pua **** is wack, a little knowledge of basic psychology and playing your strengths will beat out reading a Neil Strauss book religiously any day...
I love when people quote his **** (eg. ^) like they're experts; hey guess what, your novel approach was a new york times best seller and if that ain't played idk what is.
The first ones mine the no attention is mysteries .
It's called adapting , thinking on the fly and modifying **** to work .
Some things are useful some can be completely useless like that one guys line "saucer of Milk table for two" . However you can have a lot of fun making a competition out of who can say the most ridiculous **** without bombing . It really keeps you on your feet .
And it doesn't matter what is a best seller or made up on the spot. It works . If you keep eye contact pause at the right time you it barely matters the content of what your saying .
FYI I have never seen Canadians go as hard as my friends from my visit Montreal (6 times , 3 of new years) or toronto (3 times). Though you guys may just work differently at a slower pace
whatever man i can see your **** crashin and burning.
and when you use my advice you can't be awkward. you say you're bad at talking to girls but you're actually cool, calm, and collected. and plus, it's easy to make conversations from there. "so, what do guys usually say to pick you up?"...
i'm just tryin to help, no need to bash my advice. obviously it won't work for just anyone but maybe someone will benefit from it. I know i do, so much so i was hesitant to even post it.
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"Originally posted by Laureate: day 1:
the creatine has entered my veins. i can feel it raging inside of me. i look down and realize my 11 inch biceps have swollen at least half an inch. i become scared of my own strength. mother knocks on the door to tell me good night, but i tell her not to open the door...i dont want her to see me like this. moments later i catch myself looking at myself in the mirror...i can barely recognize myself.
then i remember the internet is down...and im forced to jack off to thoughts of a girl in my class into a sock. i watch the george lopez show then go to sleep"
I don't see how saying, "Oh, don't mind my awkwardness, I'm just naturally bad at talking to girls." would be anywhere close to making a good impression on a girl.
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I see where he's coming from. it's not really an impression as its an approach to start your impression. it gets you through that "how do I initiate conversation" phase.
there are a few types of girls who would eat that **** up thinking it's all cute and honest and blah blah blah
Well it's not really honest if it's used as a line.
inb4- they don't know that
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"Lay your facts by the side of every-day practices of this nation and you will say with me that, for revolting barbarity and shameless hypocrisy, America reigns without a rival." -Frederick Douglass
Taking her go-carting, giving her a single rose, and making her a card. I'm too good to her. Been dating for 4 months
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Any man who knows a thing, knows that he knows not a damn, damn thing at all. K'Naan
Poor man, living a rich life
"Lay your facts by the side of every-day practices of this nation and you will say with me that, for revolting barbarity and shameless hypocrisy, America reigns without a rival." -Frederick Douglass
I don't see how saying, "Oh, don't mind my awkwardness, I'm just naturally bad at talking to girls." would be anywhere close to making a good impression on a girl.
you don't say you're awkward. that's bad. you guys aren't getting it.
you just use it when the girl is waiting for you to say something and you have nothing good to say. so instead of saying something stupid like the generic small talk she's used to hearing. regardless, i don't have to justify myself. I was just trying to help.
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"Originally posted by Laureate: day 1:
the creatine has entered my veins. i can feel it raging inside of me. i look down and realize my 11 inch biceps have swollen at least half an inch. i become scared of my own strength. mother knocks on the door to tell me good night, but i tell her not to open the door...i dont want her to see me like this. moments later i catch myself looking at myself in the mirror...i can barely recognize myself.
then i remember the internet is down...and im forced to jack off to thoughts of a girl in my class into a sock. i watch the george lopez show then go to sleep"
I see where he's coming from. it's not really an impression as its an approach to start your impression. it gets you through that "how do I initiate conversation" phase.
there are a few types of girls who would eat that **** up thinking it's all cute and honest and blah blah blah
What are you guys doing for Valentine's day? Just curious with this diverse crowd. Assuming you actually have a girl you give a **** about...
Doing a badass Italian restaurant with a not so badass limited menu , then ditching her to hit the gym and play ball with my boys . (she has college tomorrow morning I have work ).
Got her a necklace from Macy's and some other typical chocolate bear card ect. ( 5 months in)
Passed up on the dick around / funny card because it's our first valentines together . Even though they had some pretty sick ones .
you don't say you're awkward. that's bad. you guys aren't getting it.
you just use it when the girl is waiting for you to say something and you have nothing good to say. so instead of saying something stupid like the generic small talk she's used to hearing. regardless, i don't have to justify myself. I was just trying to help.
I know what your saying. Its downplaying yourself. Its worked a lot for me when at bars or a restaurant. For me it works when i ***** out though. Ill usually go back in ans find her and say something like "i know if i leave here tonight without asking ill regret it for the rest of my life, so i was wondering if i can steal your number and we can hangout somwtime". Something like that.
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I know what your saying. Its downplaying yourself. Its worked a lot for me when at bars or a restaurant. For me it works when i ***** out though. Ill usually go back in ans find her and say something like "i know if i leave here tonight without asking ill regret it for the rest of my life, so i was wondering if i can steal your number and we can hangout somwtime". Something like that.
I don't see how saying, "Oh, don't mind my awkwardness, I'm just naturally bad at talking to girls." would be anywhere close to making a good impression on a girl.
Its a misdirection.. if you say it but arent acting creepy or awkward it makes things informal. It diffuses the situation. When you approach appearing confident and collected shes going to immediatly assume the defensive position with the mindset that you are coming to hit on her. Then you play this off as if you arent good at this, you arent a player, and you are just interesting in conversation... the tables turn in her mind INSTANTLY
But you cant use this if you are in a massive group of dudes at a club she will just see it for what it is a veiled attempt to jump into the defined portion of the conversation and hook her in for the full sales pitch..
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Its a misdirection.. if you say it but arent acting creepy or awkward it makes things informal. It diffuses the situation. When you approach appearing confident and collected shes going to immediatly assume the defensive position with the mindset that you are coming to hit on her. Then you play this off as if you arent good at this, you arent a player, and you are just interesting in conversation... the tables turn in her mind INSTANTLY
But you cant use this if you are in a massive group of dudes at a club she will just see it for what it is a veiled attempt to jump into the defined portion of the conversation and hook her in for the full sales pitch..
this. all of this.
you have a way of turning my thoughts into coherent sentences much better than I do. can I borrow you for awhile to write some political speeches, books, and other things?
No. And who the **** has a home phone number? I dont want to talk to her parents, nor anyone i know with a cell has a home number anymore.
He's trolling.
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I'm stuffing my backpack full of roses and every girl that looks like they could use one is going to get one.
Haha that's awesome. THAT is a damn good way to play the numbers game.
Also: For the more relationship inclined:
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