[Harrisonv2]

Originally Posted by pbm2

Hey guys. I looked through 10 pages in the OSST for this thread. I did not think it would be in ST lol. But anyways, im a lonly man looking for some advice with a girl.

So, my story starts with this girl i met at a party. We started talking about ow lame the party was, and i ended up getting her number. I called her the next day and we talked for a bit, than we started texting. I called her just to talk one day, and i ended up telling her i had a little crush on her, and she said she doesnt know yet. Yesterday we went to a movie and things were great. We talked i made her laugh and ****, and when i got home we talked and she flirted with me. Score right? Nope. Today she hasnt returned a call, talked to me for like 5 minutes saying she had homework, and than in the middle of a low topic poor conversation, she just stops talking to me.

This isnt the first time she has just stopped talking to me, or started to show a loss in interest in me. MY friend just asked her if we were hooking up now, because we went on a date so to speak yesterday, and she said it wasnt really on her mind and she doesnt know.

Now my quesations lies at what i should do. Should i continue with me manly charm, or should i start to follow down the road of friends, or if worst comes to worst just stop talking to her eventually?

Im not sure what to do, thought id ask you guys on your oppinion.

Seems like you're pushing way too hard. Try to ease off for a bit, and just give her some space. Don't push yourself onto her so much.

[pbm2]

Originally Posted by Harrisonv2

Seems like you're pushing way too hard. Try to ease off for a bit, and just give her some space. Don't push yourself onto her so much.

Now that you say that i do feel like i am pushing kinda hard. Its just i havent had a girlfriend in a while, and i almoost got her. Thanks thoo

[Harrisonv2]

Originally Posted by pbm2

Now that you say that i do feel like i am pushing kinda hard. Its just i havent had a girlfriend in a while, and i almoost got her. Thanks thoo

I know the feeling.

[pbm2]

It sucks eh
Shes supoer smart to, and she plays sports. Shes like an all around perfect girl. Ill let you guys know how **** goes. Thanks for the advice man

[Q-Unit]

Originally Posted by whiteyg0tgame

It's definitely not easy, but if he's up for the challenge Props A few tips I've gathered from chasing girls with boyfriends:

1- Don't nag or constatly want attention from them or they will start to ignore you because her b/f will probably find out how much you contact her.

2- If she talks about her boyfriend become unresponsive and uninterested. It will create a negative feeling in her mind every time she brings him up. That can go a long way.

3- Never talk trash on the boyfriend or get into arguements with her about the relationship. If she ends up mad at you, you just lost points and she'll go home to her b/f to feel better.

4- Get ready to play the slow game and play hard because it's tough.

Overall, I honestly don't suggest going for girls that have a boyfriend unless you are willing to get stuck in the friend trap while you try to get them to break up. A general rule of thumb is: If she did it to him, she'll do it to you. If you're just looking for a good time with someone, go for it. But if you're looking to convert her from his girlfriend to yours... eh, be careful!



I appreciate it It's always nice to hear things like that with the time and effort put into this



College started for most people 2-4 weeks ago.... how long have you known this new girl? Based off of my previous statement I'd say around a month. That's not a very long time to be with someone and expect them to be intimately open and accessible for you. When you are touching or kissing is this in public or private? Are you dating or just getting aquainted? I'm trying to gauge your relationship versus your expectations. My first thought is you're expecting too much too soon and you should be thankful you're not with a "total idiot" that may have been easier than most girls.

not like i got anything else to do. i've got other prospects too. but her, i want. bad.

i'll keep that stuff in mind and keep you posted.
also, expierence is what you get when you dont get what you want.

you sir mr. goodapple, are quality, real quality

[PuNisHeR--]

Good day

I felt AMOG status a little bit today. I saw this really cute, my type of girl freshman walking in the hall way.

Side note about the girl: I talked to her the day before because she lost her phone.. and she is a soccer girl. YUM YUM YUM YUM.

Anyway, she was talking to this freshman kid who was about 6 inches shorter than me. The froshes were the same height. But anyway, I basically cut him off in the middle of his sentence and had a good laughing conversation with her to my locker.

Also: Senior kid on the football team was talking to me today and we got pretty cool. He's the Mike LB and he said that he will call me up and tell me when parties are so I can come and chill.

But.. facebook is down for me

[Q-Unit]

Originally Posted by PuNisHeR--

Good day

I felt AMOG status a little bit today. I saw this really cute, my type of girl freshman walking in the hall way.

Side note about the girl: I talked to her the day before because she lost her phone.. and she is a soccer girl. YUM YUM YUM YUM.

Anyway, she was talking to this freshman kid who was about 6 inches shorter than me. The froshes were the same height. But anyway, I basically cut him off in the middle of his sentence and had a good laughing conversation with her to my locker.

Also: Senior kid on the football team was talking to me today and we got pretty cool. He's the Mike LB and he said that he will call me up and tell me when parties are so I can come and chill.

But.. facebook is down for me

[incobWTF]

HE'S A REGULAR DON'T QUESTION HIMMM!!!!

[edudcixlsyd]

I may be a father

[Youwish959]

How is my game? Like for real. This is my basic game, on facebook. I'm not sure if it is leading to more of a friendship or what.

Luke

I wish I could party still
8:47pmBrittany

why cant u
8:47pmLuke

Well I almost got a MIP, they called my mom and had her come pick me up
8:47pmBrittany

haha

tht sucks
8:47pmLuke

and if I got a MIP, it would mess up my whole career

yeah, she wasn't even that mad. She didn't tell me to stop, I chose to cause I realized it could mess up my whole career
8:48pmBrittany

ahhh i see
8:48pmLuke

if you've never been somewhere where it got busted, lemme tell you it is the scariest thing ever
8:49pmBrittany

i bet!

lol
8:50pmLuke

I'm still debating whether or not I will go to parties and just not drink
8:50pmBrittany

yea go to parties but just dont drink
8:50pmLuke

you do?
8:50pmBrittany

no lol
8:51pmLuke

do you drink?
8:51pmBrittany

sometimes.

only about 4 times tho

i just started over the summer
8:51pmLuke

yeah, i had just started in like february
8:51pmBrittany

at my dads house in alabama
8:51pmLuke

lol id find that awkward
8:51pmBrittany

him and his wife lets us have parties & drink & stuff its cool
8:51pmLuke

and ive only done it like 8-10 times
8:52pmBrittany

their really awsome
8:52pmLuke

wow that's tight
8:52pmBrittany

i hate beer tho, ts gross
8:52pmLuke

good girl
8:52pmBrittany

yeaa they have a huge in ground pool so tht makes it funner lol

i love going their!
8:52pmLuke

wow
8:52pmBrittany

yepp lol
8:52pmLuke

sounds amazing
8:52pmBrittany

i cant wait til this summer, i got a ways still lol
8:53pmLuke

lol

I can't wait for January
8:53pmBrittany

but omg u gotta be careful, well girls do lol i almost got like drugged!
8:53pmLuke

damn
8:53pmBrittany

good thing i didnt take tht drink from that rly hott guy lol
8:53pmLuke

did you catch him?

or what
8:54pmBrittany

he was like here drink this..i was like no thanks lol...he was like almost forcing me too drink it!
8:54pmLuke

wow, that's never a good sign

If I'm told to do something, I'm less likely to do it
8:54pmBrittany

& a lil earlier he was tlking bout these like blue or purple pills he crushing & takes 7 my mom was like omg brittany thats a date rap drug! i was like omg good thing i didnt drink it!
8:55pmLuke

that crap is scary
8:55pmBrittany

cuz like the whole night he was tryin to get in my pants & kiss me...& he was high or something cuz he had a gf! we almost got into it cuz she thought i liked him lol
8:56pmLuke

wow im glad im not a girl, have to worry about crap like that
8:56pmBrittany

yeahh! u cant trust anyone these days!

from now on ill be getting my own drinks lol
8:56pmLuke

no kidding,, you can't do anything, about worrying
8:56pmBrittany

yea

:/:/
8:57pmLuke

*without
8:57pmBrittany

yeahh lol
8:57pmLuke

hell
8:58pmBrittany

what
8:58pmLuke

with my parents getting a divorce and all a lot of the times i can't trust my own family
8:58pmBrittany

lol awhh
8:58pmLuke

yeah, liike im buying a truck from my aunt, and im wondering why shes selling it to me for so cheap

if shes actually just doing it to be nice

she needs the money that bad, or what
8:59pmBrittany

ohhh
8:59pmLuke

like it kinda scares me, shes giving it to me for so cheap
8:59pmBrittany

yea ive never been in that spot so idk what to tell u lol
9:00pmLuke

yeah, and you don't know them either

and all the details

but if its a legit deal i can't wait to get it

03 Ranger with 63000 on it 4x4 5 speed

and im getting it for 6000 - 1000 for my truck
9:01pmBrittany

ohh lol kewl
9:03pmBrittany

im bored.
9:03pmLuke

im procrastinating

i have to finish two more pages of a paper outline, then hand write a 5 paragraph paper
9:03pmBrittany

dang tht sucks

i just finish my paper
9:04pmLuke

wanna do mine?
9:04pmBrittany

haha nooo thanks.

i didnt wanna do mine!
9:04pmLuke

lol figured

I really thin I'm possibly the worst procrastinator in the world
9:04pmBrittany

ha,
9:05pmLuke

maybe it's senioritus
9:05pmBrittany

u rly like to tlk dont ya lol...most guys says like a few words...but u say alot! lol
9:05pmLuke

yeah, especially when I have a paper to write

[PuNisHeR--]

Why facepalm?

[edudcixlsyd]

That was insanely boring. You don't do any flirting, just talking.

[Youwish959]

Originally Posted by edudcixlsyd

That was insanely boring. You don't do any flirting, just talking.

How would I incorporate flirting into that? Maybe, I don't get the definition of flirting lol.

[edudcixlsyd]

Read some of maddog91's facebook conversations. You just flirt the same way you do in texting and in normal, face-to-face conversation. I can't tell you how to flirt but you need to or she'll end up being a friend/acquaintance.

[cameron122000]

Originally Posted by Youwish959

How would I incorporate flirting into that? Maybe, I don't get the definition of flirting lol.

You should probably start by meeting her in person.

[feed me a stray cat]

I must admit, that was pretty boring. I especially liked her "ohh lol kewl" after you went into more detail about your truck than you should have.

You had opportunities there to flirt. The date rape story, the dad with the parties, etc.

[512]

I gave 2 girls wedgies today because it was like crossdress day at school () and they were saggin their boxers.

Kinky

[edudcixlsyd]

Originally Posted by 512

I gave 2 girls wedgies today because it was like crossdress day at school () and they were saggin their boxers.

Kinky

girls shouldn't wear men's clothing unless it's your clothes after you had sex with her

[512]

Originally Posted by edudcixlsyd

girls shouldn't wear men's clothing unless it's your clothes after you had sex with her

Read my post mayne, i said it was crossdress day. And yes, I should fornicate them and give them another wedgie.

[Youwish959]

Damn, I did do pretty terrible, rereading that. And I knew I went into too much detail about the truck, I actually am just so damn excited.

Oh well **** happens, live and learn. And what better way than with a girl you don't know?

[*Mr.Clean*]

that girl sounds like she might be half retarded