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Old 07-15-2012, 05:10 AM #1
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Friend Trap http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...8#post22579488
Group Theory http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...8#post24022568
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3 Quick Pointers http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...2#post25820202
More General Advice http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...9#post25827949
Grabbing the Rebound http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...1#post26485911
Ideas For Dates http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...0#post26713180
Pickup=Engineering http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...0#post26841110
Best Analysis Ever/Escalate Flirting
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Confidence/Cocky/Funny vs. Arrogance
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Pick-up Time line http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...1#post28056041
One Night Stands http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...9#post28322399
Signs/Lack of Signs http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...8#post28471588
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Bro, I was toaaaatally more drunk than you were.

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So here goes a long one and I will tl;dr at the very bottom for all you A.D.D. kids...

I was dating this girl for almost 10 months. First real relationship (I'm almost 21 now to give you an idea) We broke up about 2 months ago and about 3 weeks ago her ex best friend and I started talking. Turns out my ex had been cheating on me for over 5 months with some dude at her work. (he's 29 she was 19, he has a kid, no college education, will be a career server his entire life and was engaged when they started seeing each other) Also a few weeks before we broke up I went to the doctor who told me I had chalmydia (sp?)... turns out he gave it to her, she gave it to me, and she blammed me for it and said that i must have been cheating...

So needless to say I was pretty heart broken hearing that news and when I called her out on it she wouldn't even admit it. I lost 15lbs in 2 weeks and was going in and out of depression and having panic attacks. Well that part is better now but I now feel like an *** hole. I started dating the girl that told me this info and we were talking for close to two weeks. Apparently I'm an extremely nice guy and no guy had ever treated her the way I treated her and she really fell for me. We messed around a few times but never went all the way but today I told her I wasn't emotionally ready for a relationship and pretty much broke her heart. lol What sucks is that she is honestly one of the nicest and sweetest people I've ever met and she helped me so much when I was going through all that **** with my ex.

My question is what do i do? I really want to be friends with this girl but at the same time she really really likes me. And I know myself that if we hangout and she tries to put the moves on me or lean in for a kiss I would have a really hard time denying it. (plus she's amazing and certain activities if you know what i'm sayin) But i've never really friend traped a girl before so what's the best way to go about this??

Tl;dr, i lied about making one... sorry.
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So here goes a long one and I will tl;dr at the very bottom for all you A.D.D. kids...

[stuff]

Tl;dr, i lied about making one... sorry.
**** you.
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Its honestly not that long... man up and read it
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Didn't want to bang her until i knew if i wanted to date her. Dont want to date her, so there will be no banging.
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Its honestly not that long... man up and read it
Man up and don't lie to me.


As far as your "issue" approach her with the fact that, "Hey earlier when I said I wasn't emotionally read for another relationship, I just wanted to clarify since you looked distraught when I told you. I just got out of a relationship, you know that, and I'm not sure I'm quite ready for another one yet. I don't want you to just be a rebound girl, you know? Lets just keep things going the way they are and not label anything until we're both mutually ready"

- Boom.It's called talking things out while not letting her down or closing your opportunities.
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That's a good point. I'm just going to have to be careful when/if we hangout next not to lead her on.
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**** your ex (not literally). What a ****ing *****. I don't even know you or anything and that **** really pisses me off
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Typing on a phone so bare with me..

I have a girl who is straight considering dumping her bf of 2 years for a chance wifh me, exact words.. a classic boyfriend destroyer. ive been flirting with her for ages but sunk the hook while i was in FL on vacation. She asked her best friend what she shoild do and she suggested to cheat. I mean, shes serious.

Backstory: we used to work together. Didnt do much but i flirted enoigh to keep **** open. When i was visiting we hung out like 5 times 1 on 1 but i never pushed too hard. I wanted to let the idea sink in and act on that. I mentioned her a few days.ago as the girl im gaming different than usual. I actually consider her a friend and never wanted to lose that. This situation only further goes to prove it girld and guys cant be friends.

So OGPT, what do?
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I have a girl who is straight considering dumping her bf of 2 years for a chance wifh me, exact words.. a classic boyfriend destroyer. [stuff] She asked her best friend what she shoild do and she suggested to cheat. I mean, shes serious.

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So OGPT, what do?
"If she'll do it to him, she'll do it to you" - Depends if you just want a F-buddy or to date the chick. If you're just banging her with no emotional attachments, go for it, expect some baggage. If there are emotional attachments, on either end, prepare for baggage. Really, there's going to be baggage there either way.
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**** your ex (not literally). What a ****ing *****. I don't even know you or anything and that **** really pisses me off
yea, thanks man. I mean if i was bad to her i'd kinda understand a little but nope. (and you got the super short version of what happened) Wish i could get back the expensive *** necklace I gave her for christmas.
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