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Old 11-19-2006, 02:10 AM #1
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The *OFFICIAL* GIRL PROBLEM thread

I'm tired of all your threads.

From now on please post your problem here and wait for an answer.

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I've posted a very good write-up on developing "game" if you have none. It was too long to edit into here, so just click the link and read it.
http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...4#post23173234



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Some mentioned this on Page 1 and I think it would be a great idea. They said something about compiling a FAQ of the best posts. I don't think that would be a half bad idea.

So from now on I propose that if you think a post should be highlighted, as sort of a basic thing to know for anyone visiting this thread, let me know. I will edit this post with that post.

If you think this is a good idea, of course.

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*Official Girl Problem Thread* Library

OGPT Version 1: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=1529791
OGPT Version 2: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=1691845
OGPT Version 3: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=1773113

******* vs. AMOG vs. AFC (Bleachednblonde) Post #221: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=1529791&page=6
Basic Game (Bleachednblonde) Post #368: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...529791&page=10
Friend Trap (Bleachednblonde) Post #487: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...529791&page=13
Kiss-Close (t_mo) Post #827: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...529791&page=21
Basic Game (Other Webforum) Post #986-987: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...529791&page=25
Confidence (The Dread Pirate) Post #1364: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...529791&page=35
Basic Game (TuckerMax.com) Post #1402; 1404: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...529791&page=36
Group Theory (Bleachednblonde) Post #63: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=1691845&page=2
Physical Contact/Kino (Bleachednblonde) Post #662: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...691845&page=17
Step-by-step Game (t_mo) Post #787: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...691845&page=20
3 Quick Pointers (Bleachednblonde) Post #817: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...691845&page=21
More General Advice (Bleachednblonde) Post #824: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...691845&page=21
Grabbing the Rebound (Bleachednblonde) Post #1772: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...691845&page=45
Ideas For Dates (Bleachednblonde) Post #127: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=1773113&page=4
Pickup=Engineering (Bleachednblonde) Post #275: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=1773113&page=7
Best Analysis Ever/Escalate Flirting (Bleachednblonde) Post #358: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=1773113&page=9
Dating (t_mo) Post #538: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=14
Beginner's Guide to Game (TuckerMax.com- no registration required) http://messageboard.tuckermax.com/showthread.php?t=1260
Approaching/Signals (Bleachednblonde) Post #909: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=23
Cocky/Funny (Nips) Post #993: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=25
Confidense/Cocky/Funny vs. Arrogance (Bleachednblonde) Post #1215: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=31
Newbie Mission (Harlequin) Post #1237: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=31
IOI List (mysterymethod.com- registration required) http://www.mysterymethod.com/forum/s...&highlight=IOI
Cocky/Funny and Calibration (Bobeo) Post #1337: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=34
Kiss-Close (t_mo) Post #1386: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=35
Pick-up Timeline (Bleachednblonde) Post #1413: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=36
Confidence/Body Language (Bobeo) Post #1558: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=39
One Night Stands (Bleachednblonde) Post#1781: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=45
Boyfriend Destroyers (Tyler Durden@ mysterymethod.com- registration required): http://www.mysterymethod.com/forum/showthread.php?t=96
Signs/Lack of Signs (Bleachednblonde) Post #1994: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=50


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Old 11-19-2006, 02:12 AM #2
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Silly, we already have one of these threads!
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i dont understand why system closes it at like 2k45 posts not at 2k flat.
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Old 11-19-2006, 02:13 AM #4
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Old 11-19-2006, 02:15 AM #5
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Ok so if you're talking to a girl and you catch her glancing out your package, and then she kind of says stuff that is kind of... "out of place" does it mean she wanna get ya?

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Old 11-19-2006, 02:19 AM #7
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since this is first page, ill think ill share my problem to kick it off.

Iight. so i ended up falling for my best friend (). Its pretty obvious that we are never gonna go out, ( weve talked about it) but i still like her. I messed up for falling my my friend, damn did i mess that up. anything to help me get over her faster?
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Old 11-19-2006, 02:21 AM #8
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since this is first page, ill think ill share my problem.

Iight. so i ended up falling for my best friend (). Its pretty obvious that we are never gonna go out, ( weve talked about it) but i still like her. I messed up for falling my my friend, damn did i mess that up. anything to help me get over her faster?

Stuff it in your head that it's never going to work out, never fantasize about dating her and doing anything with her, because it's only going to make it worse, trust me, I fell for my best friend, and it went pretty ugly on my side, we're still best friends, but it gets bad if you let it.
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Stuff it in your head that it's never going to work out, never fantasize about dating her and doing anything with her, because it's only going to make it worse, trust me, I fell for my best friend, and it went pretty ugly on my side, we're still best friends, but it gets bad if you let it.
Yeah, i know exactly what your talking about. I am pretty sure i went through the toughest parts already, but it still creeps up on me.

whenever i find myself fantasizing i just repeat the words in my head " yeah, thats never going to happen."
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Old 11-19-2006, 02:28 AM #10
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since this is first page, ill think ill share my problem.

Iight. so i ended up falling for my best friend (). Its pretty obvious that we are never gonna go out, ( weve talked about it) but i still like her. I messed up for falling my my friend, damn did i mess that up. anything to help me get over her faster?
Nothing to it but to do it. Just realize that you are young and that there's alot of other girls that will catch your interest.

Also, if you've never been in a serious, committed relationship, you must learn to distinguish the differences between love and infatuation.
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Nothing to it but to do it. Just realize that you are young and that there's alot of other girls that will catch your interest.

Also, if you've never been in a serious, committed relationship, you must learn to distinguish the differences between love and infatuation.
Oh i already know that i am infatuated, but thanks though.
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Old 11-19-2006, 02:34 AM #12
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Oh i already know that i am infatuated, but thanks though.
Well just making sure because you used the words "falling for", which I would infer as meaning love.

I am in a similar situation as you, and I know what you mean about trying to keep the thoughts out of your head. Yet, with me, my thoughts aren't sexual at all, in fact they are far from it. But before I get too off-topic, just give it time and I'm sure you will eventually get over her. I know that's not the answer you wanted but it will take time before someone else will catch your interest.
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So theres a girl, quite popular and what not. I've got one class with her, but she sits way on the other side of class. Whats the best way to strike up a conversation with her?
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So theres a girl, quite popular and what not. I've got one class with her, but she sits way on the other side of class. Whats the best way to strike up a conversation with her?
ask if you can pass out paper when needed to, and when you get to her do something special.
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alright this has happened before to me with the same chick. first of all let me tell you i already know how much of a dumb *** i am for getting with this chick multiple times. we have been off and on for the past 9 months. every time we get back together she tells me she wants to wait for sex. we will be making out and i can totally read her mind during these situations, i have no idea during other things. i can tell she wants more and i ask her so. she will either say "sure" get up and walk to my room, or will go and get a condom. the very next day she will tell me off saying "you knew i didn't want that!" well i am getting sick of it but im pretty sure i love her because i have put up with her bull**** for so long and still want to be "sitting behind the fan" basically. i know this also proves women's minds get cloudy when they are horny so theres something for science lol.

what can i do to get her to be more honest or less flip-flopping in what she wants?

or am i stuck behind the fan and have to ride the **** out when it hits?
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alright this has happened before to me with the same chick. first of all let me tell you i already know how much of a dumb *** i am for getting with this chick multiple times. we have been off and on for the past 9 months. every time we get back together she tells me she wants to wait for sex. we will be making out and i can totally read her mind during these situations, i have no idea during other things. i can tell she wants more and i ask her so. she will either say "sure" get up and walk to my room, or will go and get a condom. the very next day she will tell me off saying "you knew i didn't want that!" well i am getting sick of it but im pretty sure i love her because i have put up with her bull**** for so long and still want to be "sitting behind the fan" basically. i know this also proves women's minds get cloudy when they are horny so theres something for science lol.

what can i do to get her to be more honest or less flip-flopping in what she wants?

or am i stuck behind the fan and have to ride the **** out when it hits?
Next time you **** her and she calls the next day tell her off. And you don't love her, that's your dick talking. She's just being a *****. Maybe if she was drunk or something she would have a reason to be pissed, but if she's completely sober it's her own god damn decision.
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Next time you **** her and she calls the next day tell her off. And you don't love her, that's your dick talking. She's just being a *****. Maybe if she was drunk or something she would have a reason to be pissed, but if she's completely sober it's her own god damn decision.
QFT she's not worth your trouble from the sounds of it.
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Ok so my ex and I have been broken up for about 5 months. We chatted a lot on MSN but never really hung out. But the last few weeks she's been really wanting to hang out. I came home from college this weekend (she's a hs junior, I'm a college freshman), and she called and said I should come visit her because she's bored at work. So I do, and she invites me to a party at a friends house. We hang out there, and I kinda notice she glances at me a lot and tries being close to me. Later that night when everyone from the party was running around town doing stupid stuff, she just wanted to sit in my vehicle and talk/listen to music. When I dropped her off at her house we kissed (tongue included...) for about 30 seconds. Later that night we were chatting on MSN and she said she still has feelings for me, but she doesn't know what to think...........my question is........WTF?
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ok, my problem is... i met this girl, her name's devin, about a week ago, and we ended up makin out over at my house... anyway, last night, me and one of my frat brothers go out with her and one of her sisters, morgan (my frat brother dates morgan)... anyway, we go to the bar, and she's being nice to me and ****, but then she walks off for a while, and one of her other sisters named laine comes up to me and we start dancing, and she starts grindin on me and stuff, so me and her start talkin... anyway, turns out they got a formal in like 2 weeks, and the laine asks me to go with her... even tho she knows i've kinda been talkin to devin... then she tells me devin has a guy she has kinda been dating, but he works off shore on a rig...

so anyway... i ended up goin home with devin, but i got laine's number... asked devin about the other dude, she confirmed it, but said the were 'just talking'... and we ended up sleeping together... so i dunno if maybe she's into me, or maybe she's just bein shady and wanted some penis since her man is out of town... but laine was texting me before me and devin went to bed last night, but after we left the bar, and said she wanted to get to know me better and all since she just met me... and i'm kinda interested too. so should i go to the formal with laine? or should i continue up the road of easy *** until it very likely explodes in my face? keep in mind the two girls are sorority sisters, so messin up the deal could end up with me looking bad to thier sorority, and that would basically screw up my chances with any of the girls in that sorority...

so... any intelligent advice?

*edit... forgot to mention... and this is thinking with my small head here, but laine is alot better looking IMO than devin. devin is a kinda plain lookin brunette, but she has nice boobs... sloppy kisser tho... laine is a blonde, smaller boobs but better body overall, definitly hotter than devin.
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