[dholmblad]

Met this girl through a friend of mine. We have been going out on dates and hanging out at her house for about three weeks. She always played with her hair and did other stuff when I was around her so I knew she was into me. Well she has been sick for about a week in and out of the hospital, during that week we talked on the phone and txt quite a bit. fast forward to the last 5 days. I call her to see if she wants to do something the next day, she says yes and sound excited about it and says she will call after work. Well 3 days go by, no call. And at this point I dont really feel like calling her if she is going to play games with me.

so st, what do i do... if any of that made sense.

[MidnightPurple_Blunt]

txt her

[dholmblad]

eh, I did two days ago. Didn't get a response...

and say what, you hvnt responded to any of my txts what the hell is going on?...... eh prob not a good idea

[toastersrcool]

Originally Posted by dholmblad

Met this girl through a friend of mine. We have been going out on dates and hanging out at her house for about three weeks. She always played with her hair and did other stuff when I was around her so I knew she was into me. Well she has been sick for about a week in and out of the hospital, during that week we talked on the phone and txt quite a bit. fast forward to the last 5 days. I call her to see if she wants to do something the next day, she says yes and sound excited about it and says she will call after work. Well 3 days go by, no call. And at this point I dont really feel like calling her if she is going to play games with me.

so st, what do i do... if any of that made sense.

it doesnt really sound like a **** test so, you could call her.

Either way don't make it a big deal that she forgot because you don't want her to think that you took it way too seriously. Just be calm and understanding, but make sure you neg her......quite a bit

[komodo_117]

God damn my freinds know how to ruin a good ****ing moment.

I am on a completely new tier of pissed off right now that I cant even begin to explain.

[Jae.C]

Originally Posted by komodo_117

God damn my freinds know how to ruin a good ****ing moment.

I am on a completely new tier of pissed off right now that I cant even begin to explain.

What did they do?


Depends what he did, get him back. Don't be ruthless though hahaha.

[komodo_117]

Just pissing me off and annoying me all ****ing day, rippin on me, sack-tapping me, random forceful slaps to the back (no shirt on), hittin me in the face randomly.

Then when they decided to leave when I was hanging out with my girl...without telling me. And being ****ing pricks about it, too. Like, ruthless stupid *******s. Totally killed any moment I had with her, and she got to see my wonderful pissed off, half-throwing my phone across the fair side of me.

That's all I'll say though, cause one of them visits these boards, cause I am trying to help him improve his game.

[Euouae]

Originally Posted by komodo_117

Just pissing me off and annoying me all ****ing day, rippin on me, sack-tapping me, random forceful slaps to the back (no shirt on), hittin me in the face randomly.

Then when they decided to leave when I was hanging out with my girl...without telling me. And being ****ing pricks about it, too. Like, ruthless stupid *******s. Totally killed any moment I had with her, and she got to see my wonderful pissed off, half-throwing my phone across the fair side of me.

That's all I'll say though, cause one of them visits these boards, cause I am trying to help him improve his game.

I don't know how pissed off you were... sounds like alot but that is a good opportunity to prove that your a better guy than alot of pricks out there. Your DHVing them I guess, but without even trying to heh.

[Jae.C]

Originally Posted by komodo_117

Just pissing me off and annoying me all ****ing day, rippin on me, sack-tapping me, random forceful slaps to the back (no shirt on), hittin me in the face randomly.

Then when they decided to leave when I was hanging out with my girl...without telling me. And being ****ing pricks about it, too. Like, ruthless stupid *******s. Totally killed any moment I had with her, and she got to see my wonderful pissed off, half-throwing my phone across the fair side of me.

That's all I'll say though, cause one of them visits these boards, cause I am trying to help him improve his game.

I'd be pissed, too, if they were doing that. Slaps piss me off so much; not so much about the sting they leave but because it seems degrading. They were being douchebags, I hoped you tooled them all day.

EDIT: Next time don't even get mad. Just block out all the things they say to you until they get annoyed and lose their cool.

[Jae.C]

Originally Posted by Euouae

I don't know how pissed off you were... sounds like alot but that is a good opportunity to prove that your a better guy than alot of pricks out there. Your DHVing them I guess, but without even trying to heh.

Those "pricks" are his friends, though.

[Euouae]

Originally Posted by Jae.C

Those "pricks" are his friends, though.

True...
My point is he doesnt need to act like that... he's not as immature or whatever you want to call it like them. They may be his friends but if they're acting like jackasses then ignore them...

[Jae.C]

Originally Posted by Euouae

True...
My point is he doesnt need to act like that... he's not as immature or whatever you want to call it like them. They may be his friends but if they're acting like jackasses then ignore them...

Yeah, I totally agree with you.

Just look of it this way. You're the one who can get girls, you have a girlfriend. They were acting like a bunch of morons who are jealous because they can't get girls.

[komodo_117]

Oh, trust me, I didn't do **** in return. I grinned and took it. It was unbearably degrading though, and pissed me of SOOOOO bad.

The one thing that really hit a nerve with me, after pointing out that a girl was checking me out at the amusement park:

"Yea, well, least we don't go to the internet for advice!"

lol. Yea...so you're just going to be the stubborn little arrogant fool that you are, and settle for the little ****s from the next town over that'll **** anything with two legs, and have the nerve to call me out on using people who'm I have come to know as better freinds, that know a LOT more about gaming women, for advice?

Great logic you dip****. Have fun with your incredibly low standards.

[Jae.C]

Haha, the last paragraph made me laugh.

Yeah, people can be douchebags about this thread just because its something that can be found on the internet thus making it totally unreal and doesn't give real advice that works? Right? Obviously thats true.

[komodo_117]

Exactly. God knows how much this place has helped shaped my life, and how many people I have helped change on here.

Idk. Whatever. I dont really care about it. Let them think whatever they want to. I have better stuff to do. Like go to bed and figure out how I am going to hang out with someone tomorrow night, even though I cant stay at her house, she cant stay at mine, and the party we were going to stay at is now cancelled. Bleh...

[Jae.C]

In year and a couple months, this thread and a few people have changed my life. I kind of wonder what I would still be like if I hadn't came upon this thread when it first started.

EDIT:

Where you live, is there alot of public beaches? If there are, get a quick party together at a beach.

I once put a party together with alot of people the night before.

[fireisgood4u]

Originally Posted by Jae.C

Haha, the last paragraph made me laugh.

Yeah, people can be douchebags about this thread just because its something that can be found on the internet thus making it totally unreal and doesn't give real advice that works? Right? Obviously thats true.

That's why you don't tell your friends your a member of a girladvice thread/forum. I've mentioned PUA a few times to a buddy or two...and most ate up any advice I gave them.

[Moose213]

You think going to the gym for a 1st date would be ok?
She has a membership and I know she likes working out and so do I so is that good?

[dholmblad]

Originally Posted by toastersrcool

it doesnt really sound like a **** test so, you could call her.

Either way don't make it a big deal that she forgot because you don't want her to think that you took it way too seriously. Just be calm and understanding, but make sure you neg her......quite a bit

Im not clingy at all, just annoys me when people say they are going to do things. and they dont

[TNelson]

If you both enjoy it, then yes

Edit: response to 2 posts up about th gym

[|Simplicity|]

Originally Posted by Moose213

You think going to the gym for a 1st date would be ok?
She has a membership and I know she likes working out and so do I so is that good?

Uh, possibly. I wanna see how you would pull off being all sweaty and ****. Maybe go on a serious date first then go to the gym with her.