[kamish]

Would you guys feel like a pedo for hooking up with an 18y/o high school senior at 20? Feel kind of weird after she told me she's in high school.

[xFSUxlaxflip]

Originally Posted by Hey there bro

Hey guys, im new to this thread but I really need help. Im only 17 but theres a girl at my school who I really like. Luckily im a very funny guy so I am always able to make her laugh, but not much else. I am not the most attractive guy as you can tell in my avatar (im the white one), but I would really like to be with her. Ive had so many times where I tell myself I have to ask her out, but I really dont know if I can.Fortunately for me, no one else thinks she's that attractive, but I like her for her personality, not just her looks. Anyway, the reason I need help is finding a way to ask her out. I have asked her friends who she likes and they all respond with go ask her yourself. No one really is ever honest to me about my appearance and attractiveness so I have turned to the interwebz where the most brutally honest people hide. This is gonna sound sad but at 17 with not even having a first kiss, you can imagine I have low self-esteem, thats why I want to know if you guys think with the way I look, whether I have a chance of getting a girlfriend. If not then its whatever and ill feel just as insecure as before posting this, but if so it would help me greatly. Please dont be afraid to be honest with me, and to anyone who has read this far in my post, I appreciate your time

If trolling 8/10 would troll again...

if not:

Looks are meaningless.. Its this grand thing we call life everything around you is focused on looks, magazines, movies, and television. Its all false. Certainly looks apply to an extent but its more about how you handle social situations. More specifically women are instinctively looking for certain emotional and social cues to know that they are supposed to like you, want to be with you, and even sleep with you. Misunderstanding or misusing those social cues is the reason why some guys make it so far with a girl then by some magic suddenly get shot down.

With all that being said... be yourself always. Its a cheesy line but the idea is to adjust some of your behavior while still remaining true to yourself. If you try to adjust, change, or generally "fake" who you are its very easy to pick this out and it just wont work for you.

Project confidence. Right now you are without her. You are still alive, you still have fun with your buddies, you still enjoy life (at least a percentage of the time), so what difference will it make if you go for it and ask her out and she says no? The answer here is that likely "nothing will change". Consider this, by not asking you gain nothing but by asking you stand to gain her.

Lastly, the absolute worst thing that could happen is she says no and does not want to continue being "friends". In this case at least you know where you stand and can chalk this up to a learning experience.

[JC001]

Originally Posted by kamish

Would you guys feel like a pedo for hooking up with an 18y/o high school senior at 20? Feel kind of weird after she told me she's in high school.

absolutely not. as long as she is over 18 and its legal go for it.

[Hey there bro]

Originally Posted by xFSUxlaxflip

If trolling 8/10 would troll again...

if not:

Looks are meaningless.. Its this grand thing we call life everything around you is focused on looks, magazines, movies, and television. Its all false. Certainly looks apply to an extent but its more about how you handle social situations. More specifically women are instinctively looking for certain emotional and social cues to know that they are supposed to like you, want to be with you, and even sleep with you. Misunderstanding or misusing those social cues is the reason why some guys make it so far with a girl then by some magic suddenly get shot down.

With all that being said... be yourself always. Its a cheesy line but the idea is to adjust some of your behavior while still remaining true to yourself. If you try to adjust, change, or generally "fake" who you are its very easy to pick this out and it just wont work for you.

Project confidence. Right now you are without her. You are still alive, you still have fun with your buddies, you still enjoy life (at least a percentage of the time), so what difference will it make if you go for it and ask her out and she says no? The answer here is that likely "nothing will change". Consider this, by not asking you gain nothing but by asking you stand to gain her.

Lastly, the absolute worst thing that could happen is she says no and does not want to continue being "friends". In this case at least you know where you stand and can chalk this up to a learning experience.

thanks bro, and I am not trolling, dont worry. im going to the mall with her today anyway

[yuik (Banned)]

Originally Posted by Hey there bro

Hey guys, im new to this thread but I really need help. Im only 17 but theres a girl at my school who I really like. Luckily im a very funny guy so I am always able to make her laugh, but not much else. I am not the most attractive guy as you can tell in my avatar (im the white one), but I would really like to be with her. Ive had so many times where I tell myself I have to ask her out, but I really dont know if I can.Fortunately for me, no one else thinks she's that attractive, but I like her for her personality, not just her looks. Anyway, the reason I need help is finding a way to ask her out. I have asked her friends who she likes and they all respond with go ask her yourself. No one really is ever honest to me about my appearance and attractiveness so I have turned to the interwebz where the most brutally honest people hide. This is gonna sound sad but at 17 with not even having a first kiss, you can imagine I have low self-esteem, thats why I want to know if you guys think with the way I look, whether I have a chance of getting a girlfriend. If not then its whatever and ill feel just as insecure as before posting this, but if so it would help me greatly. Please dont be afraid to be honest with me, and to anyone who has read this far in my post, I appreciate your time

Get the home phone number guy ! The hard wired phone .

Use doc loves system . Find doc loves book called the dating dictionary! This book will make you a ***** magnet its the blueprint to success guy!

[drunktiger21]

Originally Posted by kamish

Would you guys feel like a pedo for hooking up with an 18y/o high school senior at 20? Feel kind of weird after she told me she's in high school.

You're overthinking it.

[drunktiger21]

Originally Posted by Hey there bro

Hey guys, im new to this thread but I really need help. Im only 17 but theres a girl at my school who I really like. Luckily im a very funny guy so I am always able to make her laugh, but not much else. I am not the most attractive guy as you can tell in my avatar (im the white one), but I would really like to be with her. Ive had so many times where I tell myself I have to ask her out, but I really dont know if I can.Fortunately for me, no one else thinks she's that attractive, but I like her for her personality, not just her looks. Anyway, the reason I need help is finding a way to ask her out. I have asked her friends who she likes and they all respond with go ask her yourself. No one really is ever honest to me about my appearance and attractiveness so I have turned to the interwebz where the most brutally honest people hide. This is gonna sound sad but at 17 with not even having a first kiss, you can imagine I have low self-esteem, thats why I want to know if you guys think with the way I look, whether I have a chance of getting a girlfriend. If not then its whatever and ill feel just as insecure as before posting this, but if so it would help me greatly. Please dont be afraid to be honest with me, and to anyone who has read this far in my post, I appreciate your time

1. Find The Game by Neil Strauss
2. Read it

[drunktiger21]

Originally Posted by xFSUxlaxflip

If trolling 8/10 would troll again...

if not:

Looks are meaningless.. Its this grand thing we call life everything around you is focused on looks, magazines, movies, and television. Its all false. Certainly looks apply to an extent but its more about how you handle social situations. More specifically women are instinctively looking for certain emotional and social cues to know that they are supposed to like you, want to be with you, and even sleep with you. Misunderstanding or misusing those social cues is the reason why some guys make it so far with a girl then by some magic suddenly get shot down.

With all that being said... be yourself always. Its a cheesy line but the idea is to adjust some of your behavior while still remaining true to yourself. If you try to adjust, change, or generally "fake" who you are its very easy to pick this out and it just wont work for you.

Project confidence. Right now you are without her. You are still alive, you still have fun with your buddies, you still enjoy life (at least a percentage of the time), so what difference will it make if you go for it and ask her out and she says no? The answer here is that likely "nothing will change". Consider this, by not asking you gain nothing but by asking you stand to gain her.

Lastly, the absolute worst thing that could happen is she says no and does not want to continue being "friends". In this case at least you know where you stand and can chalk this up to a learning experience.

You at FSU now?
Go noles!

[Ly$ol (Banned)]

Originally Posted by Hey there bro

lol ok, im not trolling though

Buy a r6

[StrongBad1177]

Originally Posted by R2-D2

nothing. it's only significant if you're the last number in her book. every girl has an inner ****...unlocking that **** is the key. also, you probably want an emotionally stable and monogamous **** if you're looking for something serious.

my statement was made in the interest of some great sex and not generally looking to girlfriend/wife the ****. Just casual dating, not necessarily exclusively. wrap it, tap it. or get her tested, then hit it.

QFT, as long as she has no STD's and is faithful now that shes with you, it shouldnt matter.

Why is a **** so much less desirable than other girls? What is really preferable? A girl who was in a long term relationship where her ex boyfriend and her experimented and did all sorts of freaky experimental ****? OR a girl whose been with her share of different guys but they were all short flings and probably didn't satisfy her? (they couldnt last long/was a ****ty one night stand/etc)

By typical standards, the first girl would not be seen as a ****, but I bet she's done way more ****ty things(*** shots, tons of bjs, potentially anal) with her ex boyfriend than the second girl. However, the second girl is more likely to be viewed as a **** simply because of the number of guys shes been with.

[drunktiger21]

Originally Posted by StrongBad1177

QFT, as long as she has no STD's and is faithful now that shes with you, it shouldnt matter.

Why is a **** so much less desirable than other girls? What is really preferable? A girl who was in a long term relationship where her ex boyfriend and her experimented and did all sorts of freaky experimental ****? OR a girl whose been with her share of different guys but they were all short flings and probably didn't satisfy her? (they couldnt last long/was a ****ty one night stand/etc)

By typical standards, the first girl would not be seen as a ****, but I bet she's done way more ****ty things(*** shots, tons of bjs, potentially anal) with her ex boyfriend than the second girl. However, the second girl is more likely to be viewed as a **** simply because of the number of guys shes been with.

Good description.

When I think of college ****s, I think of girls making very poor decisions that are enabled with alcohol. Calling themselves "whitegirlwasted", almost trying to sound cool. It's just a crutch for not leading interesting enough lifes.

I think all girls can be turned into loyal ****s.

But then there are some that just want the D.

But the majority of them had kids lol

[empire112234]

Originally Posted by Hey there bro

Hey guys, im new to this thread but I really need help. Im only 17 but theres a girl at my school who I really like. Luckily im a very funny guy so I am always able to make her laugh, but not much else. I am not the most attractive guy as you can tell in my avatar (im the white one), but I would really like to be with her. Ive had so many times where I tell myself I have to ask her out, but I really dont know if I can.Fortunately for me, no one else thinks she's that attractive, but I like her for her personality, not just her looks. Anyway, the reason I need help is finding a way to ask her out. I have asked her friends who she likes and they all respond with go ask her yourself. No one really is ever honest to me about my appearance and attractiveness so I have turned to the interwebz where the most brutally honest people hide. This is gonna sound sad but at 17 with not even having a first kiss, you can imagine I have low self-esteem, thats why I want to know if you guys think with the way I look, whether I have a chance of getting a girlfriend. If not then its whatever and ill feel just as insecure as before posting this, but if so it would help me greatly. Please dont be afraid to be honest with me, and to anyone who has read this far in my post, I appreciate your time

Holy insecurity batman.

You've got nothing to worry about. Just go for it. If it works out, then great. If not then move onto the next one. You're 17 and success and failure with girls is more or less just a part of growing up.

One thing I will say is that if you don't feel good about yourself then you should do something about it. Join a club or team, start working out, pick up a new hobby, etc. Girls are comfortable with guys that are comfortable with themselves.

FSU's post is good too. Best of luck.

[Mr.Robinson]

Anyone ever bang their friends ex?

[xFSUxlaxflip]

Originally Posted by drunktiger21

You at FSU now?
Go noles!

while i agree with go noles im an old bastard.. i been out of college like 4 years.. feel old -.-

[Hey there bro]

Originally Posted by Mr.Robinson

Anyone ever bang their friends ex?

You sir are pretty ****ed now ;p

Originally Posted by empire112234

Holy insecurity batman.

You've got nothing to worry about. Just go for it. If it works out, then great. If not then move onto the next one. You're 17 and success and failure with girls is more or less just a part of growing up.

One thing I will say is that if you don't feel good about yourself then you should do something about it. Join a club or team, start working out, pick up a new hobby, etc. Girls are comfortable with guys that are comfortable with themselves.

FSU's post is good too. Best of luck.

I now im trying to lose weight, i lost like 7 this past 2 weeks by eating sushi

[StrongBad1177]

Originally Posted by Mr.Robinson

Anyone ever bang their friends ex?

You have to take it up with your friend. In the long run, it matters. Sometimes friends ex's are so sexy, believe me I know. It's an old rule, and still a good one, "Bros before Hoes" my friend.

[PaintballerGoneWild]

There are no such things are girl problems... you just find the hottest girl that will date you... and you put up with her **** because shes hot. That simple!! haha

[Elo160]

Any of you have a problem with being friends with girls you are attracted to?

[pflfranco]

Originally Posted by Elo160

Any of you have a problem with being friends with girls you are attracted to?

Yes, I want to **** them 24-7.

[RBR321]

Originally Posted by Elo160

Any of you have a problem with being friends with girls you are attracted to?

That's unavoidable by all human beings ya derp.

Okay so I've been on/off (friendship) with this girl met 3 years ago. In short she had a boyfriend, I was the ******* who came between them even though they already had a cluster**** of a relationship, they've been trying to fix things but recently she's realized that she just needs to give up. Two months ago when they broke up I swooped back on in and she and I now talk every day. One night I was having a really rough time with things and I went to see her. She pulled out this whole caring side that I'd never seen from her before. Again in short she basically just held her arms around me and stayed with me until I felt okay and wouldn't let me drive home until I was totally calm. So that night she tweeted "Sometimes you meet the right people at the wrong time". She knows that I still have feelings for her but we don't bring it up ever and whenever a conversation mentions us being together I say something along the lines of that I have no interest in dating her even though I clearly do. Somehow she actually believe that I have no intention of dating her right now. Recently she's been showing signs more and more often that she's starting to like me. She buys me **** randomly to surprise me, she runs up behind me and hugs me when I'm at my locker, idk just random little ****s. So being that I feel like this is finally starting to go somewhere, should I ask after two months or drag it out a bit longer just to play it safe?

[Watermelondrea]

Originally Posted by Elo160

Any of you have a problem with being friends with girls you are attracted to?

No, one of my closest friends is a girl who is attractive.