Its a 12 pin crimp housing or 2x6 pin crimp connector housing http://www.pololu.com/catalog/product/1914
in case anyone eles is looking for the part. These look slightly different in size i just ordered a few and the pins to see if i can get it to work. Once i figure it out ill post what i find in the event any one eles is having a similar problem. There is another company called molex i thought would make these also but i havent found it on there site yet.