So a couple updates with the girlfriend.
1. somehow she found out that when i was drunk i was talking to some dudes at this party about how when she sucks my dick i stap her in the mouth sometimes(pull it out..tap her in the mouth. it makes me feel like a pornstar.)
2. we went "shopping" and bought a softcore bondage kit. it has 2 ties for hands and 2 ties for feet as well as a blindfold.
Got a huge box of condoms and some lube too.
have yet to use the kit though
(have had it for about a week now)