Pfffttt morals.. what are you a mod or something?! .....
And I bet their husbands knew.. a lot of people tend to "fall in love" /get married to the person they find most sexually compatible. That's why IMO for most people you'll never be happy unless you have prior experience.. of course there's exceptions and I could explain my theories but that's for another time.
Life is too complicated to hold back. I hope to teach any kids I have that lesson. Even my daughters. (Inevitably ill get stuck with 3 girls before I get a boy)