a woman has a distinct absence of male friends it is a likely sign there is something in her past or her current personality which inherently prevents her from being able to carry healthy non sexual relationships with men. This becomes of key importance when you both are past the flirty, sexy, attractive lust stage of the relationship.

[Mr.JimJims2.0]

Sup players. It was my good friends 21st last night and we all got pretty hammered. All was good, I was saying my hellos to all the lesser known guests, until my friend's girlfriend starts talking to me. Now normally, this is absolutely not a problem, she's really cool and hangs out with us quite a bit. However, this time she decided to ask me if we have ever hooked up/made out. This caught me off guard since we've never had any sort of sexual tension or history and I pretty much met her through my friend. I laughed it off and changed the subject and all was well the rest of the night.

Normally I'd ask my other friends about this, but this situation seems to be more delicate than usual because I don't want my buddy to get the wrong idea if he finds out. I personally don't really think it's a big deal since she was probably just drunk, but should I bring it up to her? More importantly, should I bring it up to my friend? I'm leaning towards no and just letting it go, but if she's shopping around I don't want my friend to be in the dark.

tl;dr: I had a 10-some

[Dingodile]

Cool Story Bro

[Rampager2000]

Originally Posted by xFSUxlaxflip

You have to weigh the benefits of her friendship and the lack of her as a romantic interest against the benefits of a potential relationships and the possible loss of her friendship



It is far far more subjective and complex. I mean there are plenty who will tell you they can handle it no problem and do so but there are some who like ****ty females cannot keep friends of the opposite sex. When it comes to long term type relationships I actually feel that if a woman has a distinct absence of male friends it is a likely sign there is something in her past or her current personality which inherently prevents her from being able to carry healthy non sexual relationships with men. This becomes of key importance when you both are past the flirty, sexy, attractive lust stage of the relationship.

Agreed on it's situational. I have some attractive girls I've decided to not make moves on because of misc reasons, most of the time so I can network through them. But that doesn't mean there's not an attraction. Especially if the friendship takes off and there is lots of hanging out. It comes up time and time again in the same way.

As far as girls not having healthy non-sexual relationships with guys, I also feel it may have to do with the girl and her upbringing, noticing there is a difference between a girl who just doesn't have good guy friends and a girl who can't talk to a guy without wanting to **** him.

Originally Posted by Mr.JimJims2.0

Sup players. It was my good friends 21st last night and we all got pretty hammered. All was good, I was saying my hellos to all the lesser known guests, until my friend's girlfriend starts talking to me. Now normally, this is absolutely not a problem, she's really cool and hangs out with us quite a bit. However, this time she decided to ask me if we have ever hooked up/made out. This caught me off guard since we've never had any sort of sexual tension or history and I pretty much met her through my friend. I laughed it off and changed the subject and all was well the rest of the night.

Normally I'd ask my other friends about this, but this situation seems to be more delicate than usual because I don't want my buddy to get the wrong idea if he finds out. I personally don't really think it's a big deal since she was probably just drunk, but should I bring it up to her? More importantly, should I bring it up to my friend? I'm leaning towards no and just letting it go, but if she's shopping around I don't want my friend to be in the dark.

tl;dr: I had a 10-some

I wouldn't worry about it if you're 100% sure nothing ever happened.

[Mr.Familiar]

Originally Posted by xFSUxlaxflip

This becomes of key importance when you both are past the flirty, sexy, attractive lust stage of the relationship.

Why does this part have to end...? WHY?

[PuNisHeR--]

Just wanted to stop by, showing my love for all of you. Help me grow so much, thanks for the advice over the years!

[xFSUxlaxflip]

Originally Posted by Mr.Familiar

Why does this part have to end...? WHY?

because if it didnt it would also get boring very quickly... 1 dimensional relationships quickly run their course