[Jae.C]

Talk about things she likes, the two of you have in common. Maybe some controversial things, if she is interested. The list is unlimited. Just make the conversation fun and lively.

[dyeboy1991]

ask her if she knows where "so-and so class is "...ask her to sit by you at lunch and go from there

[TheFightnNutsak (Banned)]

Originally Posted by dyeboy1991

ask her if she knows where "so-and so class is "...ask her to sit by you at lunch and go from there

yea, that will not work. but good luck anyway.

[Bobeo]

OK, I have a question for you all:

There is this girl I met over the summer at a leadership camp (we are both on this student council thing at our highschool). Anyways, after meeting her I called to grab something to eat one day. This was at the beginning of the summer and I was an AFC big time (I've improved since then but at the beginning of the summer I sucked with girls).

Well, one day I mustered the courage to give her a call to see if she wanted to grab a bite to eat. She said that she wasn't at home but maybe some other time. I took it personally as her saying "no" because I was retarded.

Anyways, now we see each other in the halls occasionally. We just say "hi" and keep walking.

Thinking back over the summer I realized what a noob I was. She threw me many signals and I did act on them, but only once. That was weak. I want to give it another shot.

But the problem is is that it has been 2 months since we talked for any length of time. How do I call her? Just randomly? What would be a good conversation to strike up with her when I see her at school? I only see her once and that is when we are passing on the way to classes. This sounds like a stupid problem but I just think it would seem weird for me to suddenly call her to do something? Agree?

[blaker615]

be like heyy, how was the rest of your summer after leadership camp. dont talk on the phone. if you dont talk to someone for that long, it needs to be in person that you say hi.

[12345421]

Originally Posted by Bobeo

OK, I have a question for you all:

There is this girl I met over the summer at a leadership camp (we are both on this student council thing at our highschool). Anyways, after meeting her I called to grab something to eat one day. This was at the beginning of the summer and I was an AFC big time (I've improved since then but at the beginning of the summer I sucked with girls).

Well, one day I mustered the courage to give her a call to see if she wanted to grab a bite to eat. She said that she wasn't at home but maybe some other time. I took it personally as her saying "no" because I was retarded.

Anyways, now we see each other in the halls occasionally. We just say "hi" and keep walking.

Thinking back over the summer I realized what a noob I was. She threw me many signals and I did act on them, but only once. That was weak. I want to give it another shot.

But the problem is is that it has been 2 months since we talked for any length of time. How do I call her? Just randomly? What would be a good conversation to strike up with her when I see her at school? I only see her once and that is when we are passing on the way to classes. This sounds like a stupid problem but I just think it would seem weird for me to suddenly call her to do something? Agree?

My guess is that she is in the same frame of mind as you. *Should I talk to him or not* kind of thing. Just find something in common (student council) and go with.

[felicityrose]

Originally Posted by Bobeo

There is this girl I met over the summer at a leadership camp (we are both on this student council thing at our highschool). Anyways, after meeting her I called to grab something to eat one day. This was at the beginning of the summer and I was an AFC big time (I've improved since then but at the beginning of the summer I sucked with girls).

Well, one day I mustered the courage to give her a call to see if she wanted to grab a bite to eat. She said that she wasn't at home but maybe some other time. I took it personally as her saying "no" because I was retarded.

Anyways, now we see each other in the halls occasionally. We just say "hi" and keep walking.

Thinking back over the summer I realized what a noob I was. She threw me many signals and I did act on them, but only once. That was weak. I want to give it another shot.

But the problem is is that it has been 2 months since we talked for any length of time. How do I call her? Just randomly? What would be a good conversation to strike up with her when I see her at school? I only see her once and that is when we are passing on the way to classes. This sounds like a stupid problem but I just think it would seem weird for me to suddenly call her to do something? Agree?

Well, it seems like you two have some things in common (what with being on a leadership retreat).

Are you both still doing student council stuff? If so, ask for her advice on a project relating to it... it's a legit excuse to talk to her, and you can ask her real quick in the halls. If not, it might be a bit harder.

[Bobeo]

Our council basically planned all of homecoming. I guess I could talk about that but it is over with (happened 2 weeks ago). Since then our council hasn't done anything.

I guess I could strike up a quick conversation about how homecoming went but it doesn't sound like it would be interesting at all.

[felicityrose]

Well, I'd assume that student council does other things besides homecoming... I'd figure out what the next big thing is and go from there.

[Bobeo]

Originally Posted by felicityrose

Well, I'd assume that student council does other things besides homecoming... I'd figure out what the next big thing is and go from there.

We have multiple student councils. The one that we were on, our major porject was homecoming. I will find out though what we are doing next.

EDIT: I am toying with the idea of inviting her to my first lacrosse game of the year (in a couple of weeks - I would mention it a few days before). If she accepts it makes it easy for me to do something lse with her and if she says she can't that gives the opportunity to say that we will do something else. Opinions?

[12345421]

Originally Posted by Bobeo

We have multiple student councils. The one that we were on, our major porject was homecoming. I will find out though what we are doing next.

EDIT: I am toying with the idea of inviting her to my first lacrosse game of the year (in a couple of weeks - I would mention it a few days before). If she accepts it makes it easy for me to do something lse with her and if she says she can't that gives the opportunity to say that we will do something else. Opinions?

It would be very casual, just remember to not be distracted by her and do something retarded. And don't tell your friends you invited her, they will probably poke fun at you (jokingly). Actually, if I were you, ask her in front of one of her friends, and be like, "Hey, you guys should come watch my LaCrosse game on set date". It would lessen the tention (sp) on her and make it seem casual.

And good luck with LaCrosse, that game is ****ing brutal, and I'm in AA hockey and I still wouldn't play LaCrosse, lol. (I watched a pro game on TV once, too violent)

[Bobeo]

Dude you just gave me a terrific idea. This first game is actually a three game tournament hosted by the school I play for. I will tell her that we need some people to come and cheer us on and to bring some of her friends. Sounds good to me. Thanks.

[Dyeguy101]

Well Not really a problem but..
First off I'm 17yo Junior and never really dated anyone. I have a crap load of friends and am semi popular. I don't think there's anyone I know who doesn't like me in my school. I know this girl that is in my grade. Last year she would drew on my arms and ****. Write poems and stuff. I knew she liked me because I never made a move on her ever. She would say hi every time she saw me. At the end of the year when regions test were taking she came over and wished me luck. She said your my buddy,but were just friends....I thought nothing more of her than a friend in first place and after they were done she was in lo-by with friends as I walked out not even noticed her she says bye Jason (my name ) and I was like bye...
So this year I don't see her to often ,only in lunch and in the halls. About 2 weeks ago she started coming over to my lunch table and talking with my and my friends. It was at this point I knew she wanted to be more than just friends. She always talks to me in the halls. I will be walking along and she will come up beside me and say hello and strike up a conversation. She sits everyday at our table before she gets her lunch. She asked for a joke the one day and I couldn't think of ****. So the next day I found some online jokes and started emailing her through the schools email. We have been talking everyday emailing each other about just stuff that goes on. So next Sat I find out homecoming is coming up and my buddy from the next town is gonna ask this girl that goes to my school that he bowls with. So I'm like wtf... Ill ask this girl that Ive been talking about. Iv never danced before and don't really know how to slow dance or anything. I asked her in a email that I sent out but she wont read until tomorrow at school. My question is what should I know? If she says yes....
Pics for actually reading this...
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Yes shes giving my my money back that I lent her and didnt ask for it back..

[rambo[of]ohio]

don't dance w/many other girls while ur there, give her ur full attention..this is assuming you're wanting to be more than just friends. yeah i know my tip is sorta obvious but i've seen it happen...

[Dyeguy101]

Originally Posted by rambo[of]ohio

don't dance w/many other girls while ur there, give her ur full attention..this is assuming you're wanting to be more than just friends. yeah i know my tip is sorta obvious but i've seen it happen...

Yeah I dont plan on dancing with anyone else...

[Bobeo]

OK, this probably won't matter because she seems to like you a lot but don't ask a girl to something through the internet. It seems spineless and is a turn off for many women.

Anyways, slow dancing is easy - just hold her by the waist, close, and go side to side and in a circle. You will see other people doing it. Try to not step on your date's feet

The harder part is fast dancing. I personally suck, but girls just want to have some fun, so just dance to the music. Just enjoy the music and move with it. You will look fine. Anyways, who gives a **** if it looks bad? If anyone says that you are a bad dancer, say that their breath smells

EDIT: Could you resize your pic?

DOUBLE EDIT: Find out where the homecoming after party is

[klettis33]

Originally Posted by Bobeo

OK, this probably won't matter because she seems to like you a lot but don't ask a girl to something through the internet. It seems spineless and is a turn off for many women.

Anyways, slow dancing is easy - just hold her by the waist, close, and go side to side and in a circle. You will see other people doing it. Try to not step on your date's feet

The harder part is fast dancing. I personally suck, but girls just want to have some fun, so just dance to the music. Just enjoy the music and move with it. You will look fine. Anyways, who gives a **** if it looks bad? If anyone says that you are a bad dancer, say that their breath smells

EDIT: Could you resize your pic?

DOUBLE EDIT: Find out where the homecoming after party is

just by looking at this girl dude, shes a freak, dancing wont be a problem, shes gonna rub her butt on your junk so much your gonna lose it, and bro the reason she likes you is youve been ignoring her all this time, play it chill like seeing her isnt a big deal and just keep it funny, girls love that, otherwise your on the right track take er easy

[Dyeguy101]

Originally Posted by Bobeo

OK, this probably won't matter because she seems to like you a lot but don't ask a girl to something through the internet. It seems spineless and is a turn off for many women.

Anyways, slow dancing is easy - just hold her by the waist, close, and go side to side and in a circle. You will see other people doing it. Try to not step on your date's feet

The harder part is fast dancing. I personally suck, but girls just want to have some fun, so just dance to the music. Just enjoy the music and move with it. You will look fine. Anyways, who gives a **** if it looks bad? If anyone says that you are a bad dancer, say that their breath smells

EDIT: Could you resize your pic?

DOUBLE EDIT: Find out where the homecoming after party is

Only reason I asked her via email is because I dont get any alone time to talk to her... In lunch all our friends are right there. lol awakward..

Thanks everyone for suggestions.. Gonna find after party...

[12345421]

Originally Posted by 12345421

Now my new situation. I met this girl (Girl A) a while ago at a party (while twice at two different parties). So we talked and she and her friend (who is really hot) asked for my MSN. So nothing really happened and recently I started talking to Girl A again and tonight to she wanted to come pick me up (I'm 16 with my permit so I can't drive yet). Well my friend was being all weird and I didn't want to just leave him because he's, well, my friend, lol. Anyways, she's seeming really interested (so is her friend, but her friend is in a college that's 2 hours away , whereas Girl A is going to college right in our area) So anyways, I'm being cocky around her and it seems to be working out well, any advice from anyone (cough cough Bleach) for reeling her in?

Ok, as I've said, Girl A seems messed up. Not my type. Well I know she likes me because she told me yesterday. So tonight she asked me to call and I did (didn't want to be rude and say no) and tommorow night she says she wants to come pick me up and we go to the movies. Well I know she wants our relationship to go farther than being friends, but she is just annoying sometimes and, as I've said, not my type... at all. Normally I would just say no and let that be that, but she is VERY persistent and I'd like to have her as a friend... because her other friend (Girl B) is really hot and gave me quite a few compliments a few nights ago so I wouldn't mind hooking up with her. Lol.

Anyways, thanks guys.

[Jae.C]

Wow. This girl I like found out I like her a while ago, from her brother. I told someone that I don't have feelings for her anymore, and I knew it would get around to her. She found out and when she gave a photo of her to my friend (is a girl, and the photo was on picture day) it said on the back, "I hear Jae doesn't like me anymore."


This was the plan, and it seems to have worked out perfectly!

Now that I think about it, I think her brother is trying to get information out of me, for her. He's been sucking up to me latley, haha. They do that kind of thing, they're twins and they work together ALOT.

All I have to do is play my game now!

[ButtsechsFTW]

^ nice lol