[beater of angels]

Originally Posted by edudcixlsyd

Yup

Lol, nice delete .

[alex456]

just kill her.

[edudcixlsyd]

Oh yeah. I figured it wasn't anything important so I baleted it.

[Fulmination]

I'm thinking about it.

[IRPancake]

girlfriend kissed coworker today, we've been dating 2 years. told me 2 days ago she felt like she was missing out on being a teenager, yesterday i told her we should break up since she likes going out and partying and doing thing and im not into that stuff, she said she cant live a week without me and loves me and wants to be together, then today goes to the beach and kisses her coworker.

[pbman657v.2 (Banned)]

life is full of *****es.

"take what you can, give nothing back"

/jacksparrow

[alex456]

Originally Posted by IRPancake

girlfriend kissed coworker today, we've been dating 2 years. told me 2 days ago she felt like she was missing out on being a teenager, yesterday i told her we should break up since she likes going out and partying and doing thing and im not into that stuff, she said she cant live a week without me and loves me and wants to be together, then today goes to the beach and kisses her coworker.

Refer to above posts, this is what makes me such an *******. Kill or be killed hombre. Survival of the fittest, and I'll be damned if I'm the one crying at the end of the day.

[beater of angels]

Originally Posted by IRPancake

girlfriend kissed coworker today, we've been dating 2 years. told me 2 days ago she felt like she was missing out on being a teenager, yesterday i told her we should break up since she likes going out and partying and doing thing and im not into that stuff, she said she cant live a week without me and loves me and wants to be together, then today goes to the beach and kisses her coworker.

How does that make you feel?


No, seriously, how? Like, you say you suggested breaking up and doing your won things, but you still have feelings for her id imagine?

Seems like shes a bit confused in what she wants as well.

Originally Posted by alex456

Refer to above posts, this is what makes me such an *******. Kill or be killed hombre. Survival of the fittest, and I'll be damned if I'm the one crying at the end of the day.

... Just go with this actually.

[IRPancake]

I dont think I can stay with her, but irregardless its going to make trusting a girl very hard

[IRPancake]

beater, yea I suggested that, but its only because she expressed it this time, several times over a few days, I knew she meant it, theres no sense fighting it. If she really wants to split up and do her own thing, I can't stop her and althought I do love her, I can't force her to want to be with me. Shes brought up how she wanted to go to a club or a party and stuff like that a while ago. I know she wants to go out and have fun and not be tied down. As much as that sucks, its what she wants. Our story is a little more complicated than most dating stories and I dont want to bore you, but we should have really broken up a while ago when all these concerns initially came up, but our circumstances werent that great, she couldn't just move out or go live with someone

I'm not sure if her kissing her coworker was a ploy to have an excuse to breaking up, to get me mad about it instead of feeling bad. I know thats a stupid thought, but she told me how she did it before to her ex so that he would just be mad about it and forget about it, I dont know.

We've been living together for a year and a half, shes become a serious part of my life, we bought a dog together and everything, its going to take a long time to seperate everything and we'll most likely have to do it together, which is going to be awkward. She claims the kiss was like a peck like you would to a relative, but it doesn't matter, I told her something must have led up to that point for him to believe he was getting something. When she first told me she was going to the beach she said it was her friends boyfriends friend, not the actual name of the guy, which I knew his name. Then when she first told me she she kissed him she said she 'didn't exactly fight it', then it changed to "i didn't push him off as fast as i should have".

[beater of angels]

I find out that theres really no set time, or anything for someone to earn my trust. I trust very few people in fact, and its all because theyve done something, or some event in which made me trust them.

Trusting a girl just because shes your girlfriend is silly. (not at all saying thats what you're doing, just giving my opinion on the gen. idea)


Edit: ima step back and let someone else take this. Kinda above my exp. level/too tried to write out a helpful reply.

Good luck man, with whatever you decide to do.


Edit2: The fact that you mention she did the same thign with another ex to make him mad instead of sad, seems a little sketch to me..

[pbman657v.2 (Banned)]

i once trusted a girlfriend with my wallet (had around $120 cash), she ran off, never saw her again. :seriouslynododgy:

[IRPancake]

beater i appreciate the thoughts, regardless of whether you think they're helpful or not, its just nice knowing someone even gives a **** anymore. Funny thing is a couple days ago she said she would never cheat on me (in one of the conversations when i said she wanted to go out and meet people and do stuff).

I actually knew her several years before we started dating, we liked each other but never did anything about it, we started talking again and hit it off, never thought anything liek this would happen. life throws you curveballs I guess

[alex456]

Originally Posted by IRPancake

I dont think I can stay with her, but irregardless its going to make trusting a girl very hard

I won't trust **** 100% until I'm married.

[IRPancake]

well we were planning on that in a few years, so I guess not even then right

[BenZ]

Originally Posted by IRPancake

beater, yea I suggested that, but its only because she expressed it this time, several times over a few days, I knew she meant it, theres no sense fighting it. If she really wants to split up and do her own thing, I can't stop her and althought I do love her, I can't force her to want to be with me. Shes brought up how she wanted to go to a club or a party and stuff like that a while ago. I know she wants to go out and have fun and not be tied down. As much as that sucks, its what she wants. Our story is a little more complicated than most dating stories and I dont want to bore you, but we should have really broken up a while ago when all these concerns initially came up, but our circumstances werent that great, she couldn't just move out or go live with someone

I'm not sure if her kissing her coworker was a ploy to have an excuse to breaking up, to get me mad about it instead of feeling bad. I know thats a stupid thought, but she told me how she did it before to her ex so that he would just be mad about it and forget about it, I dont know.

We've been living together for a year and a half, shes become a serious part of my life, we bought a dog together and everything, its going to take a long time to seperate everything and we'll most likely have to do it together, which is going to be awkward. She claims the kiss was like a peck like you would to a relative, but it doesn't matter, I told her something must have led up to that point for him to believe he was getting something. When she first told me she was going to the beach she said it was her friends boyfriends friend, not the actual name of the guy, which I knew his name. Then when she first told me she she kissed him she said she 'didn't exactly fight it', then it changed to "i didn't push him off as fast as i should have".

Sounds like my ex

i would ****ing dump the **** out of her after i saw the kiss but that's me .......

cant be anyone that wants to kiss or do things like that to anyone but me >.<

[alex456]

Originally Posted by IRPancake

well we were planning on that in a few years, so I guess not even then right

You need to re-think your view on life, you honestly believe it's all roses and rainbows.

[IRPancake]

I just got betrayed by someone I loved and trusted fully, what do you want from me?

[alex456]

Nothing. It's too late, accept that you placed too much trust in the wrong place and move on.

[BenZ]

Originally Posted by IRPancake

I just got betrayed by someone I loved and trusted fully, what do you want from me?

move along and dump her man if she loved the way you do for her she wouldn't have done **** like that

there's a right girl for you somewhere that wont do that

[IRPancake]

true