[Rampager2000]

Originally Posted by giants57

ST:Girl Thread, you'll be proud. Today I initiated conversation with 5 different girls randomly and they all ended nicely. All about getting my confidence levels back up, small steps but I'll take it.

[SuMaC]

nope im 22 and she's 20.

[xFSUxlaxflip]

Originally Posted by raidenssj10

Here we go:

So I have known this girl for about a month. We both really like each other, we've kissed a few times, gone on a few dates, things are going well. One of my good friends also has pretty much the exact same thing with one of her good friends, so us four hang out a lot. However, both of us guys leave on LDS missions. Him in less than a month and myself in two months. He doesn't want to get too serious with this girl before he leaves, so he's going to cut it off in a few days. I, however, still want to date this girl even though I'm leaving. I don't really expect her to wait for me, mostly because we just met and two years is a really long time, but like I said, I really like her. Once this other guy leaves and or breaks of his relationship, it will just be me and her, as all of my other friends leave on missions within 2 months and aren't looking for relationships.

wat do

Have you considered just being honest? I mean whats the worst that could happen she bails and the decision was made for you or she decides to wait on you which is fine?

[SUR3]

all y'all need to check out that buckwild show on mtv, cause the blonde girl shae on it is bangin'

[perez62682]

cara on it is a spicy lil ginger... i wanna touch her

[james bond 007]

Nah, that Shalwa chick. Dem boobies

[SUR3]

Both of them are win. Shalwa or whatever the **** her name has got a nice body.

[Mr.Familiar]

Originally Posted by SuMaC

i broke up with her. and then after about 2 months we started talking again. then her dad got sick and wound up in the hospital, and since i hated seeing her so upset, i started sleeping over at her house for like 2 weeks straight while her dad was in the hospital. so we basically were back together, but it was something i didnt really want yet, it just happened. she started to notice this and when she confronted me about it, i didnt want to lie to her so i told her how i was feeling like this was forced and i wasnt ready for it. naturally she bugged and we didnt talk for a few weeks, bringing us up to now.

you know its funny, i decided to not text her all day to see what her reaction to it would be. she just now texted me going "so where'd you vanish to all day" . i guess ignoring girls really does work lol.

Honestly, she has every right to act the way she is. You have no idea what you want, and she is scared to put herself out there and get hurt again. Both of you should probably just take some time off or just really slowly ease into a relationship.

[JohnnyBananas]

Known this girl a few months...hooked up with her a couple times during summer but nothing past that. We ended up talking a little since she goes to school nearby me and I ended up taking her out to dinner, hooked up at the end (still nothing past it). This resulted us in texting a lot...basically shes saying **** like she misses me wants to see me (lets hang this weeekendd), and I said if you miss me, come through this weekend (there's always parties at my house/neighbors/w.e it's college...not inviting her to just sit on our ***** ya know?). She just says things like "i hope sooo" in response or "i want toooo". I didn't even bring up hanging out this weekend which is why it's slightly annoying to get half assed replies.

What I'm asking is...what does that mean? In my head it's "whys it a big deal to drive 20 minutes to see someone you want to see/hang out with" so..I dunno.

[aieou]

Hook up as in sex? She is a whore. Hook up as in kissing, touching? She is a tease.

Move on, find more girls. Her loss. Let the chips fall where they may.

edit: Also, got 2 numbers today! 1 from a girl who is about a 7 - nice tan skin, good smile. She was helping me find a book in the book store. We were using her phone to find it. At the end:
Me: "You're not going to ask for my number?" She froze. "What is your number?"
Her: "Just so you know, I have a boyfriend!" Startled look on her face.
Me: "I'm not asking you out, I just think you are a good helper."
Her: "Well, it ######."
Me: "Thanks for the help." Walk away.
Not pursuing. ^

Second girl was while I was picking up food at Bdubs. She's about a 5.5 or a 6. Kind of annoying, but she seems like fun.

[Mr.Familiar]

Originally Posted by JohnnyBananas

She just says things like "i hope sooo" in response or "i want toooo". I didn't even bring up hanging out this weekend which is why it's slightly annoying to get half assed replies.

When you get replies like these, just act like it's a for sure thing. "Ok awesome. Since the party starts at 10pm, my roommates and I are having dinner at 8pm, so you should stop by a little early, like around 9pm, (or hell, even invite her for dinner). We can do this, we can do that. blah blah blah." It leads her into making the commitment to come. It also leaves you an out to make fun and tease her if she bails or something comes up to where she can't make it.

[aieou]

She's leaving open-ended replies. She's not saying, "Yeah, i'm bored and want something to do." She is looking for attention. The subject needs to be left to her attention-whore self. Move on OP.

[Mr.Familiar]

I'm trying to get him to give her 6 inches of all the attention she can handle

[JohnnyBananas]

Thanks for confirming what I was starting to think...haven't decided what approach I'll take...starting to think ignoring her might be the best option, even though Mr. Familiar's approach has actually worked for me in the past lol....this girl is really hot and knows it, so yeah...going with the ignore thing, she probably isn't used to that.

[Watermelondrea]

Originally Posted by SUR3

all y'all need to check out that buckwild show on mtv, cause the blonde girl shae on it is bangin'

I could only watch a couple minutes of it. The girls are ****ing *** dumpsters and it reminds me of a knockoff Jersey Shore, if that's even possible.

[SUR3]

that's exactly what it is. however, i find it very entertaining and it fills my trashy tv watching needs

[Watermelondrea]

I feel you. I don't watch much TV, but I burn through shows via internet/Neflix. Been watching Californication recently, it's very good.

[DINNER_CAT]

This needs to be reposted tonight

[giants57]

Day 2 of interacting as much as I can randomly, headed out tonight with a bunch of girls to a Rave. ****'s easy, and I forgot it was easy. I'm a good looking guy with a lot going for myself...god my ex-girlfriend ****ed my head up.

[yuik]

Originally Posted by Mr.Familiar

I'm trying to get him to give her 6 inches of all the attention she can handle

6 inches that's it

Not sure what a dave face is supposed to be used for
But I figured that would be the time. Anyone know what a Dave face is ?

[casultytosociety]

Originally Posted by JohnnyBananas

Known this girl a few months...hooked up with her a couple times during summer but nothing past that. We ended up talking a little since she goes to school nearby me and I ended up taking her out to dinner, hooked up at the end (still nothing past it). This resulted us in texting a lot...basically shes saying **** like she misses me wants to see me (lets hang this weeekendd), and I said if you miss me, come through this weekend (there's always parties at my house/neighbors/w.e it's college...not inviting her to just sit on our ***** ya know?). She just says things like "i hope sooo" in response or "i want toooo". I didn't even bring up hanging out this weekend which is why it's slightly annoying to get half assed replies.

What I'm asking is...what does that mean? In my head it's "whys it a big deal to drive 20 minutes to see someone you want to see/hang out with" so..I dunno.

she's being a finicky little *****. tell her to make a decision because you ain't got no time for that.

Originally Posted by SUR3

that's exactly what it is. however, i find it very entertaining and it fills my trashy tv watching needs

***** add me on that ****book