[Irukandji (Banned)]

<3 Patience

Originally Posted by BoneBreak

I haven't been around here for a long time, but I remember you sob storys.. You had no confidence.. Im glad to see this post my man i like it

Yeah, Danny has seen a huge improvement over the last year or so.

Originally Posted by albinorhino

Are you my long lost twin brother? No homo, but I honestly feel like you just explained my life (minus the severe social anxiety). I hear ya loud and clear when you say being an emotional guy sucks. It is the one thing about myself that I truly wish I could change. for some solid advice WOman!

Gotcha bro.

[Patience.]

Originally Posted by albinorhino

Are you my long lost twin brother? No homo, but I honestly feel like you just explained my life (minus the severe social anxiety). I hear ya loud and clear when you say being an emotional guy sucks. It is the one thing about myself that I truly wish I could change. for some solid advice man!

I think most extremely emotional people wish they could change it. But I'd rather be this way than completely devoid of all emotion. That would be even worse.

[albinorhino]

@ irukandji

well played.

[Irukandji (Banned)]

Originally Posted by Patience.

I think most extremely emotional people wish they could change it. But I'd rather be this way than completely devoid of all emotion. That would be even worse.

There's a good quote that says the same thing. Of course, at this moment in time it is gone from my brain.

Night everyone, big day tomorrow. Binary, cheer the **** up.

Edit: I saw that Albino

[albinorhino]

Originally Posted by Patience.

I think most extremely emotional people wish they could change it. But I'd rather be this way than completely devoid of all emotion. That would be even worse.

Yea, maybe. But somewhere inbetween both of those exremes sounds pretty good. I over analyze everything, and I hate it.

[mynameisjonathon]

Originally Posted by albinorhino

Are you my long lost twin brother? No homo, but I honestly feel like you just explained my life (minus the severe social anxiety). I hear ya loud and clear when you say being an emotional guy sucks. It is the one thing about myself that I truly wish I could change. for some solid advice man!

Damn I'm pretty emotional myself maybe I'm just idealistic, but there isn't a damn problem with caring about things.

[albinorhino]

Originally Posted by Irukandji

Edit: I saw that Albino

[bubbleboy016]

Originally Posted by albinorhino

dawt.
You nailed it right on the head sir.

So... Cool. We identified a big problem, "social acceptance (or lack there of) Depresses people." Id say this statement is doubly effective for someone who is medically diagnosed as anxious, script xanax. Same person is also in girl thread. So whats the surface solution...?

Uh oh.... Here it is..:

Originally Posted by bubbleboy016

If you have a medically diagnosed anxiety problem, i cant even imagine what your approach anxiety is like. Again, for the time being stop lookig to start a relationship. It sounds harsh but its the truth: the liklihood of you being successful in starting a relationship anytime soon (relative) is slim. What you need to do, is build your confidence and self esteem/image in whatever way you can. Be it with women, finding success in a sport, finding a hobby youre seriously interested in, etc. ANYTHING you can do to make yourself feel good about being you is good. I realize youre clinically anxious, but you cant let that be a mental block and deter you from enjoying what there is to enjoy in life, and there are lots of things (i realize its easier to say than do, too).

Honestly, if its women that are your main interest right now, become successful with them. Success, used as a term that means completing your goals. If, and it should, means lowering your idea of sucess to the point where youre successful just passing a girl and exchanging smiles, do it. Because at least then you arent failing. After you can exhange smiles, move up to saying hi, then engage in conversation, pickup numbers, etc etc. This may take a while, but the point is youre setting your goals too high right now, meeting failure, and becoming harder and harder on yourself.

Looky there... Posted a while ago.

[Maytherman]

It's good to see all the support being given in this thread to those in need. Keep it up guys.

[contract*killa]

sent a girl a text yesterday, yes a text, no i didnt call my bad. i asked
"when are we going to finally hang out"
like an hour later
"hmmmm when you plan it "

so i threw out saturday, and she said she had her step sisters bday, and then a sleep over with this one girl she is friends with.
now its all fine with me at this point because whether or not she is going to get back with her boyfriend, i still want to hangout some time. the last 2 dates i threw out she had a project and a wedding (ended up being a wedding on her ex's side)
i waited a few weeks like suggested. am i really that bad at picking dates or is it bs?

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