[incobWTF]

Originally Posted by yuik

This is ****ing sick !

In pool there are 6 pockets .

ya i kno bro
by lost your metaphor i meant i forgot you were talking about pool
EDIT: because i was super sober

[Mr.Familiar]

Going to grad school this coming fall, which is 2.5 hours away from where I am living now, and where the girl I've been dating for nearly 5 months now lives. We both know what's coming, but I think she is going to take it really, really hard when I leave. Not sure if I want to try and make the long distance thing work yet.... blahhh... I don't know. Just going with the flow at this point. I mean, I really like this girl, it's just crazy how much I can relate to her on so many different levels; but I'm not sure if I can make it work.

[paintballer045]

Originally Posted by Mr.Familiar

Going to grad school this coming fall, which is 2.5 hours away from where I am living now, and where the girl I've been dating for nearly 5 months now lives. We both know what's coming, but I think she is going to take it really, really hard when I leave. Not sure if I want to try and make the long distance thing work yet.... blahhh... I don't know. Just going with the flow at this point. I mean, I really like this girl, it's just crazy how much I can relate to her on so many different levels; but I'm not sure if I can make it work.

Cross that bridge when you come to it.
Fall is still a longs ways away, especially in such a new relationship. Have fun and see where it leads.

[Elo160]

Originally Posted by aieou

When it comes to being attracted to girls with whom you are friends with; Eddie Murphy says it best:

"If you're starving and somebody throws you a cracker, you gonna be like this: Goddamn, that's the best cracker I ever ate in my life! That ain't no regular cracker, was it? What was that, a Saltine? Goddamn, that was delicious. That wasn't no Saltine. That was... That was a Ritz. That wasn't a Ritz? God, that was the best cracker I ever ate in my life."

Moral of the story? Don't go after some girl who you are friends with that you think you 'like.' You're just horny. There are other attractive girls out there for you.

Best advise ever. Thanks. Because i really dont care that much about being in the friend zone, i just needed a different opinion besides my own. Cause my own opinion has gotten me in trouble, alot

[StrongBad1177]

Originally Posted by drunktiger21

By the way, has anyone had sex with a Colombian girl? Are they as crazy as everyone seems to say? DSXL's ex is columbian and he says sex is super dirty and is like clock work.

Apparently other nations women outside of the us view sex as a totally normal thing and therefore prudish qualities are more rare.

Nice field report! It looks like you were mostly out to have a good time, which is definitely important to take away. I believe that energy is a real thing, even when we can't see it. If the energy you are projecting is playful and fun then your chances of building rapport and having fun increase. If you were oozing nervous/desperate energy then the chances of her picking up on it and becoming uncomfortable are also more likely.

[RBR321]

Originally Posted by drunktiger21

Honestly, make a decision and have fun with it. You sound pretty young so just do what will give you the best memories, because that's what you will look back and reflect on the future.

Decided to go for it today. She unloaded emotional **** on me before she got out of the car then I just hugged her and walked her to the door. So I went to work, did my ****, and the first thing I did when I got out was text her saying that we needed to talk. I drove over there and just flat out said what I needed to say. She's reluctant to start a relationship with me because there's a good amount of things we don't see eye to eye on which I get but after that things were... not so normal. 99.9% of guys go home upset or frustrated well instead we ended up laying in her bed together and started messing around a bit. Now she's making it dead obvious that she wants to **** me Apparently the way I held her before we played around a bit got her going somehow. In her words "you have a nice touch" "I like to be caressed". So my mind is full of **** because this is like getting a hug from someone after you punch them in the face it just doesn't make sense. Now the only debate is that even though I really really like this girl and have for quite some time, do I want to lose my virginity to her? I mean it could lead to us having a serious relationship or it could just **** things up between us.

[yuik]

Originally Posted by xFSUxlaxflip

dude you read my mother ****ing mind. Who the **** under the age of 30 has a hard wired land line anymore? Hell even my ****ing parents got rid of that **** years ago...

Guy your letting technology get the best of you game wise ! You can even use your mobile phone to turn into your land line .

Her blowing you off with twitter is showing low interest level guy. You need to not be so easy to reach guy . Why are you talking to these goomads 4 times a week guy. Leave her wanting more , make her curious it's in doc loves system .

[yuik]

By being so available to communicate (twitter text Facebook message ) it's showing your neediness and how you are too interested in her.

You need incoming interest level guy .

Tmobile launched a 10$ home phone service btw

[incobWTF]

yuik u dum guy. people get laid without some gay doc guy, guy.
the **** is the point of a cellular home line guy
he shoulda tweeted her a dick pic guy

[DJ Bob (Banned)]

what the ****? you guys are trying to get the ladies with twitter and ****?

women love an old-fashioned land-line, it shows character. Trust me, as a dj, I've gotten plenty of ***** without ever giving out a cell phone number. I use that for business only.

[drunktiger21]

Originally Posted by Mr.Familiar

Going to grad school this coming fall, which is 2.5 hours away from where I am living now, and where the girl I've been dating for nearly 5 months now lives. We both know what's coming, but I think she is going to take it really, really hard when I leave. Not sure if I want to try and make the long distance thing work yet.... blahhh... I don't know. Just going with the flow at this point. I mean, I really like this girl, it's just crazy how much I can relate to her on so many different levels; but I'm not sure if I can make it work.

What's the most important thing in your life right now? What do you KNOW you NEED to get done right now in your life? School? Focus on that.

What you need to do is be upfront with her and just tell her you're trying to focus on school and just want to have some fun. If she's down, great! If not, go meet more girls

Originally Posted by StrongBad1177

Apparently other nations women outside of the us view sex as a totally normal thing and therefore prudish qualities are more rare.

Nice field report! It looks like you were mostly out to have a good time, which is definitely important to take away. I believe that energy is a real thing, even when we can't see it. If the energy you are projecting is playful and fun then your chances of building rapport and having fun increase. If you were oozing nervous/desperate energy then the chances of her picking up on it and becoming uncomfortable are also more likely.

Yeah, always. Make people curious about you.

I'm thinking about meeting up with the Colombian girl just for sex. But I'm not really attracted to her emotionally. I feel like I would rather use my efforts to go out and meet more girls.

Originally Posted by RBR321

Decided to go for it today. She unloaded emotional **** on me before she got out of the car then I just hugged her and walked her to the door. So I went to work, did my ****, and the first thing I did when I got out was text her saying that we needed to talk. I drove over there and just flat out said what I needed to say. She's reluctant to start a relationship with me because there's a good amount of things we don't see eye to eye on which I get but after that things were... not so normal. 99.9% of guys go home upset or frustrated well instead we ended up laying in her bed together and started messing around a bit. Now she's making it dead obvious that she wants to **** me Apparently the way I held her before we played around a bit got her going somehow. In her words "you have a nice touch" "I like to be caressed". So my mind is full of **** because this is like getting a hug from someone after you punch them in the face it just doesn't make sense. Now the only debate is that even though I really really like this girl and have for quite some time, do I want to lose my virginity to her? I mean it could lead to us having a serious relationship or it could just **** things up between us.

Oh true! Yes. I will decide for you—go lose your virginity to her. Have fun!!

Originally Posted by yuik

Guy your letting technology get the best of you game wise ! You can even use your mobile phone to turn into your land line .

Her blowing you off with twitter is showing low interest level guy. You need to not be so easy to reach guy . Why are you talking to these goomads 4 times a week guy. Leave her wanting more , make her curious it's in doc loves system .

Okay, I'm curious. Have you actually used this the land line routine? This is how I imagine it:

Drunktiger21:Hey can I have your phone number?
HB: Oh, it's 555-
Drunktiger21:Oh no, I mean your land line.
HB: My what..?

How does it go for real? Because no one I know has a landline.
I agree with everything else you said, though.

As far as technology goes, I embrace the hell out of it. It's a 100% close rate. Even from engaged girls. Very casual. Last week I went on a date with two Canadian girls I met on instagram who were visiting for a week.

Originally Posted by yuik

By being so available to communicate (twitter text Facebook message ) it's showing your neediness and how you are too interested in her.

You need incoming interest level guy .

Tmobile launched a 10$ home phone service btw

I see what you are saying now dude. And yes, he's entirely right.
What I have done is use my twitter account for my personal brand, instagram for girls. No FB, either.

Also, when I exchange numbers with a girl, I let her know that I get no notifications for text or emails unless I manually check. Oh, also, my phone has been on silent for about 3 weeks now. I like the idea of the world revolving around MY time.

[incobWTF]

send that ***** a smoke signal
*****es love smoke signals

[DJ Bob (Banned)]

Originally Posted by incobWTF

send that ***** a smoke signal
*****es love smoke signals

i wouldn't go that far, but have you ever written a ***** a good old-fashioned letter? *****es love snail mail

[drunktiger21]

Originally Posted by DJ Bob

i wouldn't go that far, but have you ever written a ***** a good old-fashioned letter? *****es love snail mail

Dude, for sure.

[Mr.Familiar]

Originally Posted by drunktiger21

What's the most important thing in your life right now? What do you KNOW you NEED to get done right now in your life? School? Focus on that.

What you need to do is be upfront with her and just tell her you're trying to focus on school and just want to have some fun. If she's down, great! If not, go meet more girls

I've done that from day 1. I've been completely transparent and forthcoming with her. I'm just more concerned about hurting her than anything else. I know I can't control how she feels, but I feel like I'm riding that fine edge of almost leading her on.

Dilemma is, she is a bigger girl. Not fat, just genetically "bigger". She's 6 foot, really large pelvis, bigger arms; played volleyball all of her life. Her grandma is 6'7, yet very obese. She has really nice legs however. I'm a somewhat smaller guy. I'm 5'11, 170lbs. I'm muscular and strong, but still just genetically small. Honestly, I've always wanted a "smaller" type of girl.
I do really care for her, and we have a lot of fun together and joke around all the time. Plus; sex is great. The only issue I'm having is that if I break it off with her, I feel like I would totally regret it later. Physical body type & healthy genetics vs. awesome ****ing personality. I've honestly never met a girl like her before.

/vent

[drunktiger21]

Originally Posted by Mr.Familiar

I've done that from day 1. I've been completely transparent and forthcoming with her. I'm just more concerned about hurting her than anything else. I know I can't control how she feels, but I feel like I'm riding that fine edge of almost leading her on.

Dilemma is, she is a bigger girl. Not fat, just genetically "bigger". She's 6 foot, really large pelvis, bigger arms; played volleyball all of her life. Her grandma is 6'7, yet very obese. She has really nice legs however. I'm a somewhat smaller guy. I'm 5'11, 170lbs. I'm muscular and strong, but still just genetically small. Honestly, I've always wanted a "smaller" type of girl.
I do really care for her, and we have a lot of fun together and joke around all the time. Plus; sex is great. The only issue I'm having is that if I break it off with her, I feel like I would totally regret it later. Physical body type & healthy genetics vs. awesome ****ing personality. I've honestly never met a girl like her before.

/vent

Make her sign a ****ing contract stating that she agrees that she does not feel lead on, if you have to. Make sure she knows all conditions clearly.
Be upfront with her. Clear your conscience about any feeling of guilt if it bothers you.

Love those thick legs, too, bro.

You are thinking too far ahead. You are stressing out about the unknown. Stop it. Live your day in day-long compartments. Think about solutions to the issues when they arise. Also, don't say anything to her either, because she's probably not even thinking about this. She just wants to get ****ed

[xFSUxlaxflip]

Originally Posted by yuik

Guy your letting technology get the best of you game wise ! You can even use your mobile phone to turn into your land line .

Her blowing you off with twitter is showing low interest level guy. You need to not be so easy to reach guy . Why are you talking to these goomads 4 times a week guy. Leave her wanting more , make her curious it's in doc loves system .

Yeah not so much considering im married... :/ further more who the **** gets blown off with twitter?? im beginning to suspect you might be one of those bot things

[yuik]

Originally Posted by xFSUxlaxflip

Yeah not so much considering im married... :/ further more who the **** gets blown off with twitter?? im beginning to suspect you might be one of those bot things

Bot things ? I don't even have twitter guy

[yuik]

Bob classic . I have written many a love letter on a cocktail napkin at a loud *** club . The more over the top the better .

Originally Posted by drunktiger21

What's the most important thing in your life right now? What do you KNOW you NEED to get done right now in your life? School? Focus on that.

What you need to do is be upfront with her and just tell her you're trying to focus on school and just want to have some fun. If she's down, great! If not, go meet more girls

Yeah, always. Make people curious about you.

I'm thinking about meeting up with the Colombian girl just for sex. But I'm not really attracted to her emotionally. I feel like I would rather use my efforts to go out and meet more girls.

Oh true! Yes. I will decide for you—go lose your virginity to her. Have fun!!

Okay, I'm curious. Have you actually used this the land line routine? This is how I imagine it:

How does it go for real? Because no one I know has a landline.
I agree with everything else you said, though.

As far as technology goes, I embrace the hell out of it. It's a 100% close rate. Even from engaged girls. Very casual. Last week I went on a date with two Canadian girls I met on instagram who were visiting for a week.

I see what you are saying now dude. And yes, he's entirely right.
What I have done is use my twitter account for my personal brand, instagram for girls. No FB, either.

Also, when I exchange numbers with a girl, I let her know that I get no notifications for text or emails unless I manually check. Oh, also, my phone has been on silent for about 3 weeks now. I like the idea of the world revolving around MY time.

You kind of have a good modern approach to doc loves system . Your going in the right direction guy .

Why Instigram ? Why not just run some day game and meet up with *****es that way ?

[R2-D2]

I always use Instagram to get the wimminz

[yuik]

Originally Posted by R2-D2

I always use Instagram to get the wimminz

What about the dewdz?