[pb4life110]

do you really have to ask that again? thought I already answered up this page a bit... :cofused:

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Originally Posted by pb4life110

Hmmm... this has to be the first time I dont like what you say... I dont want to be just friends with benefits... yeah it would be cool... but meh...

Well then move on without her. Life is too short for re-runs. I'll be honest with you, when relationships don't work out the first time, rairly do they work out the 2nd, 3rd or 4th time. Because let's be honest, you can't really "start over." The past will always be there and people always have a tendancy to fall back into their old habbits

[12345421]

Originally Posted by pb4life110

do you really have to ask that again? thought I already answered up this page a bit... :cofused:

Oh, I missed it. I say go for it. You have nothing to lose.

[pb4life110]

Im going to go for it... I know even if it doesnt work out we will always be friends...

[GK @ dgs (Banned)]

Heh, I'm not going to CFOA so now I'm going to my Homecoming dance. Friends and pimp it, or with the a girl that likes me and I know that I'll get some?

[Bobeo]

OK, I am confused as hell. I have come along way in regards to talking to women and just being better around them in general in the past couple of months. But unfortnately I can still rarely know what they are thinking.

OK, there is this girl at school, we will call her J. I met J last year and was immediately attracted to her, whatever. Being the ***** I was last year, I never tried to hook her. As a result, I fell into the friend trap. OK, this year, I figure I have a great friend who is hot (she is the one supposedly hookin gme up with a friend of hers). So good deal I am thinking. I would still like a relationship with J, but I am not going to pursue it because I am afriad it will mess up what we have now.

OK, for the past couple weeks she has been giving me these signals. I figure she is just playing around, not really meaning anything by it. Honestly, I did get a little excited because I was thinking "maybe she wants a relationship too." Then this week she tellsme she is oging to introduce me to her friend.

This brings me back to the conclusion that she just wants to be friends. But the signals/flirting still persist!

Today I went to a bonfire after school for homecoming and a good friend of J's randomly walks up to me and tells me I should call her to come to the bonfire. Out of nowhere. Now, while this girl and I say hello in the halls and at parties (this is actually the Jessica Alba look-alike I talked about in a previous post) I would never approach her like that. It makes me wonder what J is talking about to her friends.

I am so lost. I think I am in the LJBF zone, and then it appears I might not be, abd then it reverses two more times.

Girls need to stop throwing signals out at every opportunity.

EDIT: Reading what I wrote the girl walking up to me and telling me to call J sounds like a very little thing but the it was said made it seem "weird." I can't rrally explain it except it seemed to me like she was hinting to me that J wanted me.

[12345421]

Originally Posted by Bobeo

OK, I am confused as hell. I have come along way in regards to talking to women and just being better around them in general in the past couple of months. But unfortnately I can still rarely know what they are thinking.

OK, there is this girl at school, we will call her J. I met J last year and was immediately attracted to her, whatever. Being the ***** I was last year, I never tried to hook her. As a result, I fell into the friend trap. OK, this year, I figure I have a great friend who is hot (she is the one supposedly hookin gme up with a friend of hers). So good deal I am thinking. I would still like a relationship with J, but I am not going to pursue it because I am afriad it will mess up what we have now.

OK, for the past couple weeks she has been giving me these signals. I figure she is just playing around, not really meaning anything by it. Honestly, I did get a little excited because I was thinking "maybe she wants a relationship too." Then this week she tellsme she is oging to introduce me to her friend.

This brings me back to the conclusion that she just wants to be friends. But the signals/flirting still persist!

Today I went to a bonfire after school for homecoming and a good friend of J's randomly walks up to me and tells me I should call her to come to the bonfire. Out of nowhere. Now, while this girl and I say hello in the halls and at parties (this is actually the Jessica Alba look-alike I talked about in a previous post) I would never approach her like that. It makes me wonder what J is talking about to her friends.

I am so lost. I think I am in the LJBF zone, and then it appears I might not be, abd then it reverses two more times.

Girls need to stop throwing signals out at every opportunity.

EDIT: Reading what I wrote the girl walking up to me and telling me to call J sounds like a very little thing but the it was said made it seem "weird." I can't rrally explain it except it seemed to me like she was hinting to me that J wanted me.

Just wait it out. Wait for her to come to you. Never trust her friends, I made that mistake.

Originally Posted by GK @ dgs

Heh, I'm not going to CFOA so now I'm going to my Homecoming dance. Friends and pimp it, or with the a girl that likes me and I know that I'll get some?

What are you ****ing retarded or do you think you're being e-cool by saying that you know you're going to get some? Hooking up with a hot girl > Hanging out with your friends.

Any guy is going to pick ***** before his friends if they're just chilling and stuff. But if you friends were in a crisis and you ditched them for a girl, then that would be a whole different story.

[Bobeo]

But I wasn't really trusting her friends. Her friend just made some strange comment out of the blue, which when dded with her suddenly flirting with me has me thinking.

But then again, why would you try and hook your friend up with someone you are interested in? That doesn't make sense.

[felicityrose]

*sigh*

Remember: in HS, boys and girls are stupid. The message gets lost and transmogrified so badly (especially with girls) that you really never know what's really going on.

Be straight with her: ask "J" if she's in or out. She can't be sitting on the fence, because then no one will be going anywhere.

[Crazdelight]

Originally Posted by felicityrose

*sigh*

Remember: in HS, boys and girls are stupid. The message gets lost and transmogrified so badly (especially with girls) that you really never know what's really going on.

Be straight with her: ask "J" if she's in or out. She can't be sitting on the fence, because then no one will be going anywhere.

he speaks the truth big time.

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Originally Posted by Bobeo

OK, I am confused as hell. I have come along way in regards to talking to women and just being better around them in general in the past couple of months. But unfortnately I can still rarely know what they are thinking.

OK, there is this girl at school, we will call her J. I met J last year and was immediately attracted to her, whatever. Being the ***** I was last year, I never tried to hook her. As a result, I fell into the friend trap. OK, this year, I figure I have a great friend who is hot (she is the one supposedly hookin gme up with a friend of hers). So good deal I am thinking. I would still like a relationship with J, but I am not going to pursue it because I am afriad it will mess up what we have now.

OK, for the past couple weeks she has been giving me these signals. I figure she is just playing around, not really meaning anything by it. Honestly, I did get a little excited because I was thinking "maybe she wants a relationship too." Then this week she tellsme she is oging to introduce me to her friend.

This brings me back to the conclusion that she just wants to be friends. But the signals/flirting still persist!

Today I went to a bonfire after school for homecoming and a good friend of J's randomly walks up to me and tells me I should call her to come to the bonfire. Out of nowhere. Now, while this girl and I say hello in the halls and at parties (this is actually the Jessica Alba look-alike I talked about in a previous post) I would never approach her like that. It makes me wonder what J is talking about to her friends.

I am so lost. I think I am in the LJBF zone, and then it appears I might not be, abd then it reverses two more times.

Girls need to stop throwing signals out at every opportunity.

EDIT: Reading what I wrote the girl walking up to me and telling me to call J sounds like a very little thing but the it was said made it seem "weird." I can't rrally explain it except it seemed to me like she was hinting to me that J wanted me.

okay im on sleep meds so sometimes i say things that make sense now but probably wont tommorow. Or sometimes i'm very philisophical... so hang on! You need to take "the game" and take it out of the small scope and use it more often. That cocky funny confident attitude is me. It's no longer a show i put on for certian women. What you have to realize is the broad scope of this. What are you doing? you are playing games and socially manipulating situations to get what you want. You can do the same thing with all people. So when her friend comes to you and says, "you should call __." Just play with her like you would any other girl?

"Oh really i should call her? I wouldn't want to give her the wrong impression or anything If i start calling her then she's going to be calling me all the time and chasing me and it will be one big hassle, all because i'm just so damn irresistable! Okay but seriously, whhhhhhy should i be calling her?" and prod it. Get her to tell you exactly why you should call her. Then you just play with it more. I'd start with, well if she wants to see me that bad she can call me! I'll bet you 10 to one her friend sneaks around, calls her up and says, "okay call him instead!" and you have a phone call from her in 15 minutes.

PLAY THE GAME ALWAYS. The bottom line is no woman on this earth hates the playful, happy, cocky guy... even girls that aren't chasing you. Usually the women i date, their friends love me too. I always get, "omg you're so much fun to hang around with." Because that attitude we personify is just so damn loveable! lol

Also, being playful leaves you a netting of security. when you're attitude is naturally playful, a girl has trouble reading when you actually like her and when you're just playing. So when you make one of those playful moves she will make a more obvious move to see if you follow.

i was at a bar the other night and i'm talking to this girl and i was playing around the whole time. So i said to her, "god you are just too cute! Hell i might even let you take me home tonight!" and she laughs about it for a second and i can tell she's confused. So she tries to play back a little more (mind you i already know this girl wants me to come home with her) by putting her hand on my wrist and saying, "oh well you're gay right? so you'd love my interior decoration." I just laugh and play it off like i' m getting ready to change teh subject and she cuts in and says, "but no seriously, you should come see it tonight, i'd be interested in a guys opinion (yea BULL ****!). So i said, "oh sure, i'll check it out... but you promise you're not just trying to seduce me when we get there are you?" She laughed and said, "i promise no monkey business!"

FYI we had sex 20 minutes within getting into her appartment.

So now if some guy was serious the whole night and tried to play off going home with her and she rejected he might look and feel like an idiot. But when you're just playing, you can back out at any time because she doesn't know whether you're serious or not.

Just don't do the corny, "hey want to go out?" "no" OHH I WAS JUST KIDDING! You have to be kidding and playful before she answers so that her answer doesn't matter. the playfulness should look like part of your personality, not a coverup to keep you from looking stupid.

[felicityrose]

Originally Posted by Crazdelight

he speaks the truth big time.

She. She speaks the truth big time.

[TheFightnNutsak (Banned)]

holy **** you guys talk about relationships more than most highschool girls. jesus, all you need to do is ask yourself if i do this will i get vagina? if the odds are increased then do it, if not dont. its very simple. friendship and love dont exsist in HS.

[felicityrose]

Originally Posted by TheFightnNutsak

friendship and love dont exsist in HS.

Definitely not true. There are different kinds of friendship and love as a person matures. Granted, the hormones seem to take over amongst the adolescents (hence the supposed obsession with relationships and whatnot), but it does happen. I have friends from HS with whom I still talk to (some of them are getting married next year), and my first real love was in HS.

[TheFightnNutsak (Banned)]

if your friends get married they will not last. and your first "real love" isnt anything more than hormones run amuck

[felicityrose]

*sigh*

Just because I have friends from HS getting married does not mean that they are getting married to each other. That was just to say that I still talk to my friends from HS. And the love you mock was my senior year of HS. Everyone's different; get over yourself.

Silly little boy.

[ssgaR]

Originally Posted by TheFightnNutsak

if your friends get married they will not last. and your first "real love" isnt anything more than hormones run amuck

There are exceptions to every rule. Even the laws of thermo dynamics can't explain how matter was created in the first place.

[TheFightnNutsak (Banned)]

Originally Posted by felicityrose

*sigh*

Just because I have friends from HS getting married does not mean that they are getting married to each other. That was just to say that I still talk to my friends from HS. And the love you mock was my senior year of HS. Everyone's different; get over yourself.

Silly little boy.

why would you use the example of hs people if they arent the ones getting married? i never said people dont keep in touch with friends from highschool, just that highschool love is a joke.

[felicityrose]

Originally Posted by TheFightnNutsak

friendship and love dont exsist in HS.

How else am I supposed to read into this?

And for the record, I do have a couple of sets of friends from HS who are married or engaged. They each waited 6 years before getting engaged (and had their breaks in the interim).

Like I said, everyone is different.

[TheFightnNutsak (Banned)]

yea, i did do some double talk there. owell you caught me with my foot in my mouth. its early.

[Bobeo]

Originally Posted by Bleachednblonde

okay im on sleep meds so sometimes i say things that make sense now but probably wont tommorow. Or sometimes i'm very philisophical... so hang on! You need to take "the game" and take it out of the small scope and use it more often. That cocky funny confident attitude is me. It's no longer a show i put on for certian women. What you have to realize is the broad scope of this. What are you doing? you are playing games and socially manipulating situations to get what you want. You can do the same thing with all people. So when her friend comes to you and says, "you should call __." Just play with her like you would any other girl?

"Oh really i should call her? I wouldn't want to give her the wrong impression or anything If i start calling her then she's going to be calling me all the time and chasing me and it will be one big hassle, all because i'm just so damn irresistable! Okay but seriously, whhhhhhy should i be calling her?" and prod it. Get her to tell you exactly why you should call her. Then you just play with it more. I'd start with, well if she wants to see me that bad she can call me! I'll bet you 10 to one her friend sneaks around, calls her up and says, "okay call him instead!" and you have a phone call from her in 15 minutes.

PLAY THE GAME ALWAYS. The bottom line is no woman on this earth hates the playful, happy, cocky guy... even girls that aren't chasing you. Usually the women i date, their friends love me too. I always get, "omg you're so much fun to hang around with." Because that attitude we personify is just so damn loveable! lol

Also, being playful leaves you a netting of security. when you're attitude is naturally playful, a girl has trouble reading when you actually like her and when you're just playing. So when you make one of those playful moves she will make a more obvious move to see if you follow.

i was at a bar the other night and i'm talking to this girl and i was playing around the whole time. So i said to her, "god you are just too cute! Hell i might even let you take me home tonight!" and she laughs about it for a second and i can tell she's confused. So she tries to play back a little more (mind you i already know this girl wants me to come home with her) by putting her hand on my wrist and saying, "oh well you're gay right? so you'd love my interior decoration." I just laugh and play it off like i' m getting ready to change teh subject and she cuts in and says, "but no seriously, you should come see it tonight, i'd be interested in a guys opinion (yea BULL ****!). So i said, "oh sure, i'll check it out... but you promise you're not just trying to seduce me when we get there are you?" She laughed and said, "i promise no monkey business!"

FYI we had sex 20 minutes within getting into her appartment.

So now if some guy was serious the whole night and tried to play off going home with her and she rejected he might look and feel like an idiot. But when you're just playing, you can back out at any time because she doesn't know whether you're serious or not.

Just don't do the corny, "hey want to go out?" "no" OHH I WAS JUST KIDDING! You have to be kidding and playful before she answers so that her answer doesn't matter. the playfulness should look like part of your personality, not a coverup to keep you from looking stupid.

Wow, that might be the best advice you have given (me) in this entire thread.