[xFSUxlaxflip]

Originally Posted by Smart Parts Player12

How is "how could you forget? Well hey let me grab your number and we can hang out sometime"

How about instead of trying to force a response right now or asking her to hang out sometime give it a day or two then let her know what your plans are for this weekend and instead ask her to join it shows you are fun and exciting as you already have/had plans regardless of her showing up or not. Women want men who are confident and independent who dont need them and who have a natural charm not a forced cookie cutter time specific response robot

[Smart Parts Player12]

Yeah I see the merit in that. But plans for the weekend include gratuitous drinking with friends, that's why I'd rather get together for something simple on campus alone.

Originally Posted by Rampager2000

Now you're sounding like Luke..

Don't over-analyze. If you want to say it, say it. Make it something you would say.

Going to wait a day or so and go with that. Thanks.

[R2-D2]

Originally Posted by xFSUxlaxflip

How about instead of trying to force a response right now or asking her to hang out sometime give it a day or two then let her know what your plans are for this weekend and instead ask her to join it shows you are fun and exciting as you already have/had plans regardless of her showing up or not. Women want men who are confident and independent who dont need them and who have a natural charm not a forced cookie cutter time specific response robot

this. always led to success in college. I had to use this approach specifically to make it a not-about-her thing considering I had a girl. still got them all tingly and led to some fun nights.

[SimplySour]

This isn't a problem I'd say.. More of like a challenge. I wanna try and be so beta to a girl to show you how shallow most *****es are.
I wanna do like "I missed u"
And "plz respond" I'm gonna go full beta. But first I gotta pick out a target.

[alex456]

Originally Posted by SimplySour

Double posting: me and ****ty broke up almost a 2 years ago. Now I got Scary (arianna) (if you don't know I give nicknames to all my girlfriends. Yes I do call them by their nicknames)

lol

why scary?

[SimplySour]

Originally Posted by alex456

lol

why scary?

one day i just called her scaryanna

and scary stuck

also; i live for these snap chats



if its not showing up ill jus edit it tomorrow
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[empire112234]

Think I might just start everything fresh for this semester. I'm in a new dorm, with a new roommate and I've already made some new friends on my floor. Started a workout plan with my new roommate, classes are looking good. Might as well introduce new girls as well. Last semester things got too serious with the one girl who I'm admittedly still hooking up with but I see her less and less so that's probably a good thing.

[PuNisHeR--]

Haven't posted up on here looking for advice for quite some time...

Anyway, here's a little sticky situation I'm in.
Side notes: I'm a club promoter for clubs near me, which helps me meet a lot of people. This girl had just gotten out of a two year relationship with her man because he's apparently real stupid.

I met this girl the Saturday night before NYE through a mutual friend (girl). These two girls are best friends, and I hang out with them all night long. Me and this girl started kicking it off real well, ****ed a bunch of times, had great sex, the whole thing.

Fast forward to this previous Saturday night. I have a couple people come over my house before the club with said girl included and we all pregame here.

We go to the club, this girl is acting a little weird saying I'm ignoring her. Truth of the story is, I was helping her friends get drinks due to the fact that they couldn't themselves. Okay its cool.

I see her early in the night and we start talking and she's telling me about how this dude right next to her is real creepy and how he's feeling her up and all this. I laugh tell her walk away if she's uncomfortable and I proceed to tell her that I'm about to get a drink myself. Two steps after walking towards the bar, she starts kissing this dude.

I'm not the jealous type, but just tell me that you're interested in this kid and that you want to kiss him. Dont pull some bull **** lie like you did and ESPECIALLY dont do this when ME AND YOU are going out TOGETHER and going home TOGETHER.

I tell her she's a disgusting low person, all this ****. We talk the next day, and I made it crystal clear how stupid that was and how low of a person she made herself look. I understand that we're not exclusive with each other, so she can kiss anyone that she wants, but to do it when I'm with you is another story.

Anyway, we talk and I tell her that I want to either continue talking to you and it's just going to be me and you and that I want to be exclusive (friends idea) or that i'm just not gonna talk to you (my idea).

She takes a day to get back to me and she tells me that she's not ready to be exclusive again and that she "doesn't know what she wants" I wasn't going to try and persuade her, oh but im the better guy.. blah blah blah. I said if that's how you feel, that's how you feel I cant do anything to change it.

But what gets me is that she continues to try to text me.. here are the last couple.

The day we talked and she told me what she had to say, I get this text about an hour later.

Her: Didnt text me that you got home! tryna give me an anxiety attack hereeeee
Me: I'm home, thanks
Her: No problem hope you have a good first day back in school tomorrow! (Monday night)

Today:
Her: you dont like me anymore not cool
Me: I'm getting busy with school and work
Her: Good for you, hows being back in school?

I dont understand what she's trying to accomplish here by trying to continue to talk to me. I've been in situations like this in the past and I feel she's doing the same exact thing most do. Trying to keep me around as a little side piece and make it seem that she did nothing wrong and that everything is okay.

My question is, I should just continue to ignore her until.... when? I like this girl and know shes a good girl if i just make her mine. But im not going to stick on the side either. I'm just not too sure what to do here.

My one friend is like, take molly with her, she'll love you. i started dying laughing because its too true. but im not gonna do that, thats foul lol

[Rampager2000]

I think you're playing it right if your end goal is to get this girl as an exclusive thing. However, I also think this girl, by what you've said, is probably a straight hoe and is more interested in blacking out and waking up next to some random dick than being "in love" and all that jazz.

That being said, the short and simple game will do fine. Ignoring her will make her wandering mind go further and completely ignore you. Giving in and talking/texting/clubbing/whatever will only make her think she can control you and keep you as a puppy to go cry to (read: ****) when she got denied but some dweeb at the club.

Also, I'm seriously considering making a trip up to NYC for NYE next year and I plan to **** **** up with you for a few days.

[PuNisHeR--]

Yeah, I hate playing this ****ing game though. It's retarded, but sometimes effective.

And NYE is dope, i wouldnt go to Times Square but you can definitely find a bomb spot to go to. I went to some local **** with a different girl, but most of my friends had a great time out.

[xFSUxlaxflip]

Originally Posted by PuNisHeR--

I dont understand what she's trying to accomplish here by trying to continue to talk to me. I've been in situations like this in the past and I feel she's doing the same exact thing most do. Trying to keep me around as a little side piece and make it seem that she did nothing wrong and that everything is okay.

My question is, I should just continue to ignore her until.... when? I like this girl and know shes a good girl if i just make her mine. But im not going to stick on the side either. I'm just not too sure what to do here.

My one friend is like, take molly with her, she'll love you. i started dying laughing because its too true. but im not gonna do that, thats foul lol

She is clearly regretting her decision. She obviously enjoyed the chemistry you both had and is realizing she blew it. Furthermore, you didnt stand for it and gave her an ultimatum which only made her want you more.

In my opinion shes throwing the ball back in your court but doesnt realize it. All women say they arent ready for commitment when fresh out of a relationship but short of being a complete whore she likely misses the good things from her previous long term relationship. She misses the emotional fulfillment she experienced from being in a committed relationship.

I would evaluate her and yourself completely. Do you want to be in a committed longer-term relationship? Or at least an exclusive one? Do you find your chemistry with her is strong enough? Do you think you will hold that past mistake against her throughout your relationship? Was she that worth it to you to begin with or were you just playing the cards dealt to you at this point in time?

To sum it up, the ball is in your court you can return to sparking this thing up or just kill it. But if you dont want her texting you and trying to reignite the spark you are going to have to drop her a little harder then you did. I.e. make it blatantly obvious you want nothing to do with her...

[SimplySour]

Originally Posted by PuNisHeR--

Haven't posted up on here looking for advice for quite some time...

Anyway, here's a little sticky situation I'm in.
Side notes: I'm a club promoter for clubs near me, which helps me meet a lot of people. This girl had just gotten out of a two year relationship with her man because he's apparently real stupid.

I met this girl the Saturday night before NYE through a mutual friend (girl). These two girls are best friends, and I hang out with them all night long. Me and this girl started kicking it off real well, ****ed a bunch of times, had great sex, the whole thing.

Fast forward to this previous Saturday night. I have a couple people come over my house before the club with said girl included and we all pregame here.

We go to the club, this girl is acting a little weird saying I'm ignoring her. Truth of the story is, I was helping her friends get drinks due to the fact that they couldn't themselves. Okay its cool.

I see her early in the night and we start talking and she's telling me about how this dude right next to her is real creepy and how he's feeling her up and all this. I laugh tell her walk away if she's uncomfortable and I proceed to tell her that I'm about to get a drink myself. Two steps after walking towards the bar, she starts kissing this dude.

I'm not the jealous type, but just tell me that you're interested in this kid and that you want to kiss him. Dont pull some bull **** lie like you did and ESPECIALLY dont do this when ME AND YOU are going out TOGETHER and going home TOGETHER.

I tell her she's a disgusting low person, all this ****. We talk the next day, and I made it crystal clear how stupid that was and how low of a person she made herself look. I understand that we're not exclusive with each other, so she can kiss anyone that she wants, but to do it when I'm with you is another story.

Anyway, we talk and I tell her that I want to either continue talking to you and it's just going to be me and you and that I want to be exclusive (friends idea) or that i'm just not gonna talk to you (my idea).

She takes a day to get back to me and she tells me that she's not ready to be exclusive again and that she "doesn't know what she wants" I wasn't going to try and persuade her, oh but im the better guy.. blah blah blah. I said if that's how you feel, that's how you feel I cant do anything to change it.

But what gets me is that she continues to try to text me.. here are the last couple.

The day we talked and she told me what she had to say, I get this text about an hour later.

Her: Didnt text me that you got home! tryna give me an anxiety attack hereeeee
Me: I'm home, thanks
Her: No problem hope you have a good first day back in school tomorrow! (Monday night)

Today:
Her: you dont like me anymore not cool
Me: I'm getting busy with school and work
Her: Good for you, hows being back in school?

I dont understand what she's trying to accomplish here by trying to continue to talk to me. I've been in situations like this in the past and I feel she's doing the same exact thing most do. Trying to keep me around as a little side piece and make it seem that she did nothing wrong and that everything is okay.

My question is, I should just continue to ignore her until.... when? I like this girl and know shes a good girl if i just make her mine. But im not going to stick on the side either. I'm just not too sure what to do here.

My one friend is like, take molly with her, she'll love you. i started dying laughing because its too true. but im not gonna do that, thats foul lol

First of all, you've come along way from the beta you used to be.
2 you can always message me on Facebook ya homo.

Sounds like that girl is a typical girl with past boy issues and insecurities, and I wouldn't have acknowledged her kissing some "creepy guy" you should play tit for tat and done other ****, Cause after all " you're not together" and "she doesn't wanna be exclusive."
**** man you're in college in the city. City has plenty of ****s. Plenty that you haven't gotten a chance to give anal. Send me home crying, and forget.

[Rampager2000]

After talking with him some more, sounds like she is either really interested but "isn't ready" to "settle down" and all that jazz, or is a straight hoe.

[PuNisHeR--]

Good looks Conor. @fsu you know what, all in all I do wanna be with this girl I'm thinking she just ****ed up and needs a little time alone from me. I guess I could reinitiate contact

[empire112234]

honestly punisher, I'd drop the girl for being a *****. She seems like the kind that would rather black out and make ****ty decisions than be with one guy. I've been in some very, very similar situations and I can tell you right now that this girl is out to have fun and do things for herself.

IMO you should get out of there while you can. Get with some randos and wait for a better girl.

[SimplySour]

Originally Posted by Smart Parts Player12

Yeah I see the merit in that. But plans for the weekend include gratuitous drinking with friends, that's why I'd rather get together for something simple on campus alone.





Going to wait a day or so and go with that. Thanks.

Hi my love

Originally Posted by Rampager2000

After talking with him some more, sounds like she is either really interested but "isn't ready" to "settle down" and all that jazz, or is a straight hoe.

I missed u u sweaty *****

Originally Posted by empire112234

honestly punisher, I'd drop the girl for being a *****. She seems like the kind that would rather black out and make ****ty decisions than be with one guy. I've been in some very, very similar situations and I can tell you right now that this girl is out to have fun and do things for herself.

IMO you should get out of there while you can. Get with some randos and wait for a better girl.

Idk I wouldn't initiate

[Rampager2000]

I knows dawg. I am a very missable person.

We be missin lots of people these days

[SimplySour]

did u miss me bebe

[Rampager2000]

I thought about it. Then reconsidered. Then figured you were worth missing, so I should.

But I'm a heartless *****.

[SimplySour]

It's been awhile and in know I neglecting you.

But you always my boo no matter how much i hit you
You know that right?

EDIT: struggling grammar for Jim beams authenticity

[Elo160]

Ok so theres a girl thats messing with my head. Shes keeping me around but not talking to me. If I walk off she flips ****.
How do i mess with her head in return? Or if not mess with her head, how do i get this crap to stop without walking away?