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Old 08-04-2009, 08:52 PM #211
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i dress nicely to college so I can turn heads. It's great. Still having no luck though with the women. Hopefully I might learn something from this thread.

You see, I suffer from acute "friendliness" and have fallen prey to the friend trap all too often.
My best advice is to sack up and make moves, physical escalation is not what "friends" do, it must be done early though or else it's weird as hell.

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Old 08-04-2009, 09:01 PM #212
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So I have been talking to this girl for a couple weeks. We aren't together, but we are going on a first date, which also happens to be her birthday. Should I get a gift? Or is that too much too soon?
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Old 08-04-2009, 09:07 PM #213
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Old 08-04-2009, 09:07 PM #214
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Old 08-04-2009, 09:40 PM #215
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Old 08-04-2009, 09:47 PM #216
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Old 08-04-2009, 09:49 PM #217
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Yeeeah, the one I had previously just didn't look good. I switched back. Sorreh.
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Fml. I try to hard and fall on my face. I can't flirt to save my life either. I'm trying to get this one chick on a date but I think I'm being friended. I should prob just not talk to her for a while. Any advice?
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Old 08-04-2009, 11:40 PM #219
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I dont think the friend zone really exists, and if it does, than I look at it as a blessing. Like seriously, all of my really close girl-friends (not gfs) end up falling in love with me. I dont get it but such as life.
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Old 08-04-2009, 11:55 PM #220
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I dont think the friend zone really exists, and if it does, than I look at it as a blessing. Like seriously, all of my really close girl-friends (not gfs) end up falling in love with me. I dont get it but such as life.
Nah, there's definitely the friend zone. But only if she's a really close friend. To the point that you might as well be related.
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Old 08-05-2009, 01:22 AM #221
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my dilema.
im dating this chick, but theres this chick at work and she seems to be on my nuts at work and stuff. she is touching me, flirting with me, and is always by me at work. so i think she has a thing for me sorta. we chilled at her place till like 4 inthe morning and she was clinging to me and always touching me. we talked about everything (sex, tv, work, school, etc) and then she asked me if i ever cheated on a girl and i made the mistake of saying that i kinda want to cheat on her and then i had to leave. now she hasnt been texting me or talking to me. then she finally texted me and said that i wasnt as i expected. she doesnt like the fact that i wana cheat on my gf. what do i do to get her to i guess like me again sorta? i kinda wana try and get some.
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Old 08-05-2009, 01:33 AM #222
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Old 08-05-2009, 01:37 AM #223
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Old 08-05-2009, 01:37 AM #224
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In other news, im talkin to this chick on the phone that wont quit complaining about her life and her bad relationships...ive tried to help but she wont help me help her...im bout to give up
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Fml. I try to hard and fall on my face. I can't flirt to save my life either. I'm trying to get this one chick on a date but I think I'm being friended. I should prob just not talk to her for a while. Any advice?
first off. read the guide 10 damn times. stop giving a ****. dont think too much its not that hard.
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Old 08-05-2009, 01:39 AM #227
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Untrue.

I just had a 40$ plate of halibut and after-dinner head while watching family guy. I'm going to beat cod4 tonight, finally. I found my camera. 300$ paycheck rolls in the day after tomorrow.

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Old 08-05-2009, 01:51 AM #228
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freaks me the **** out. donno why.. gas masks just do that to me.
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Old 08-05-2009, 01:53 AM #229
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Okay, guys. I have quite an a story to tell which occurred to me tonight.

My friend comes over to my house to kick it, since it was his birthday yesterday, and we haven't seen each other in months. We play video games and decided to go to a little hangout spot for teens. (It's called the Promenade) and all that jazz. I wanted to meet my other friend of there, and we decided to go and blaze. We walk around, and happen to see my sisters and their boyfriends. We were blitzed out of our skulls, except my birthday friend.

We decided to walk home, because Adam (birthday boy) had to coach soccer early in the morning. My other friend Jordan had to go to acting class early in the morning, too. I'm just chilling tomorrow because I don't have work.

We walk home, and a two girls from Massachusetts are chilling in a car. They stopped up and introduced themselves. I then realized my high crept up on me out of nowhere and it will flowing through my head.

They asked we were high and I responded, "Well, i'm not going to lie to you, hahaha." They giggled. They asked we had bud on us, and I said, "Yeah, you wanna go blaze?" The left girl said they they brought some MS bud with them. Jordan said, "have you girls tried some cali weed?" "Yeah, we have some actually." .All of a sudden, their dad came out and said hell to us. He's this big *** white guy who looked like Bas Rutten, and was big as him. My friends step up, and I (and all of my good judgment ) walk up to him and give him a firm handshake and introduced him to myself. He was was like oh that's awesome. Where do you guys live. Adam said he lived far, and Jordan said he lived in a different part of our suburb. I, still being high, stated I lived in this general vicinity.

He's said, "Oh, nice. We're going to head up to Six Flags tomorrow."
Jordan replies, "X-2 is a ride to try."
I said, "Yeah, you'll be in one surprise."
The dad responded, "Oh, really? What's it like"

This is where I make a total *** of myself. Before I knew it, my high was at it's peak, and I realized that it was at the top of my head. I began to act it like a child who did not receive that much oxygen when it was little."

I replied, "Oh, man. It will freak you out, where they just strap you in and just beat the living jesus out of you so you won't fall." With this statement, I began to act like a retarded deaf child grabbing his chest senselessly, in a carefree manner. My friends looked at me as if they didn't have a clue what I was doing. I didn't know what I was talking about until I was done.

All of them, were laughing at my antics. To which I realize what the **** I had just done. The only thing I could think of was, "Why did I do that? Was I dropped on my head when I was a child " The father then stated he was going to take the girls that were going to eat. I exchanged numbers with the girls whose name was "Yvonna"

As soon as they left, I turned and waved back like an idiot to them . My friend looked at me and said, "YOU'RE AN IDIOT" I then realized what I have done, but I realized, why did this weed do this to me? Why did I act like this? I made a grade A total fool of myself and I admit it.

My only regret is that I kept my tongue held back. I believe this situation left me looking like a tool, an idiot, and moron who has no hopes in life. I admit I acted like an epitome of an moron. My friends told me to call them, when they text you. I said of course.

However, I'm very scared of their dad. Adam told me, when he first came out, "I took a step back and thought to myself, 'I could outrun him.'" Jordan said he scared the living **** out of him. I realized I was the only one who stood up to him, looked him in the eye, and introduced myself. I felt a sense of comfort when talking to him, though.

Yet, I must say I acted like a fool of myself. I believe the only thing I learned was to:

Hold my tongue
Comment slowly and calmly
have total respect for the parent
not be so outgoing (You want to show them you, but not the whole thing, right?)
and not to be so ****ing high in front of two girls, one dad, and one cousin who attends the college I want to go to.

So, OGT, I ask you. How do you think i handled that? I know my mistakes, and if I ruin it, I must not get myself now. I realized I haven't been in a relationship for 8 months nor haven't been approached randomly tonight while I was high. To be honest, I believe this is a start on how I should handle these rare situation.
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Old 08-05-2009, 01:56 AM #230
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Old 08-05-2009, 01:58 AM #231
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