[xFSUxlaxflip]

Originally Posted by adambomb#13

Alright fellas, let's see what you got for me, my wife and I separated last may, I found out in June that she had been ****ing her coworker, whatever **** that *****, here I am now, I've been dating this girl for maybe two months I like her, definitely don't love her though, she's finishing collage to be a school teacher, she's kinda cute maybe 6/10, sweet as can be, cooks for me, treats me good, swallows, lol. Kinda short and a few extra pounds. I've been talking to this other girl I used to know from high school, totally hot, 9-10/10 used to be a stripper, we get along great, a lot in common, also very sweet, cooks for me, and is unbelievable in the sack, like woah! So my problem is the school teacher is starting to get really serious about our relationship, and I'm not, I was with my exwife for 13+ years and don't want to be in another committed relationship, so I know I need to talk to her but tomorrow is valentines day and I don't want to have that talk until after that, so my question to you all, what do? Dump school teacher for stripper? Dump stripper for school teacher? Or try to keep both?

How can we tell you what you should do when your preferences are whats on the line. Are you willing to risk loosing the sure thing for something that may or may not work out? Are you willing to give up the potential of something you prefer for something secure?

Answer those two questions and you will know what to do..

[adambomb#13]

Originally Posted by xFSUxlaxflip

How can we tell you what you should do when your preferences are whats on the line. Are you willing to risk loosing the sure thing for something that may or may not work out? Are you willing to give up the potential of something you prefer for something secure?

Answer those two questions and you will know what to do..

I'm not really looking for security right now, sure she is sweet and all but I just ended a very long term relationship/marriage and I don't want to be tied down, I'm 36 years old and want to play the game a bit, so yes risk is worth the reward, and the only problem really is talking to the school teacher and telling her how I feel, I don't want to hurt her but it's inevitable, I'm not getting married again, that's it, once was enough, and I don't want her to think there's a chance that could happen, I've been sneaking around to see this other woman and I don't like having to sneak, I want to be able to do as I please, without having to explain where I was or who I was with and all that ****, I've never cheated on anyone, I don't like how I feel about it, but this other woman feels so much more natural, so much more comfortable, I think we're more compatible, I've just never had to let someone down like this

[TheColorCute]

So, I dunno if y'all remember that twin from a couple years back. The one whom I got randomly sick with when she and I were out, and ending up puking? Yeah, that one. Well, if you guys do remember, she handled it pretty well, didn't freak out, got me some water and stayed with me to make sure I was okay.

But, as you can imagine, things were a little awkward between us after that, and we sort of lost touch. Well, I suddenly remembered her when she posted something on Facebook the other day, and said to myself "Hey, I haven't seen her in a while. I should shoot her a text.".

Now, normally I'd just shoot her a text and say what's up, and treat her as I would any other girl, but provided that we haven't really talked in a couple of years, and taking into account the small amount of awkwardness between us way back when, I feel as though I should approach this one carefully.

Any suggestions?

[yuik]

Originally Posted by adambomb#13

I'm not really looking for security right now, sure she is sweet and all but I just ended a very long term relationship/marriage and I don't want to be tied down, I'm 36 years old and want to play the game a bit, so yes risk is worth the reward, and the only problem really is talking to the school teacher and telling her how I feel, I don't want to hurt her but it's inevitable, I'm not getting married again, that's it, once was enough, and I don't want her to think there's a chance that could happen, I've been sneaking around to see this other woman and I don't like having to sneak, I want to be able to do as I please, without having to explain where I was or who I was with and all that ****, I've never cheated on anyone, I don't like how I feel about it, but this other woman feels so much more natural, so much more comfortable, I think we're more compatible, I've just never had to let someone down like this

Enjoy both for a while . You can bull**** the teacher . Be like I just got out of a bad marriage , divorce isn't finalized yet and i dont want to rush into a relationship again . I like what we have and this can continue but if your pressuring me into running the hurry up offense I can't do that because the last time It wasn't a wise decision . I hope you can respect where I'm conning from .

Then **** the stripper .



You lost interest level in your marriage guy. You should read doc loves dating dictionary . Keep them both for a while and see which one shows you a higher % interest level after a few months then decide if you want to stop seeing one .

[Ly$ol (Banned)]

Originally Posted by ~Turtle Bus~

This is the best advice thus far. I know she is farther along in the course than I am, in fact I think she works in part of the office at our school (ya know, how colleges offer jobs to some students), I suppose I could try and ask her what classes she is taking right now and how long she has been attending the school.

I just don't want to make an idiot out of myself.

Real talk buy a R6

[xFSUxlaxflip]

Originally Posted by adambomb#13

I'm not really looking for security right now, sure she is sweet and all but I just ended a very long term relationship/marriage and I don't want to be tied down, I'm 36 years old and want to play the game a bit, so yes risk is worth the reward, and the only problem really is talking to the school teacher and telling her how I feel, I don't want to hurt her but it's inevitable, I'm not getting married again, that's it, once was enough, and I don't want her to think there's a chance that could happen, I've been sneaking around to see this other woman and I don't like having to sneak, I want to be able to do as I please, without having to explain where I was or who I was with and all that ****, I've never cheated on anyone, I don't like how I feel about it, but this other woman feels so much more natural, so much more comfortable, I think we're more compatible, I've just never had to let someone down like this

sounds like you dont need us... or our advice...

[Jframe]

Just thought I'd go ahead and share my current status. Screenshot from my phone just now.

[yuik]

Originally Posted by Jframe

Just thought I'd go ahead and share my current status. Screenshot from my phone just now.

80-85% interest level . Someone has been following doc loves system

[Jframe]

Originally Posted by yuik

80-85% interest level . Someone has been following doc loves system

Lol, had to google what that was.

[R2-D2]

lol @ that picture

[~Turtle Bus~]

Is that a girl or a boy in the bottom right?

[Jframe]

Originally Posted by ~Turtle Bus~

Is that a girl or a boy in the bottom right?

It's the "Overly Attached Girlfriend". A common meme on the interwebz.

[yuik]

Originally Posted by Jframe

Lol, had to google what that was.

You need to be listening to doc loves radio station every week . It's got solid **** in it .

[rammstein_5v2]

Originally Posted by yuik

You need to be listening to doc loves radio station every week . It's got solid **** in it .

Holy ****. Ive bought and read that book. That **** is not end all be all.

[p8ntballoc11]

some advice for approaching smoking hot girls you've never met:

make eye contact and approach them and say something, anything, it doesn't matter. "hey, what's up" is usually my go to, or if it's really loud in the bar/party, "hey" will do just fine.

they will usually say something nice and will expect you to say something next, but if you're like me, you don't really have anything to say, so you just go with it and be honest. tell her what's up in a confident manner "i'm really bad at talking to girls, i never know what to say, but you're so pretty i had to say something"... whatever just say something from the heart. boom, the whole awkward introduction is over and you're on even ground. good luck boys, hope you get some *****

[R2-D2]

so your approach to nab hot alpha chasers is to act like a beta that focuses on your awkwardness?!?!

Solid. That CAN be effective regardless of what the "ALWAYS B ALPHA!!!1!1!" crowd would want you to believe. it's a bit too focused on the user's own personal insecurities for my taste, but if it works then great, not all tactics work on all girls and not all guys can pull **** off. if you make her laugh, you've won. it's generally best if she's not laughing AT you completely, but whatever; you made the approach; many are too ****ing scared to even do that. that's pretty alpha in itself. generally speaking, people who use that successfully (that I've witnessed) are not actually awkward with hot girls but using that excuse as an approach can even get you some leeway if you're not in the zone.

I feel like this will undoubtedly bring out the AMOG vs POA conversation.

[yuik]

Originally Posted by p8ntballoc11

some advice for approaching smoking hot girls you've never met:

make eye contact and approach them and say something, anything, it doesn't matter. "hey, what's up" is usually my go to, or if it's really loud in the bar/party, "hey" will do just fine.

they will usually say something nice and will expect you to say something next, but if you're like me, you don't really have anything to say, so you just go with it and be honest. tell her what's up in a confident manner "i'm really bad at talking to girls, i never know what to say, but you're so pretty i had to say something"... whatever just say something from the heart. boom, the whole awkward introduction is over and you're on even ground. good luck boys, hope you get some *****

This **** is ****ing terrible .

Seriously this was bad . What the **** !?

If you ran this for 3 weeks straight going out 3 nights a week in NYC , started 8 *****es a night you wouldn't have one conversation that lasted over 1 minute .

Hell justin timberlake could deliver this lame *** line and get shot down .

[yuik]

Here is a better one as opposed to the one 3 posts above . If is a hot as ***** with a friend who isn't as good looking . Within 3 seconds of seeing them you have to start walking over , keep eye contact as if your chasing a gazelle through downtown Detroit .

Initiate the conversation to the 8-9or10

You -" so I have a policy of meeting the hottest girl whenever I go out . My names Richard" /

extend had and she will shake it and say thanks or some crap. Keep eye contact

You " so do you know her or not ?" and then turn your attention to her friend. It's even when it flys completely over the dimes head .

[yuik]

Here is another for a dime, or a ***** who knows she is hot and has a fair amount of interest in a club or bar .

You" I know you must get no attention from guys whatsoever , so I thought I would come over here and make some conversation"


Don't deliver this to a 7 or below or someone who doesn't look confident because it just might make her OD or cry herself to sleep at night that night .

[incobWTF]

pua **** is wack, a little knowledge of basic psychology and playing your strengths will beat out reading a Neil Strauss book religiously any day...

I love when people quote his **** (eg. ^) like they're experts; hey guess what, your novel approach was a new york times best seller and if that ain't played idk what is.

[yuik]

For all the 3-7 girls out there . Here is a gimme / modified one of the post above .

Walk up do the hey hello whatever .

When she responds say " I just wanted to let you know that .. I .. Looovveee ... The dress your friends wearing, that drink he ordered , this song"

Or sub it out with " you are sooooo ... In my way , I'm trying to get through" . Well now that you stopped me what's your name .

Ect eye contact a set of balls and cliche statements just might get you your next std so watch out boyz.

Originally Posted by rammstein_5v2

Holy ****. Ive bought and read that book. That **** is not end all be all.

I'm glad you enjoyed his dating dictionary. Doc love is a realistic breath of fresh air in our young generation that doesn't spread silliness of asshatry like wearing scarfs .



And on that note I'm out to get my boy laid Tonight, happy hunting!