I know it's out of the way, but there is a huge player base for females at xtreme kombat. we get alot of the college and local buisness groups. The field has a large female client base, I highly recomend you make the trip, it would be worth it.
Also, I know you said you got the equipment covered but I wanted to express the importance of chest protection... the more protection the better of course but at a minimum you need to have chest protection. Females either love the game or hate it after their first shot... and if it is in a vulnerable spot, they will NOT walk back out on the field. Good luck whatever field you choose, and have fun!