[JasionoX666X]

Originally Posted by p8ntballr1125

You will just need to tell her straight up to knock it off. You are not trying to be her shoulder to cry on 24/7.

..And I live in Langhorne (lower bucks)

We should keep in contact because im starting to paintball again and need a couple of people to befriend with so im not alone like I was that one day at cobra command

Thanks, I should tell her that, I will have to make it clear to her

[12345421]

Originally Posted by VECTRIX

well heres my problem, i went out with this girl for 5 years on and off (mostly on) and now we finally broke up and she said she wouldnt date another guy for a year and a week after she says this the first thing she does is hooks up with a guy which really blows left me heart broken, i still love her and she still loves me, this guy is bad news, hes lazy and he lets her do drugs when she is on choices, and he is just all around bad news, she also says shes getting attatched to him and shes letting this 5 year relationship fall down just like that. what do i do, i want her back so badly, we are still really close i talk to her every day.

Go date other girls. Make yourself unavailable. You could possibly forget about how great it was with her if you find another equally great girl. Give some other girl a chance. Make her want you back... if she still doesn't then accept that your relationship is over. It's her life, let her do what she wants even if it means dating a douche. Whenever I get hung up on a girl and she's goes off with another guy I just find another girl to distract me and I easily forget.

[fireisgood4u]

Originally Posted by p8ntballr1125

Here is a problem. This girl that I like's Bday is on the 19th. Mine is on the 25th. I already told her im not getting her anything lol but should I pull a fast one and get her a present, or would that make me look like a tool? Also what if she ends up buying me something and I dont? I would feel like a dick then.

Originally Posted by VECTRIX

Buy Her Something

Personally I wouldn't get her anything...you said you weren't. And surprising her like that is very AFC/niceguy. If she agreed that you two weren't going to buy each other something that's that.

However if you still feel obligated simply make her a card or something creative that will cost you little to no money.

[shooterboy]

Originally Posted by p8ntballr1125

Here is a problem. This girl that I like's Bday is on the 19th. Mine is on the 25th. I already told her im not getting her anything lol but should I pull a fast one and get her a present, or would that make me look like a tool? Also what if she ends up buying me something and I dont? I would feel like a dick then.

like the guy above said, make a card. Get a piece of white paper (the printer kind) and just fold it in half, write something nice on the inside, and color the outside. It doesnt have to be Hallmark quality, but put some effort into it, it will go along way

[cookie123]

I fell into the "friend" category help!

[shooterboy]

Originally Posted by cookie123

I fell into the "friend" category help!

give us more info or dont post

[p8ntballr1125]

Originally Posted by shooterboy

like the guy above said, make a card. Get a piece of white paper (the printer kind) and just fold it in half, write something nice on the inside, and color the outside. It doesnt have to be Hallmark quality, but put some effort into it, it will go along way

Thanks. I did that once to a girl who thought I liked her and she didnt leave me alone after I gave her a homemade Bday card, so I guess it does work.

That is what I will be doing

[cookie123]

Originally Posted by shooterboy

give us more info or dont post

Alright sorry, well I met a girl I liked, and we hung out a good amount, and I talk to her a lot. but I was an idiot and talked to her a whole lot. but not flirtacious talking. Thus leading her to likeing me as just a good friend or one of the "girls" if you will.

[Astronomer Sol]

Originally Posted by cookie123

Alright sorry, well I met a girl I liked, and we hung out a good amount, and I talk to her a lot. but I was an idiot and talked to her a whole lot. but not flirtacious talking. Thus leading her to likeing me as just a good friend or one of the "girls" if you will.

I've been through the same thing. I'm sorry, but my experience says it's too late.

You actually have a SLIGHT chance. Don't get false hope and balme me when it fails, though.

Any guy (or girl) here can tell you, the friend thing is a hole that is impossible to get out of.

[Noob Baller123]

Word I need help

So I met this girl at a party. Shes really cool and im positive shes interested in me. She talks to me on aim every night. I did the whole, "sign on aim to see if she talks" basically wait her out to see if she talks to me thing and she does. My friend said that she is interested in me.

Im interested in her as well but IDK how I should talk to her about it. Like I want to tell her how I feel because I know she feels the same way but idk how I should come out with it.

We have met only 2 nights and we have been talking ever since. But since I havent seen her all that much I dont know what to talk to her about. Ideas on what we should talk about.

Sorry for the vagueness

[12345421]

Originally Posted by Noob Baller123

Word I need help

So I met this girl at a party. Shes really cool and im positive shes interested in me. She talks to me on aim every night. I did the whole, "sign on aim to see if she talks" basically wait her out to see if she talks to me thing and she does. My friend said that she is interested in me.

Im interested in her as well but IDK how I should talk to her about it. Like I want to tell her how I feel because I know she feels the same way but idk how I should come out with it.

We have met only 2 nights and we have been talking ever since. But since I havent seen her all that much I dont know what to talk to her about. Ideas on what we should talk about.

Sorry for the vagueness

Don't come out and tell her you like her... that's all I know. Wait for advice from t_mo or Bleach.

[Noob Baller123]

Yeah im def avoiding that for right now lolz

[Astronomer Sol]

Originally Posted by Noob Baller123

Yeah im def avoiding that for right now lolz

Yeah...2 days is quite a short time.

*sigh*

If you ever want a chance, wait it out. Be subtle yet precise in your comments to her. Keep a positive attitude, too.

That's all I know. Sol out.

[Noob Baller123]

Originally Posted by Astronomer Sol

Yeah...2 days is quite a short time.

*sigh*

If you ever want a chance, wait it out. Be subtle yet precise in your comments to her. Keep a positive attitude, too.

That's all I know. Sol out.

Sorry but can u give me a few examples?

And hook me up with some questions to ask her

Holler.

[Astronomer Sol]

Originally Posted by Noob Baller123

Sorry but can u give me a few examples?

And hook me up with some questions to ask her

Holler.

Um...

Compliment her when you say HI, like, Hey you're looking nice today.

See what I mean? Nothing else comes to mind, but PLEASE God, tell me you understand what I mean.

Don't make any moves yet. That is key. After a week or two, begin to take her to movies and such. Nothing like a date, just a friendly hang out. I do it all the time.

[Noob Baller123]

Yeah I understand that one lolz

Thanks much

[fireisgood4u]

If you're interested in a chick keep the MSN/AIM to a minimum. Use the phone. It's fine to use it for a bit but you're going to be too in touch run out of things to talk about quick.

Originally Posted by Astronomer Sol

Um...

Compliment her when you say HI, like, Hey you're looking nice today.

See what I mean? Nothing else comes to mind, but PLEASE God, tell me you understand what I mean.

Don't always compliment her when you see her. They should be treats for her from you. If you always complement her it'll make you come off as insecure and send bad vibes.

[p8ntballr1125]

Originally Posted by fireisgood4u

Don't always compliment her when you see her. They should be treats for her from you. If you always complement her it'll make you come off as insecure and send bad vibes.

Thats what I was thinking. I know from experience

[ieatnewbs39]

ok guys theres this chick that has been sending me mixed messages. some days shes really flirty with me, other days shes like w/e.she has had this boyfriend for a while whos like a asian ghetto wannabee that makes her listen to slipnot and dress like a emo. the days she doesnt dress like an emo (short skirt, nomal clothes) she's really nice and flirty with me, asking about how my day was, seeing what movies i've seen. and when her boyfriend tells her to where like those pants w/ a billion chains and slipknot shirts and **** she is all w/e towards me. i really really like her, but she's still under this guys control. i've talked to him on many occasions and he doesnt even appreciate her. what im asking you guys is what do i do, i know she's not emo at heart but just has bad influences. what should i do, tell her that its bull****, i donno because she still may have a think w/ her bf. help me out PLEASE

[p8ntballr1125]

This girl just made an away message on AIM about me. Here is what it says.

Boys are soo confusing ...
One day there obsessed
and the next day they wont even talk to you?
I Dont Get It and Im
Not Trying To Figure It Out :]

?

EDIT: And on a second note she is trying to set me up to say good things about her. I cant really explain what I mean, but Im sure some of you know what Im talking about.

Here is an example: We made a bet on something. We each got to pick each other's punishments. I told her I couldnt think of anything for hers and she goes, "Well, I have to do ANYTHING you want." She obviously wants me to say something sexual, but I dont know if I should or not.

[PIMP_98]

Originally Posted by PIMP_98

So there's this girl.She is so sweet and all and I like her,but my friend like her and she knows it(i think she likes him too but my friend likes her more)but they are not going out.Right now we are chatting about how u like the opposite sex(what u look into it first what u like most n stuff).So yeah lets say she is describing me and im like cooool.Im also describing her n stuff.do you think i might have a chance w/ her?

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