[Јon]

So, what's your question...?

[stinman101]

there was no question, just thought ud all like to hear my story.

sorry, lol.

[Јon]

This is the Girl Problem Thread, not the Girl Story Thread.

[Sno.Man]

Originally Posted by |Simplicity|

thank god that one is over

ditto

[ULOST]

Originally Posted by RSK<3

Well, she hooked up with 3 guys at the dance. It was a side I never saw, and the excuse she gave me was "I thought you were mad at me." Pfft, **** that haha. Her freind told me all of it saturday night so I called the girl last night and it was the best feeling letting her know what was up. I told her I didn't even feel like ****, I just told her to not talk to me again, and to not make up some bull**** excuse;aka stuck it to her. Not too mention, I met the cutest girl saturday who is into me, and she's not ****ty

So by saying she "hooked up" with these three guys you mean having sex or what?
Damn the words "hook up" to me they can mean two things:
-Having sex
-making out
Ive seen it used the same way and have a different meaning. lol

[|Simplicity|]

Yeah I'm happy' its over because all of the spam and useless posting but its seeming to come back up..

Oh and to ubermoob .. Edit your posts you don't need to quadruple post like I saw you doin in the last one

[HateHKLove]

Originally Posted by theubernoob

i'd wait till valentines day and give her a valentine or some candy or something. if you got her something for christmas now or just a random present i think it'd be a little weird.

so just wait till the next holiday to return the favor

yoo..if you remember what we were tlaking about, her reply i just got was:
"aww thats cute and jamie there r tons of other girls that u will have way more in common with and will be perfect for you. and omg i wasnt trying to say u were taking the fun oout of my senior yeart at all!! i just ment....i dunno im really not good with relationships as soon as it reach a certain point i freak out im sorry it had absoloutly NOTHING to do with u at all.ahhhh holy **** i feel like an *** but i really think us being friends would be wayy better, you were and are really special to me too i dont see how us just being friends will change that .cause i completely LOVE my friends there the most important thing in my life..i want that with you..but like i said the rest is up too you "
The only thing i could sy when i reading it was "Bull****"
I dunno what im gonna say back it's not even worth replying. she's like focused on being friend..thats never gonna ****ing work.

[|Simplicity|]

Originally Posted by ULOST

So by saying she "hooked up" with these three guys you mean having sex or what?
Damn the words "hook up" to me they can mean two things:
-Having sex
-making out
Ive seen it used the same way and have a different meaning. lol

usually At a dance it means making out.. I can't copy and past otherwise I'd edit my post but hopefully the new iPhone patch does something for that.. Uh

Goodjob on letting the girl know though; I wouldve done the same thing.. I would have been more crucial and to the point.. Ie:
'don't talk to me, if that's how you're gonna he when you think I am mad at you.. Then your not worth taking the time to talk to' I wouldn't have said anything to he lines of sucking up because this point you have her on the best lead on of her life for doing you dirty like that..

You can get her back in more ways then one, and it provides as a term of jealousy for the other girl to feel competition to win you over.

[|Simplicity|]

Originally Posted by HateHKLove

yoo..if you remember what we were tlaking about, her reply i just got was:
"aww thats cute and jamie there r tons of other girls that u will have way more in common with and will be perfect for you. and omg i wasnt trying to say u were taking the fun oout of my senior yeart at all!! i just ment....i dunno im really not good with relationships as soon as it reach a certain point i freak out im sorry it had absoloutly NOTHING to do with u at all.ahhhh holy **** i feel like an *** but i really think us being friends would be wayy better, you were and are really special to me too i dont see how us just being friends will change that .cause i completely LOVE my friends there the most important thing in my life..i want that with you..but like i said the rest is up too you "
The only thing i could sy when i reading it was "Bull****"
I dunno what im gonna say back it's not even worth replying. she's like focused on being friend..thats never gonna ****ing work.

dude messages are.. Kinds lame they are a last resort option.. Honestly, its time for you to back off her and get out of her life and basically find someone else

You got friendzonedowned

Edit: last resort meaning don't do that unless you have no other means to get to her

[HateHKLove]

I know it's over ive accepted that. i got friend zoned so hard, a 2 month relationship with sex and she says im like a brother to her. what the ****? Oh she jsut changer her facebook status to "wtf i miss u... im so confuzed"

I also realized she has no idea what she actually wants. she says she doesnt want a relationship and dating is overrated and all that **** and then she says dumb stuff like that facebook status.

[theubernoob]

Originally Posted by |Simplicity|

Yeah I'm happy' its over because all of the spam and useless posting but its seeming to come back up..

Oh and to ubermoob .. Edit your posts you don't need to quadruple post like I saw you doin in the last one

lol yeah.... but its so much easier just to hit the quick quote button and do like 5 different posts.

asm ftw.


edit (i guess i'll try it out lol)

Originally Posted by HateHKLove

I know it's over ive accepted that. i got friend zoned so hard, a 2 month relationship with sex and she says im like a brother to her. what the ****? Oh she jsut changer her facebook status to "wtf i miss u... im so confuzed"

I also realized she has no idea what she actually wants. she says she doesnt want a relationship and dating is overrated and all that **** and then she says dumb stuff like that facebook status.

dude, i was with a chick like yours and it was nothing but mixed signals and let downs..... i would just completely forget about it for a bit, find some other girls. maybe she'll realize she wants to be with you, but don't wait on her. go do your own thing. and like, i wouldn't even talk to her that much, just forget about her for a few months/ever

[PMRipper69]

Originally Posted by HateHKLove

I know it's over ive accepted that. i got friend zoned so hard, a 2 month relationship with sex and she says im like a brother to her. what the ****? Oh she jsut changer her facebook status to "wtf i miss u... im so confuzed"

I also realized she has no idea what she actually wants. she says she doesnt want a relationship and dating is overrated and all that **** and then she says dumb stuff like that facebook status.

1. Shes ****ing weird if she thinks you're like a brother to her if u guys had sex..

2. Facebook is gay

3. Forget her

[Sno.Man]

Originally Posted by HateHKLove

I know it's over ive accepted that. i got friend zoned so hard, a 2 month relationship with sex and she says im like a brother to her. what the ****? Oh she jsut changer her facebook status to "wtf i miss u... im so confuzed"

I also realized she has no idea what she actually wants. she says she doesnt want a relationship and dating is overrated and all that **** and then she says dumb stuff like that facebook status.

id run right there.

[Deadly Milk Man (Banned)]

how can you tell if someone is lying about having sex?.. there's 3 kids in my class talkin about places they had sex and i believe 2 of em but theres 1 guy who im not sure lol

[SnIpErBaIt7]

skeet skeet. what number are we on here? Hopefully i will be around more for this thread than the last one.

[small-talk-noob]

We are currently on V.17

Hopefully i won't be involved with this one much haha. Im a bit worried about my girlfriend losing interest in me, but i think im just being paranoid.

[HOBOBOB]

just want an opinion...so this girl that I wasn't *officially* dating (we made out and I got her partially naked [she still had panties on ]) and we went out on weekends and junk..she told me she wasn't ready for a relationship kind of thing and me being the ******* I am went along with it and of course i get ****ed over...her ex boyfriend (whos shes gotten back together with 9 times now and every time when it ends she talks about how he hurt her so bad kind of thing..so shes obviously wrapped around his finger and i guess i was just plan B till he came back) asked her back out i guess and today she tells me shes going out with him...now she wants to stay friends and keep me around and junk, but I think it might be more trouble than its worth for me since i still have feelings for her, and i don't think i could settle for hanging out as strictly a friend... idk if she'd cheat on him or not, and if she did and he found out i'd deal with it, but do u guys think its worth it or should i just move on?

[MOTORHEAD]

Originally Posted by small-talk-noob

We are currently on V.17

Hopefully i won't be involved with this one much haha. Im a bit worried about my girlfriend losing interest in me, but i think im just being paranoid.

Usually thats it. I know i am paranoid a lot over my girlfriend but i deal with it on my own time and she never sees it.

[MOTORHEAD]

Originally Posted by HOBOBOB

just want an opinion...so this girl that I wasn't *officially* dating (we made out and I got her partially naked [she still had panties on ]) and we went out on weekends and junk..she told me she wasn't ready for a relationship kind of thing and me being the ******* I am went along with it and of course i get ****ed over...her ex boyfriend (whos shes gotten back together with 9 times now and every time when it ends she talks about how he hurt her so bad kind of thing..so shes obviously wrapped around his finger and i guess i was just plan B till he came back) asked her back out i guess and today she tells me shes going out with him...now she wants to stay friends and keep me around and junk, but I think it might be more trouble than its worth for me since i still have feelings for her, and i don't think i could settle for hanging out as strictly a friend... idk if she'd cheat on him or not, and if she did and he found out i'd deal with it, but do u guys think its worth it or should i just move on?

Move on my man. Why be number 2 for a girl who is just using you to fulfill her own emotional needs, when you could be number one with another girl who will make you much happier than the first girl ever could.

[small-talk-noob]

Originally Posted by MOTORHEAD

Usually thats it. I know i am paranoid a lot over my girlfriend but i deal with it on my own time and she never sees it.

Yeah, ill feel like she doesn't want to talk to me or something, but then ill decide to text her anyway and i get the impression she is happy i texted her. Its messing with my mind like crazy though, because i am paranoid as **** about everything. I wouldn't be surprised if i had some medically legitimate anxiety issues.

[HOBOBOB]

Originally Posted by MOTORHEAD

Move on my man. Why be number 2 for a girl who is just using you to fulfill her own emotional needs, when you could be number one with another girl who will make you much happier than the first girl ever could.

Danke
thats what i was thinking..she wants me to meet her outside tomorrow..i think im gonna show up..but do u think i should tell her that i won't/can't be her #2 or should i just not show? or any other idea?