Originally Posted by maddermaxx
Yea, I'll probably just go with my original "plan" I'm going to just wing it when I actually do it so it doesn't seem planned. But the idea is when I'm talking to her, and her or I are about to walk away be like "Hey, give me your number before we leave tonight"
Then if there's any awkwardness we can just continue on our ways. Or, hopefully.. She will stop and just give it to me then.
Duuuude, no. You can't get her number "just because"...that way it'll just be weird, and put tons of pressure on the act itself.
What I usually do is, when I'm talking to a girl, and we're both laughing and having fun and I feel like I want to see her again, is say something like: "You seem like a fun person, we should go out for coffee..."
If you did it at the right time when she's having fun, she will always agree with you, that's when I take out my phone and hand it to her while saying: "Ok just give me your number and we'll do it sometime this week."
Also there are a couple of funny lines you can memorize that help to take the awkwardness out of the moment she gives you her number, when you're putting her name in after she gave you the number, you can make a little fun of her name or say: "You're not going to have one of those really weird names, now are you?" or when you're giving her your number you can say: "You DO know how to spell gorgeous right?" or something like that.
The key here is to keep her laughing and that will make the move smooth and effortless. And she will notice it and give you points for it. Trust me on this.
And seriously, it's really not that big of a deal.
Have this game plan in mind: Go out there, talk to her, fluff a little, get her laughing and having fun, and when you notice that the conversation is at a high point of energy, just throw it out there: "You seem like a fun person to hang out with, but I only ever see you here at work for like 20 seconds at a time. We should get coffee one day so I can find out if you're as cool as you seem, or just good at pretending.
" (This is just a line I came up with, use your own off the top of your head. It'll work better, and the delivery will be better.)
If you did it with the right timing, there's no way she won't play along. Because if you make a big deal out of it, your behaviour will reflect that, and girls are experts in detecting those sort of cues, and she will get a bad vibe from you.
Good luck buddy, you won't need it though.
Originally Posted by babsa_90
Im having a problem with it too. I just dont want to ask her for her number while were at work. It just seems like a totally retarded time to ask for it. I was actually going to ask for her number today after work. But she was giving a co-worker a ride. But i used that time wisely to flirt with said co-worker in front of the girl i liked.
Again, don't make a big deal out of it man, it's just a girl, and it's just a number. It's not like you're not getting married...
Originally Posted by maddermaxx
Yea, I know.. Like I said, I'm probably not even going to say anything that I've thought of saying..
Chill. Read my post above.