Official GIRL THREAD (Problems, Advice, etc)

AndyAllen019 · 06-11-2010, 02:09 AM

(Original credit, and thread poster, for this idea goes to TylerValo.)

I'm tired of all your threads.

From now on please post your problem here and wait for an answer.

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xFortune (Banned) · 06-11-2010, 02:10 AM

FIrstsdfsf

Broseph_Stalin (Banned) · 06-11-2010, 02:11 AM

Why are official threads always started in the middle of the night?

Shooterr (Banned) · 06-11-2010, 02:12 AM

Vagina

haxor · 06-11-2010, 02:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Shooterr

Vagina

gross dude

smothers123 (Banned) · 06-11-2010, 02:20 AM

whats a bewb?

pbmink · 06-11-2010, 02:21 AM

a wet cold bag of sand on a girls cheast

DyeMonic · 06-11-2010, 02:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Broseph_Stalin

Why are official threads always started in the middle of the night?

Because that's when the system kicks in and does its job. When a thread reaches 2000 posts, a new thread will be created at approximately 3:00am.

edud V.2 · 06-11-2010, 02:30 AM

First time I've had to move on without at least something small happening because a girl wasn't interested.

We hung out, she was shy/awkward but I thought she was still into me. Next time I invite her to chill, she can't because she has the SAT in the morning and her mom said no, then she doesn't answer texts. :dunno:

pbmink · 06-11-2010, 02:33 AM

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Originally Posted by DyeMonic

Because that's when the system kicks in and does its job. When a thread reaches 2000 posts, a new thread will be created at approximately 3:00am.

if you live in the ****ty part of the country

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Originally Posted by edud V.2

First time I've had to move on without at least something small happening because a girl wasn't interested.

We hung out, she was shy/awkward but I thought she was still into me. Next time I invite her to chill, she can't because she has the SAT in the morning and her mom said no, then she doesn't answer texts. :dunno:

wait a week, try again. if nothing give up find a new beezy

DeathAndTaxes12 · 06-11-2010, 02:45 AM

A fresh new thread

empire88 · 06-11-2010, 03:12 AM

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Originally Posted by pbmink

if you live in the ****ty part of the country

wait a week, try again. if nothing give up find a new beezy

a)yes. West coast is 12:10 AM

B)Maybe it's just me. Buttt..if a girl bails once, than she's outtt.

C)I have a girlfriend, yet i'm still sexting another female. I need to get my **** together.

ilovejesus · 06-11-2010, 06:45 AM

so im hanging out with this girl and going swimming after we hit the mall. im nervous about swimming because i have decent sized love handles

i dunno what to do, taking off my shirt would pretty much be an instant turn off. should i just say i dont want to swim or something? or just go and tan D:

halp

whiteyg0tgame · 06-11-2010, 07:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Broseph_Stalin

Why are official threads always started in the middle of the night?

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Originally Posted by DyeMonic

Because that's when the system kicks in and does its job. When a thread reaches 2000 posts, a new thread will be created at approximately 3:00am.

3:10am

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Originally Posted by ilovejesus

so im hanging out with this girl and going swimming after we hit the mall. im nervous about swimming because i have decent sized love handles

Don't be queer. Don't say you're not swimming, don't swim with your shirt on. Saying you won't swim is no fun and people like you less when you aren't fun. Swimming with your shirt on makes people realize there is something wrong with you -and- you aren't confident. 2 more things no one likes. You want to display 3 characteristics people don't like in a 2 minute window? No.

pacasowithagun · 06-11-2010, 08:33 AM

God ****ing damnit. So last night my ex facebooks me just to see whats up. Shes like "Ive had a ****ty day and now im drinking a whole bottle of wine." So I ask what was wrong, yadda yadda yadda, and she signs off cause shes really drunk.

About 15 minutes later she texts me and the conversation turns into how she is in a drunk and horny state. Well she then proceeds to tell me that I was never able to make her *** during our WHOLE relationship (2 years w/ talking). She says how her ex (before me) had made her *** but I hadnt. So im thinking like WTF?!?! you lied to me our whole relationship. She had told me when we first started talking that had never had an orgasm. Then later in our relationship she said I was the first one to give her an orgasm. like seriously?!?! Why would you ****ing lie about that ****?? I dont even really know what to think right now. Like its ****ing killed my sexual confidence. I dont even know what the **** to say. Then as im going to sleep she tells me to not be upset and how she really cared about me and how she still really cares about me. like seriously?!?! she expects me to not ****ing care!! Im like half pissed half depressed, but more pissed than anything. AHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

/rant

Captian Crunch · 06-11-2010, 08:35 AM

So my girl and I got into a little fight last night. A few months ago she was telling me how she went to a sweet 16 and she was "dancing" with some guy and then when the party was over she called me crying saying how he wouldn't stop asking for me to kiss him.... I was like ok well hes just an ***. A few weeks after she told me she was grinding with him. So I'm like ok well your basically turning that guy on a misleading him (am i right?). So I told her it is prob a bad idea to grind with guys and she goes i agree i wont do it anymore. I told her I though it was wrong and she said well I dont think its wrong then she though about it and said it was wrong I just didn't realize what I was doing @ the time. So last night i was thinking about it an i told her and shes like "I realized what I was doing was wrong" so im like "WTF u changed ur story" she goes "I was drunk" im like "Oh so what ur @ another party and lets say u get really drunk and u hook up with a guy ur excuse will be I was drunk?!" then she changed her story like 3 times and i had enough and i told her i was going to bed and hung up. She lied to me like 3-4 times. She said "I lied to make you happy I hate seeing you upset" I go "i would rather hear the truth then a lie" and i walked away this morning in school. I'm not quite sure what to do and I am sorry for this long post but its been on my mind lol. I though about breaking up with her but....idk

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post above me i feel ur pain main im 100% depressed
edit2:
forgot a huge part of my post....its 2 early lol

whiteyg0tgame · 06-11-2010, 08:37 AM

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Originally Posted by pacasowithagun

God ****ing damnit. So last night my ex facebooks me just to see whats up. Shes like "Ive had a ****ty day and now im drinking a whole bottle of wine." So I ask what was wrong, yadda yadda yadda, and she signs off cause shes really drunk.

About 15 minutes later she texts me and the conversation turns into how she is in a drunk and horny state. Well she then proceeds to tell me that I was never able to make her *** during our WHOLE relationship (2 years w/ talking). She says how her ex (before me) had made her *** but I hadnt. So im thinking like WTF?!?! you lied to me our whole relationship. She had told me when we first started talking that had never had an orgasm. Then later in our relationship she said I was the first one to give her an orgasm. like seriously?!?! Why would you ****ing lie about that ****?? I dont even really know what to think right now. Like its ****ing killed my sexual confidence. I dont even know what the **** to say. Then as im going to sleep she tells me to not be upset and how she really cared about me and how she still really cares about me. like seriously?!?! she expects me to not ****ing care!! Im like half pissed half depressed, but more pissed than anything. AHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

/rant

"I can come over and give it a try now."

Just have confidence man... like how you can admit to a bunch of high school kids you can't make a girl ***; that's confidence, haha! There's really no reason to let a drunk ex change your state of mind.

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Originally Posted by Captian Crunch

So my girl and I got into a little fight last night. A few months ago she was telling me how she went to a sweet 16 and she was "dancing" with some guy and then when the party was over she called me crying saying how he wouldn't stop asking. I was like ok well hes just an ***. A few weeks after she told me she was grinding with him. So I'm like ok well your basically turning that guy on a misleading him (am i right?). So I told her it is prob a bad idea to grind with guys and she goes i agree i wont do it anymore. I told her I though it was wrong and she said well I dont think its wrong then she though about it and said it was wrong I just didn't realize what I was doing @ the time. So last night i was thinking about it an i told her and shes like "I realized what I was doing was wrong" so im like "WTF u changed ur story" she goes "I was drunk" im like "Oh so what ur @ another party and lets say u get really drunk and u hook up with a guy ur excuse will be I was drunk?!" then she changed her story like 3 times and i had enough and i told her i was going to bed and hung up. She lied to me like 3-4 times. She said "I lied to make you happy I hate seeing you upset" I go "i would rather hear the truth then a lie" and i walked away this morning in school. I'm not quite sure what to do and I am sorry for this long post but its been on my mind lol.

Well, the first thing you need to do is resolve it. You're being immature by bringing it up, getting mad, and walking away *repeat* Tell her that you know she wouldn't appreciate you grinding with a girl or anything intimate/sexual, and you're not going to. You only expect the same from her. Drunk or not, that's not an excuse, ever. The first time this came up you should have relayed all your feelings, created a solution, apologized as necessary, and moved it under the bridge. You're nickle and diming each other into unnecessary fights and drama. You have one conversation, you express your feelings once, one arguement if so-be-it, and then once that's done, you don't bring it up again. It's over and done with (until/unless it happens again).

pacasowithagun · 06-11-2010, 08:42 AM

I would have offered to go over then but I had to wake up at like 7 for work.

but yea i know man. it just hurts more that she had the audacity to tell me then the fact that she lied. But whatever, if thats how she wants to treat the men in her life then shes in for a rude awakening.

whiteyg0tgame · 06-11-2010, 08:44 AM

And that rude awakening would be?

alex456 · 06-11-2010, 08:45 AM

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Originally Posted by pacasowithagun

God ****ing damnit. So last night my ex facebooks me just to see whats up. Shes like "Ive had a ****ty day and now im drinking a whole bottle of wine." So I ask what was wrong, yadda yadda yadda, and she signs off cause shes really drunk.

About 15 minutes later she texts me and the conversation turns into how she is in a drunk and horny state. Well she then proceeds to tell me that I was never able to make her *** during our WHOLE relationship (2 years w/ talking). She says how her ex (before me) had made her *** but I hadnt. So im thinking like WTF?!?! you lied to me our whole relationship. She had told me when we first started talking that had never had an orgasm. Then later in our relationship she said I was the first one to give her an orgasm. like seriously?!?! Why would you ****ing lie about that ****?? I dont even really know what to think right now. Like its ****ing killed my sexual confidence. I dont even know what the **** to say. Then as im going to sleep she tells me to not be upset and how she really cared about me and how she still really cares about me. like seriously?!?! she expects me to not ****ing care!! Im like half pissed half depressed, but more pissed than anything. AHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

/rant

wooooooooow.

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Originally Posted by Captian Crunch

So my girl and I got into a little fight last night. A few months ago she was telling me how she went to a sweet 16 and she was "dancing" with some guy and then when the party was over she called me crying saying how he wouldn't stop asking for me to kiss him.... I was like ok well hes just an ***. A few weeks after she told me she was grinding with him. So I'm like ok well your basically turning that guy on a misleading him (am i right?). So I told her it is prob a bad idea to grind with guys and she goes i agree i wont do it anymore. I told her I though it was wrong and she said well I dont think its wrong then she though about it and said it was wrong I just didn't realize what I was doing @ the time. So last night i was thinking about it an i told her and shes like "I realized what I was doing was wrong" so im like "WTF u changed ur story" she goes "I was drunk" im like "Oh so what ur @ another party and lets say u get really drunk and u hook up with a guy ur excuse will be I was drunk?!" then she changed her story like 3 times and i had enough and i told her i was going to bed and hung up. She lied to me like 3-4 times. She said "I lied to make you happy I hate seeing you upset" I go "i would rather hear the truth then a lie" and i walked away this morning in school. I'm not quite sure what to do and I am sorry for this long post but its been on my mind lol. I though about breaking up with her but....idk

edit:
post above me i feel ur pain main im 100% depressed
edit2:
forgot a huge part of my post....its 2 early lol

wooooooooooooooooow.

i sense a strong lack of security in these two.

Captian Crunch · 06-11-2010, 08:46 AM

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Originally Posted by whiteyg0tgame

"I can come over and give it a try now."

Just have confidence man... like how you can admit to a bunch of high school kids you can't make a girl ***; that's confidence, haha! There's really no reason to let a drunk ex change your state of mind.

Well, the first thing you need to do is resolve it. You're being immature by bringing it up, getting mad, and walking away *repeat* Tell her that you know she wouldn't appreciate you grinding with a girl or anything intimate/sexual, and you're not going to. You only expect the same from her. Drunk or not, that's not an excuse, ever. The first time this came up you should have relayed all your feelings, created a solution, apologized as necessary, and moved it under the bridge. You're nickle and diming each other into unnecessary fights and drama. You have one conversation, you express your feelings once, one arguement if so-be-it, and then once that's done, you don't bring it up again. It's over and done with (until/unless it happens again).

No like I was really tired last night and she asked me what I was think I told her "Its stupid its nothing important this will only end bad if I tell you I'm telling you" and she got all pissy that I wouldn't tell her so I told her. Then she got defensive and yelling and stuff and for some reason i was really calm I don't usually get all worked up over stuff but i told her in a calm voice "Did I tell you that this would happen?" I told her being drunk is no excuse then shes like "Ok I wont drink anymore or go to parties" so now shes putting me on a guilt trip. ugh

*Official* GIRL THREAD (Problems, Advice, etc)

*Official* GIRL THREAD (Problems, Advice, etc)

Official GIRL THREAD (Problems, Advice, etc)

Official GIRL THREAD (Problems, Advice, etc)