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Old 02-05-2013, 10:57 PM #736
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So this girl and I have liked each other for a month or so, I took her on a few dates, we had a great time and everything, but now I'm just getting the vibe that she doesn't like me anymore. Should I ask her about it or just see where things go?
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Old 02-06-2013, 12:06 AM #737
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I dont understand what she's trying to accomplish here by trying to continue to talk to me. I've been in situations like this in the past and I feel she's doing the same exact thing most do. Trying to keep me around as a little side piece and make it seem that she did nothing wrong and that everything is okay.

My question is, I should just continue to ignore her until.... when? I like this girl and know shes a good girl if i just make her mine. But im not going to stick on the side either. I'm just not too sure what to do here.

My one friend is like, take molly with her, she'll love you. i started dying laughing because its too true. but im not gonna do that, thats foul lol
So I'm back here with problems with this girl again. It would be astonishing if this girl would actually wake up and see what she has. But.. no.

We had talked last week, and she had told me she was going out on Thurs night with her girl and staying out at the college. Okay, not a problem at all. We also set up plans to hang out friday after i get out of class/friday night. I get out of class on friday, and shoot her a call to come swing by. Shes tired and taking a nap, we'll hang out later. Sure, not a problem. I end up talking to her later in the night and she says shes tired and she cant come out, and its just a bunch of bull ****. Don't flake on me. And when she doesnt flake, its sometimes a struggle to get this girl to come out. Meanwhile she always has a great time when we do hang out...

I left something out in the story that I hadn't shared with her. When she had went out thursday night, she had taken pictures with this kid whom we're both friends with. Like fully on top of this kid to the point where he's holding her up in the air. My boy shoots him a call (we all used to be good friends) he starts talking to her and he claims that he's made out with her at the club. I'm not jealous because I'm not sure how much truth is really behind it due to the fact that this kid is a pathological liar. But hey, maybe she was really drunk or in fact sober and did. But the thing that I don't understand is why? This dude is ugly and retarded as ****.

Anyway, point is that I still like this girl and I want her to be just with me but I feel she keeps messing up and just enjoys being single. And there's no way that I would be comfortable knowing she's getting with other guys. So you see my predicament. I havent talked to her since friday because I told her what I had said earlier. She was opposed to the idea of me not talking to her and just saving myself the effort of hitting her up.

I'm really not sure what I should/could do here..
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Old 02-06-2013, 12:11 AM #738
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If that's how she acts/the kind of girl she is, tying her down won't change that and you're going to experience a lot of **** being with her. Just pass on her, dawg. If she wants to come by for a smash, go for it, but aside from that don't waste your breath on her.
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Old 02-06-2013, 12:14 AM #739
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If that's how she acts/the kind of girl she is, tying her down won't change that and you're going to experience a lot of **** being with her. Just pass on her, dawg. If she wants to come by for a smash, go for it, but aside from that don't waste your breath on her.
And that what I really feel I should do... but the thing that keeps me attracted to her is that I feel once I have her tied down with me I won't have to experience any of this ****. It's just what I've heard from a ton of mutual friends and how I feel it could be. Am I just far too caught up in the moment and can't see how dumb this is for me to be thinking this way?
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Old 02-06-2013, 12:37 AM #740
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You like her, right? You want to be with her, correct? Why is it that you want to be with her so bad, do you think? Is it because she is a challenge, and you can't contain her? The facts point to yes.

We all want something we can't have. Add the fact that you are attracted to her, and she has similar qualities that you can relate with her -- the mood is enhanced to smitten.

The only thing you can do is realize that your reality is in a trance of puppy love. You are focusing so much of your time on someone who is not so much in to you. Is that fair, to you as a person? Absolutely not. What are you going to do about it?

Tomorrow you are going to wake up and realize she is not good enough for you. You are going to see that there are so many more possibilities out there for you, that focusing your time on her is a waste of your valuable potential. There are many more fish in the sea, my friend. What do you have to lose?
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Old 02-06-2013, 01:15 AM #741
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Having sex where you eat; on the other hand...

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Old 02-06-2013, 10:50 AM #742
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So this girl and I have liked each other for a month or so, I took her on a few dates, we had a great time and everything, but now I'm just getting the vibe that she doesn't like me anymore. Should I ask her about it or just see where things go?
no don't. Whenever you're thinkin about asking a girl something like that, think about what she would say and how the convo would go. it won't help you out at all. what you gotta do is win her back cause you're losing her.



lil tip for you guys:
me and my friends have been dive bombin- you go in for the makeout unexpectedly. as in you're talkin to her, get a lil closer and you just dive bomb. works a lot more than you would think and it's fun as ****. gotta be drinkin for it tho, don't pull that **** in the ****in grocery store boys.
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Old 02-06-2013, 11:17 AM #743
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do it in the grocery store. think of how off-guard you might catch a girl. it'd be like winning the ****ing lottery. you could bang her up against the deli meat window. leave her assprints all up in front of the honey ham.

then you'd probably go to jail...
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Old 02-06-2013, 01:03 PM #744
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So the gf came over early this morning for some morning sex. Everything is going great, were getting really into it, she finishs before I do; the usual. So I'm going at it, getting closer and closer, and right as I finish making my O-face, my phone alarm ends up going off in a buzzer noise, and my girl yells out: "He shoots; he scores!"

I really like this girl.
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Old 02-06-2013, 04:58 PM #745
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So I'm back here with problems with this girl again. It would be astonishing if this girl would actually wake up and see what she has. But.. no.

We had talked last week, and she had told me she was going out on Thurs night with her girl and staying out at the college. Okay, not a problem at all. We also set up plans to hang out friday after i get out of class/friday night. I get out of class on friday, and shoot her a call to come swing by. Shes tired and taking a nap, we'll hang out later. Sure, not a problem. I end up talking to her later in the night and she says shes tired and she cant come out, and its just a bunch of bull ****. Don't flake on me. And when she doesnt flake, its sometimes a struggle to get this girl to come out. Meanwhile she always has a great time when we do hang out...

I left something out in the story that I hadn't shared with her. When she had went out thursday night, she had taken pictures with this kid whom we're both friends with. Like fully on top of this kid to the point where he's holding her up in the air. My boy shoots him a call (we all used to be good friends) he starts talking to her and he claims that he's made out with her at the club. I'm not jealous because I'm not sure how much truth is really behind it due to the fact that this kid is a pathological liar. But hey, maybe she was really drunk or in fact sober and did. But the thing that I don't understand is why? This dude is ugly and retarded as ****.

Anyway, point is that I still like this girl and I want her to be just with me but I feel she keeps messing up and just enjoys being single. And there's no way that I would be comfortable knowing she's getting with other guys. So you see my predicament. I havent talked to her since friday because I told her what I had said earlier. She was opposed to the idea of me not talking to her and just saving myself the effort of hitting her up.

I'm really not sure what I should/could do here..
Getting invested in a girl who isn't emotionally available is playing with fire. My advice is to do what you know in the back of your mind is the right decision and drop her.

If you want a relationship, go for a relationship-type girl. Otherwise you're setting yourself up for something that ultimately isn't good for you.
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Old 02-07-2013, 10:13 AM #746
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The average length of sexual intercourse is 2 1/2 minutes.

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Old 02-07-2013, 10:17 AM #747
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Having sex where you eat; on the other hand...

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Old 02-07-2013, 11:11 AM #748
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The average length of sexual intercourse is 2 1/2 minutes.

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Old 02-07-2013, 12:17 PM #749
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holy **** what is this? Mario kart racing?

for that to be average, think of how many sessions would have to be much shorter to balance out the 40+ minute sessions..
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i think that's a bull**** statistic. i think there has been once in my life when i blew that quick and i was amazed because its usually a 45 minute adventure
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You fags are crying about girl problems? I ****ed all your girls. They all with me you ***** *** cry babies.

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you're like 19. you'll learn. read my earlier posts,
Age has nothing to do with your **** advice.

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holy **** what is this? Mario kart racing?

for that to be average, think of how many sessions would have to be much shorter to balance out the 40+ minute sessions..
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i think that's a bull**** statistic. i think there has been once in my life when i blew that quick and i was amazed because its usually a 45 minute adventure
I didn't make it up.

Actually, correction; 3-7 minutes.

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Which study was that? I find that really hard to believe. For me, it's 20 mins, at the very least, often times 30+mins. Sometimes hours depends on how much sex we want to have
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