[billypball]

that was 30 bps in ur direction, my friend

[Superpede1]

You know thats 15 past the limit? Geeze all my advice and everyone is still taking shots at me lol. A man can only get laid so many times in one day you know

[Aria]

Ok, well this is kinda of old but I never really got over it. I had this friend who is jewish (must add because he brags about his money all the time) well anyways, I have been dating this girl off and on for about 2 years, and we are very close, and wow all the sudden my friends stop calling her ugly and think she is attractive. Now to start off I never liked the jewish kid in the first place, but I had to be nice to him because my other close friends like him and well he bought a lot of weed off me. But this cut the cake. So about 3 days to school is out this ******* starts a rumor that he made out with my girlfriend in a bathroom during last block. And then next day same time that she gave him oral, and all of this **** just piles and everone beleives it. So I confronted him numerous times and all these times he denied all accounts of telling any rumors. Until later I saw heard him directly telling a close friend, who of course beleived him. Well its been about a month and this same ******* is trying to be friends with me cause he knows im not over all this. And its not because I keep a real grudge, its because this brought me more greef than anything in the whole school year. And my closer friends beleived him to, and having someone close to me contredict my better judgement is just bull****. So my question is should I just let it go, or just kick his *** because I would enjoy that. Wow that was long.

[GruntUSMC]

i assume your school is out for summer? if not wait for some kind of "break" and give him a coloumbian necktie....

[snap shot]

Kick his ***.

[imp pimp 101]

Originally Posted by snap shot

Kick his ***.

/\
what he said

[billypball]

try to get him into a coffee house and show him that you are not attacking him in the situation...then jizz in his java

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Originally Posted by Aria

Ok, well this is kinda of old but I never really got over it. I had this friend who is jewish (must add because he brags about his money all the time) well anyways, I have been dating this girl off and on for about 2 years, and we are very close, and wow all the sudden my friends stop calling her ugly and think she is attractive. Now to start off I never liked the jewish kid in the first place, but I had to be nice to him because my other close friends like him and well he bought a lot of weed off me. But this cut the cake. So about 3 days to school is out this ******* starts a rumor that he made out with my girlfriend in a bathroom during last block. And then next day same time that she gave him oral, and all of this **** just piles and everone beleives it. So I confronted him numerous times and all these times he denied all accounts of telling any rumors. Until later I saw heard him directly telling a close friend, who of course beleived him. Well its been about a month and this same ******* is trying to be friends with me cause he knows im not over all this. And its not because I keep a real grudge, its because this brought me more greef than anything in the whole school year. And my closer friends beleived him to, and having someone close to me contredict my better judgement is just bull****. So my question is should I just let it go, or just kick his *** because I would enjoy that. Wow that was long.

Yanno the amount of innappropriate, bannable, jew jokes that just came to my mind is almost staggering. *Bites lip* Anyway, i'd jam that kids yamakah up his *** with my foot! And stop selling drugs you low life!

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Originally Posted by billypball

i've lived in the midwest my whole life and i guess i've just been taught to be more of a gentleman than a dick, but you do make a good point. that was actually something i worried about the first time i called her up last year. my mom has been trying to move to SoCal for the past 2 years and i was wondering what you thought about me finally agreeing....she is in NorCal (like 6 hours away from where my mom wants to go) but still, it could help me set up a relationship with significantly different circumstances. I can't believe that if you were in this sort of situation you would realize your mistakes and declare that she isnt save-able. i just need to know how to right the wrongs. i know i prolly sound like a ***** with this but i love her to death and i know that she felt the same before the current guy.

You're probably not going to like this but for the most part I agree with Superpede1. Essentially what you are trying to do is climb your Mount Everest without any training. The other problem here is distance. It WOULD be possible to turn this around if she lived in the area. But unfortunatly, because you didn't play the alpha male role right off the bat, this guy has the upperhand. The bottom line is you can't take the upper hand away from a guy who is physically there when you are not. I don't care if your Don Juan DeMarco, you are not going to steal a girl's heart from across the country. If you still refuse to take this advice then here is all I can say. If you can get her up to Iowa and you can do a 180 with how you act around her, you might be able to snag her for a short time.

So now let's look at this from a business standpoint. The amount of time, energy and research you have to put into snagging this girl back will be 10 fold compared to just picking up an attractive girl on the street. Now i know what you're thinking.... "But dude, she's worth it, i love her." No... she's not worth it! Women are a dime a dozen, and you will learn that as you date more. Don't get me wrong, I love women and i think they should be treated with the utmost respect, BUT THERES BILLIONS OF THEM ON THIS EARTH!!!!!!!!!! This girl is not the end all, there are alot of girls out there you can love that will love you back!!!! So what i truly think you should be doing, is maintaining a distant friendship with this girl and going out there and looking for a girl in Iowa!

[billypball]

Originally Posted by Bleachednblonde

If you can get her up to Iowa and you can do a 180 with how you act around her, you might be able to snag her for a short time.

So what i truly think you should be doing, is maintaining a distant friendship with this girl and going out there and looking for a girl in Iowa!

I understand what you are telling me and i totally agree. I just cant seem to get over not talking to her anymore and there is absolutely no way she would come to Iowa if this other dude is so close by. My best shot would be to get her to fly out later in the year after things settle down between them (she gets bored easily with guys...like she went out with 2 guys for a total of 2 1/2 weeks last year) and try and invite her out then. I also agree with your point that i should maintain a distant friendship and move away from any sorts of feelings that would go beyond that. I just dont know how to maintain a friendship that appears to be crumbling at this point.

This reminds me of "Feelin way too damn good" by Nickelback lol, go check the first lines of it.

I think i know what is best at this point. I talked to her sister last night (the one that's dating the said dude's older brother) and i think she has a better view of both what kind of person i am and what i am trying to do. she knows her sister and is also against her goin out with this dude. who knows, maybe i'll get a good word from her, too.

[Superpede1]

Originally Posted by billypball

she knows her sister and is also against her goin out with this dude. who knows, maybe i'll get a good word from her, too.

I am afraid your not getting it man, it doesnt matter if you get good word from her sister, you wherent the right type of man around her and you missed the boat.

Originally Posted by Bleachednblonde

You're probably not going to like this but for the most part I agree with Superpede1.

Nice to see someone agrees with me, Ill see a hot girl and start making jokes about her to her and giving her a hard time and such and all my friends look at me like I am insane, perhaps thats why most of my friends havent had a g/f in over a year?

Originally Posted by Bleachednblonde

she's not worth it! Women are a dime a dozen, and you will learn that as you date more.

Amen! Just move on billy.

[CAHunter (Banned)]

Originally Posted by Aria

Ok, well this is kinda of old but I never really got over it. I had this friend who is jewish (must add because he brags about his money all the time) well anyways, I have been dating this girl off and on for about 2 years, and we are very close, and wow all the sudden my friends stop calling her ugly and think she is attractive. Now to start off I never liked the jewish kid in the first place, but I had to be nice to him because my other close friends like him and well he bought a lot of weed off me. But this cut the cake. So about 3 days to school is out this ******* starts a rumor that he made out with my girlfriend in a bathroom during last block. And then next day same time that she gave him oral, and all of this **** just piles and everone beleives it. So I confronted him numerous times and all these times he denied all accounts of telling any rumors. Until later I saw heard him directly telling a close friend, who of course beleived him. Well its been about a month and this same ******* is trying to be friends with me cause he knows im not over all this. And its not because I keep a real grudge, its because this brought me more greef than anything in the whole school year. And my closer friends beleived him to, and having someone close to me contredict my better judgement is just bull****. So my question is should I just let it go, or just kick his *** because I would enjoy that. Wow that was long.

I would say to kick his ***, buy I don't know how well potheads can fight.

[billypball]

aight bro im done

[baver10]

You said it yourself, she doesn't stick with guys long generally. Why put yourself in a position like that, there's million of girls out there and I gaurentee theres someone out there who you will enjoy talking to and being around a lot more then her, as well love you back.

Just take this for the experience and find some girls in Iowa!

[billypball]

im gonna post a follow-up to this in a few months. its hard to explain and it sucks on my end b/c u guys really dont know her like i do. generally, she doesnt go out with guys for long. that was because of me. she didnt like the fact that when she was going out with other ppl, they wouldnt let her call or really have that much of a relationship with me. its only been 24 hours since i got home, and this may be the jetlag speaking, but im probably overreacting and things will be fine. i remember a rough patch like this last year after our vacation and everything still worked out ok. you can post that you agree with others, and i'm behind you....in a general situation i would accept that she is gone and un-saveable. this isn't a general situation and im gonna do what i think is right. even if i **** up...do i have anything to lose? if i do, its surely not even close to what i would go through in a few years when i regret not trying one last time. who can say that she isnt waiting on the other end feeling like **** because she knows she may lose me? i've talked to her on more than one occasion at 2 am where she was bawling at the thought of never seeing somebody she barely even knew.

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Originally Posted by billypball

im gonna post a follow-up to this in a few months. its hard to explain and it sucks on my end b/c u guys really dont know her like i do. generally, she doesnt go out with guys for long. that was because of me. she didnt like the fact that when she was going out with other ppl, they wouldnt let her call or really have that much of a relationship with me. its only been 24 hours since i got home, and this may be the jetlag speaking, but im probably overreacting and things will be fine. i remember a rough patch like this last year after our vacation and everything still worked out ok. you can post that you agree with others, and i'm behind you....in a general situation i would accept that she is gone and un-saveable. this isn't a general situation and im gonna do what i think is right. even if i **** up...do i have anything to lose? if i do, its surely not even close to what i would go through in a few years when i regret not trying one last time. who can say that she isnt waiting on the other end feeling like **** because she knows she may lose me? i've talked to her on more than one occasion at 2 am where she was bawling at the thought of never seeing somebody she barely even knew.

I hate to burst your bubble here but everyone thinks THEIR situation is different and special and that THEIR girl is different special. I don't need to know you or this girl to be able to tell you what will happen... But i'm going to tell you, there is nothing special about this situation, if you read back over the last 60 some pages there are tons of posts just like this... and there are tons of girls just like this. And I guess you're right, you might look back and regret not trying... but as a 21 year old who CAN look back on situations like this i can tell you from experience it's not the times like this regret. What you're going to regret is wasting your time with this girl when you could have been out making better relationships for yourself. But hey, what do i know i've only dated 30 or 40 girls in my life and researched the psychology behind psysical attraction and women's desires.

You've already said yourself you know you need to do this but can't. That's not love, that's weakness. Yea it sucks, but we all have to do things in this world that suck. You are simply in denial right now, and you're rationalizing it by saying, "you don't understand." But the bottom line I (we) do understand... that's why the message and response you have gotten is ONE CLEAR CONSISE message... because everyone else can see it. But this is common, all my friends and family could tell me ex girlfriend was a *****, but i didn't see it because sometimes we are blinded but what we THINK is love.

[paintballer045]

well i havent seen/talked to this girl in a year

so i get her aim and talk to her for about 2 hours and everything and shes says "bye i love" and i just say bye ans she doesnt sign off for about 3 more min..

and then today she did the same thing and i told her bye,but she still waited awile before she signed off

so I dont know if im making a big deal outta nothin,but i dont want her to think im wierd or something for saying it back

idk please help if you can

[billypball]

im not trying to be a long distance boyfriend, just a long distance friend. i dont care that she may soon have a boyfriend just the same that she doesnt care that i had a girlfriend last year. as i said before, she had a couple boyfriends and broke up with both of them because they got really jealous whenever she called me. im happy she has somebody there in CA that she can be with and talk to. it would be a pretty pathetic life if the only person she thought she needed was just a voice on a phone. im glad that she's being social and hanging out with her friends, but at the same time im worried that she may slowly be phazing me out of her life. thats my problem. i dont want to know what it takes to be her boyfriend because, being 1500 miles away, i recognize that it is impossible. i just want to know how to continue a friendly relationship with her.

[J.tucker]

Originally Posted by Bleachednblonde

Here's the main room, with the 62" plasma TV overlooking lake michigan and milwaukee

Again

A view from the balcony


One of the blondes i met

^^^ which one is the girl?

rofl

[WGP_TN (Banned)]

So, my ex girls families and mine always go out to eat w/ these other families that live on the lake. yesterday i asked my ex if she wanted to ride w/ me in my car cause i would be bored. She said she is just gonna take her boat w/ her family. So i invited another chick. My ex constantly has asked questions about this new girl and reads my txt from her etc... So they meet for the first time and my ex makes stupid comments like "you never let me order whatever i want." "hey kirk shes a vegetarian, better for your wallet" and when i was leaving i opened the car door for my date and my ex said "the whole opening doors thing will end soon" So... is my ex jealous out the balls or pissed. And do u think dating other girls will make her want me back (which is what i want to happen)

tl;dr: I took a girl out and my ex was there, ex made stupid comments, does she want my body?

[paintballer045]

i think shes jelous(sp?)of you and the other girl