[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Originally Posted by blaker615

heres a question. how do i make a move on a chick in a movie with friends. both her and friends of myself.i thought about like playfully making somekind of contact her with my hand and her hand, and then just not letting go, and like holding each finger until eventually we're holding hands. would that work?

Let me just start off by saying that i think making moves in a movie is cliche and gay. Okay now that i got that out of my system... to your question. I would say you lean in to whisper something in her ear and you put your hand on the inside of her thigh. Then as you lean back slowly run your fingers across her leg as you go back. At some point in the movie just turn and look at her. She will turn and look at you. Give her a smirk or a mischevious grin ( ) and go back to watching the movie.

Originally Posted by ryfpballa

My problem....

Alright me and one of my really good friends have really liked each other on/off (for the past year or so). Well so like last friday I ask her out and then we start going out. Later that night we talk and all of a sudden she says right now that she really doesn't want a boyfriend, but she really does like me. So we breakup then for the first day its kinda awkward. So I'm like w/e this is gay and I try to talk to her, and she totally ignores me. Should I just give it some time? BleachednBlonde help me out man!

Classic case of what happens when you date a friend. It eventually gets "weird" and effects the friendship. So to everyone out there who starts a question with, "so i really like my good friend..." This is why you DONT date friends.

There's no miracle solution to your problem that i can think of. Give her some time and space. Eventually start acting like you did before you started dating hopefully she will follow your lead. DO NOT sit down and talk to her about it. This will only make things worse. And you act upset about this it will only push her away. Break, followed by traditional, normal, friend like behavior.

[empiretimmy53]

Originally Posted by TrixesOwn

so lets say i do end up hanging out with this girl and we are somewhere walkin around or something and i grab her hand and hold it to like show i like her. Do you think this a good move or no. I mean it would be the first time we are with eachother. I guess i would have to see what the vibes like and if everythings goin smooth.

and yea i am talking to her on aim right now and she is going to a friends house to spend the night and she said i should call her since she wont be online. Should i call her tonight or what. If i do she will def. answer and i kno im gonna be nervous as ****.

ya you for sure need to call her....dont think about who your talking to, just act like its another person your trying to carry on an interesting and funny conversation with....if the first few minutes are smooth and comfortable, the rest should be easy....but you need to get it together and show her how interesting you are, and that your a funny guy....you know she likes you, so dont think about the negative side of things because that side is much more narrow than you think

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Originally Posted by TrixesOwn

so lets say i do end up hanging out with this girl and we are somewhere walkin around or something and i grab her hand and hold it to like show i like her. Do you think this a good move or no. I mean it would be the first time we are with eachother. I guess i would have to see what the vibes like and if everythings goin smooth.

and yea i am talking to her on aim right now and she is going to a friends house to spend the night and she said i should call her since she wont be online. Should i call her tonight or what. If i do she will def. answer and i kno im gonna be nervous as ****.

Yes you need to call her tonight. And relax, remember this is supposed to be exciting... in a good way! Uneasy nerves are a stinky cologne! Confidence isn't something i can give you, so fake it until you make it!

[blamecanada (Banned)]

i like you more and more every day bleached

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Originally Posted by blamecanada

i like you more and more every day bleached

Well thank you sir

[blaker615]

if i dont make a move on her, do you think ill fall into the friends category? or will she be expecting me to, and want me more? the only place i see her is at school and theres hardly any time alone to make one. of course i cant drive yet so i cant make a move taking her out to eat or something

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Originally Posted by blaker615

if i dont make a move on her, do you think ill fall into the friends category? or will she be expecting me to, and want me more? the only place i see her is at school and theres hardly any time alone to make one. of course i cant drive yet so i cant make a move taking her out to eat or something

Make a move but don't make it cliche. Don't put your arm around her. Tease the hell out of her. Make it seem like you are making a move that shows interest then pull away (Think of a cat playing with a string). If you'd really like to make sure you're out of the friend catagory this is what i'd do:

at the end of the night, one hand on the small of her back and turn towards her. Kiss her BUT NOT ON THE LIPS, and NOT ON THE CHEEK. Kiss her under her chin or on her neck but make it very sensual. Move slowly but make the kiss quick so she doesn't get weirded out. That will confuse her yet send a clear signal at the same time. She will clearly know that you are interested but will be confused because you didn't kiss her on the lips like every other guy would.

And for god's sake don't put your arm around her in the movie. Put your hand on her thigh like i said. Touching can be a huge indicator but don't over do it otherwise it seems meaningless. Small amounts of touching will send a clear signal but also be unique. Hand on the thigh for a second when you're talking to her. Brush the hair off her face and tell her, "i can't see your eyes."

Never underestimate the power of small amounts of touching. I gaurantee i could do a few harmless touches (thigh, neck, back) in a sexual enough manner that it would turn a girl on more than if some guy had half his hand in her ***** for 20 minutes.

[NightmareSHANIQUA]

Originally Posted by Bleachednblonde

And for god's sake don't put your arm around her in the movie. Put your hand on her thigh like i said. Touching can be a huge indicator but don't over do it otherwise it seems meaningless. Small amounts of touching will send a clear signal but also be unique. Hand on the thigh for a second when you're talking to her. Brush the hair off her face and tell her, "i can't see your eyes."

Yeah, they dont like it when you place it high inner thigh and try to move it upwards... Well, on the first date at least.

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Originally Posted by NightmareSHANIQUA

Yeah, they dont like it when you place it high inner thigh and try to move it upwards... Well, on the first date at least.

Well that's the thing, you don't "make a move." It shouldn't be a sexual touch at all. You're hand shouldn't slide towards her ***** at all. You simply put it on her thigh as you lean over to tell her something, then as you lean back you slowly run your hand across her thigh (NOT TOWARDS HER LOVE BOX!) but across her thigh back towards you, do this slowly and with one finger. Until that point at which you slide your hand away It should seem like a harmless gesture, almost like you're doing it subconciously.

[baddogh26 (Banned)]

bleachedblonde i must say u got skillz dat killz dog.......i mean i thought i waz a pimp

[T3H Bouncer (Banned)]

so that *** who beats my bestfriend that im going to jump with a baseball bat asked my bestfriend to marry him i really wanted to slit my wrists then and she said when she turns 18 so i mean theres a year to wait for that but hes brainwashed her i cannot get her outta this relationship i talked to her like you said and nothing has worked ...........but i am yet to **** this kid up

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Originally Posted by T3H Bouncer

so that *** who beats my bestfriend that im going to jump with a baseball bat asked my bestfriend to marry him i really wanted to slit my wrists then and she said when she turns 18 so i mean theres a year to wait for that but hes brainwashed her i cannot get her outta this relationship i talked to her like you said and nothing has worked ...........but i am yet to **** this kid up

She will only learn on her own. It's rough but no one can talk her out of this. It's a decision she has to make on her own. Hopefully she'll wake up before she's 18.

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Originally Posted by A5Gunner

I don't know what to do tommorow I want her to know I want to talk and am not nervous what should I do?

Stop acting nervous and talk to her tommorow! lol

Look her in the eyes when you talk. Don't fidget! All movements should be slow and calm, not short and squirrely! Make sure you have good posture when talking to her. NEVER lean into her. If she says you look nervous don't say, "i'm not." have an excuse ready. "ah i had a lot of caffiene today so i'm just feeling really jumpy."

[T3H Bouncer (Banned)]

Originally Posted by Bleachednblonde

She will only learn on her own. It's rough but no one can talk her out of this. It's a decision she has to make on her own. Hopefully she'll wake up before she's 18.

me to man me too i care bout her to much though to let it keep going i know that it wont last because of the problems they are having now as bf/gf i mean when they are married its going to be so much worse i mean he just cheated on her again a day ago and she didnt do anything but yell for half hour then said im sorry for yelling at you babe....i just dont want her to waste all this time on this one guy and get herself hurt she doesnt deserve that at all

[baddogh26 (Banned)]

well all my advise can and will be over ruled by beachblonde but id juz kinda make some moves on her....kinda mess w/ her when ur talkin and stuff nothing too sexual but juz some excuse for physical contact if u know wut i mean

[richieboy89]

alright bleached i need some pointers

i have been talkin to a particular girl for awhile now and shes been callin to talk to me all the time at least twice a day for sure we're gonna be hangin out soon probaly jsut watchin a movie at her house. should i make a move or what.

[T3H Bouncer (Banned)]

Originally Posted by richieboy89

alright bleached i need some pointers

i have been talkin to a particular girl for awhile now and shes been callin to talk to me all the time at least twice a day for sure we're gonna be hangin out soon probaly jsut watchin a movie at her house. should i make a move or what.

i wouldnt go for anything big maybe something small like a bit of touching(not foreplay really) and if shes really wanting to do stuff with you after you dont make a move sexually on her she will probably want to hang out real soon and then you will know when to make the move.........not sure if that helped but im trying my best

[blaker615]

k, when im walking past a girl i like and talk to often in the hallway, what do i do, stick my hand out, put my hand out and do the interlaced finger thing while we talk, hug, or just smile and keep walking?

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Originally Posted by T3H Bouncer

me to man me too i care bout her to much though to let it keep going i know that it wont last because of the problems they are having now as bf/gf i mean when they are married its going to be so much worse i mean he just cheated on her again a day ago and she didnt do anything but yell for half hour then said im sorry for yelling at you babe....i just dont want her to waste all this time on this one guy and get herself hurt she doesnt deserve that at all

yea but there's nothing you can do. She has to live her life and learn from her own mistakes.

[fireisgood4u]

Originally Posted by A5Gunner

Hi,

I met a girl today at school and she started talking to me, I was a little uncomfortable I guess because I didn't know who she was, we started talking, and we introduced each other, and we had a pretty good time talking to me.. she said first though right when she said hi that it seemed like I was nervous, I told her I wasn't, then later on at the bus trip she still said I was nervous.

I said again I wasn't, I was just looking out the window and stuff because I just met her, I really wasn't nervous at all and I had a good time, and I think she did too.. We still talked a lot of the way mainly her asking me questions and I would answer them I don't know what to do tommorow I want her to know I want to talk and am not nervous what should I do? I am a junior and she is a freshman, so I am old enough not to be nervous or scared lol

She wants your cock. Any women actually willing to approach a guy is interested. Play things right and you'll be guarented something (gf, sex etc). Don't come of as needy, treating her any different from anyone else. Play hard to get blah blah blah

[NightmareSHANIQUA]

Originally Posted by T3H Bouncer

i wouldnt go for anything big maybe something small like a bit of touching(not foreplay really) and if shes really wanting to do stuff with you after you dont make a move sexually on her she will probably want to hang out real soon and then you will know when to make the move.........not sure if that helped but im trying my best

If she is making the initiative then you are golden. It means that she digs you for sure. So many girls will simply sit back and wait for guys to come to them, which is why they can be so ****ing aarogant. Anyway, if you do watch that movie, I bet she will end up making the first move, maybe by leaning over on you or cuddling up. But one thing is for sure, let her lead it show how far she is willing to go, especially if it is the first time you two are hanging out. Kinda hang back from the situation, but dont sit there like a vegetable.

Im sure Bleached is gonna wanna either improve, or add onto that, but thats what I have found works.