[Mr.Familiar]

Originally Posted by raidenssj10

I am in the same boat as you. This girl is clearly interested (we've kissed a few times and all that) but she never initiates anything. She never texts first, never calls me to hang out, but when I call her she jumps all over it.

That's just how girls are for the most part. Especially when you two are first getting to know each other. On the other side of the equation; you have the stage 5 clinger... that never stop texting you and lets you know everything she is doing, all the time. Now; which one would you want to keep around? You're the guy, and guys initiate while girls follow (for the most part. not always).

Originally Posted by Negligence

Color sounds like you need to force her to make a move.

No.... just... no.

[Infinity Kid]

The "girl" is no girl, just a member who saw this thread and wants to screw with you guys. They can go to a google site and get any picture of a hot girl

[$h0cK3r]

Originally Posted by Elisee

I'm a girl, I'm new here but you can ask me things.

Kitchen

[pflfranco]

Originally Posted by Infinity Kid

The "girl" is no girl, just a member who saw this thread and wants to screw with you guys. They can go to a google site and get any picture of a hot girl

Oh really? We had no idea.

[ProtoBaller1991]

Originally Posted by Infinity Kid

The "girl" is no girl, just a member who saw this thread and wants to screw with you guys. They can go to a google site and get any picture of a hot girl

[Rampager2000]

****ing genius' man.

[Infinity Kid]

Dicks..

[pflfranco]

Originally Posted by Infinity Kid

Dicks..

Yes, the definition of ST.

[Watermelondrea]

Originally Posted by Elisee

I'm a girl, I'm new here but you can ask me things.

PM me your tits.

[ZeR0 EVOlution]

Originally Posted by Elisee

I'm a girl, I'm new here but you can ask me things.

A virgin acting like a girl ready to give advice?! Yissss.

What do boobs feel like?

[Rampager2000]

Sandbags.

[ProtoBaller1991]

Originally Posted by Rampager2000

Sandbags.

.

[Mr.Familiar]

Originally Posted by Infinity Kid

The "girl" is no girl, just a member who saw this thread and wants to screw with you guys. They can go to a google site and get any picture of a hot girl

Once again, how old are you?

[Ryan3773]

Originally Posted by Infinity Kid

The "girl" is no girl, just a member who saw this thread and wants to screw with you guys. They can go to a google site and get any picture of a hot girl

Wait so you are saying somebody could just go on the Internet and lie? How do I know you aren't lying about that?

[Ion103]

Ugh the hot chick ive been banging and dating for the past month just told me her ex bf showed up randomly to her work and now shes going back to him. Ironically, I just broke up with my ex after a 3 year relationship 2 months ago. ****ing came out of nowhere. It would have been nice to know she still had feelings for him. Just when I totally thought I had this girl in the bag and a for sure thing, this **** happens. What a kick in the balls.

Whatever, no time for a GF anyway. So much traveling in spring for NCPA and PSP and other stuff. Guess Ill just play the single life.

[TheColorCute]

Originally Posted by TiAg46

Got a question for you all, been a while since I've posted here but this girl is being weird as <del>****</del>.

Anyway, the quick summary:
I added this hot girl on FB, mutual friends, figured I'd get a chance to nail this one.

I add her, she likes a few of my pics, I'm instantly thinking "yo, this chick is in the bag".

I message her, and she starts opening fire. Questions left and right...how old am i, where do i go to school, all this <del>****</del>. I'm thinking damn, this girl wants to know a lot...i'll just ask her out on a date and tell her that it'd be a better way for her to find out more about me if she wishes.

She says yes.

I say: okay how about tomorrow

no response.

i message her a few days later, we talk about how her thanksgiving went, pfft, like i really give a <del>****</del>.

anyway, i didn't talk to her for like a month, and here we are tonight, and she ignored my message.


There's nothing i can really do over the internet i feel except keep on creepin' her pics and silently wacking off to them. unless if you guys have some better ideas that you'd like to share.

Oh ****, didn't even realize that you had posted in here Dzeno

I think I remember you asking me about this girl. You were looking for a way to re-initiate contact I think, and I suggested you ask her about Thanksgiving

Originally Posted by xFSUxlaxflip

This was where you made your mistake.. As stated numerous times Facebook is so impersonal its hard to gauge if she is really interested, just toying with you, or bored out of her mind and you are just entertaining for a while.

Have you ever met this chick in person? By met i mean had a conversation with beyond simply name introductions at a party or event like actual in depth get to know each other. Judging by how she asked a bunch of questions about where you went to school etc im going to assume no. Not having met her before automatically places you in a negative light by trying to "get with her via facebook"....

Matter of fact lets ask the question we have all been wondering...

Has anyone in this thread actually ever hooked up with a girl they purely met through facebook?

That is you:
a) added her on facebook at most a mutual friend or 2 connection
b) begin to get to know/spit your game via facebook
c) transition to in person say a date
d) hook up with said female


I wonder how many if any... maybe some people have positive experiences but to my knowledge from this thread and folks ive known to include myself i have never seen it play out

Yes. My most recent girlfriend I met via Facebook. It played out exactly as you described above.

a) Added her (saw that she had a bike and a WRX, figured "Hey, this girl looks cool")
b) She messaged me, she showed some interest in me, gave her my number
c) She asked to hang out
d) We found that we both really like each other and started dating

Also met the girlfriend before her through Facebook/through TiAg, but as we all know, that one didn't really work out. You all know her as "the crazy".

Originally Posted by raidenssj10

I am in the same boat as you. This girl is clearly interested (we've kissed a few times and all that) but she never initiates anything. She never texts first, never calls me to hang out, but when I call her she jumps all over it.

Whenever I suggest that we do something, she also always says whenever works, and we just never end up doing it. The thing is that I'm just a really shy guy and she's a really shy girl, so neither of us have the confidence to do anything about it, though I'm about to ask her on a date.

I hear ya. I'm just going to do as you guys suggest and put the ball in her court. Normally, it's best for us to make the decisions, and tell them when we're hanging out, but in this case, it's her turn to tell me.

[xFSUxlaxflip]

Originally Posted by Ion103

Ugh the hot chick ive been banging and dating for the past month just told me her ex bf showed up randomly to her work and now shes going back to him. Ironically, I just broke up with my ex after a 3 year relationship 2 months ago. ****ing came out of nowhere. It would have been nice to know she still had feelings for him. Just when I totally thought I had this girl in the bag and a for sure thing, this **** happens. What a kick in the balls.

Whatever, no time for a GF anyway. So much traveling in spring for NCPA and PSP and other stuff. Guess Ill just play the single life.

Sounds like you were the "try other guys and see if hes worth it" ****... nothing wrong with that aside from you seemed a bit more invested than you intended or thought you were

[TheColorCute]

Now, onto a new girl and a new situation. So, there's this girl, she's been one of my very best friend for the past 7 years. We've always been like brother and sister to each other. She was one of the very first friends I made in high school (meaning a friend that I didn't already know from middle school). When I was a freshmen, she was a senior. We stayed very best friend throughout high school, throughout her college career (she graduated 2 years ago), and until now.

We've talked about dating in the past, many years ago, when we first met. We both said that we would be interested in dating. However, for the past 7 years, she's always had a boyfriend and/or I've always had a girlfriend. She generally stays in relationships for a long time. She's been with her current boyfriend for almost 5 years.

Here's where it starts: Recently, she's been much flirtier with me than usual. We generally don't talk very often, and see each other only once every 6 months or so. However, recently, she's been texting me, and has been begging to hang out. I introduced her to Snapchat (app where you send pictures with captions as opposed to simple text messages), and she's been literally blowing me up with it. She'll send me 'Goodmorning " Snaps, and the other day I got 8 pictures in a row, some of them were her saying "Why aren't you answering me???", then just random pictures of her and such, etc. She's been using smileys and hearts in everything, and sending texts/Snaps saying "Goodnight <3 Sweet dreams " She never does things like this.

She'll get embarrassed when I give her little compliments, etc. She'll be like "AWWWWWWWW"

Yesterday she asked when I was getting out of work and asked me to come over. I said okay, but I had some stuff to do after work first. After I got out she asked me to come over again, to which I didn't respond. Then she was like "So you're not coming over I guess?", and I said that I will when I'm done, to which she replied "Omg yay ok" or something like that.

Before I got there she was blowing me up with plans on what we would do (movie/dinner/play with the cats/etc.). When I got there, we watched a movie, then went to make dinner. She was trying to get us to drink and have wine with dinner, but I had to drive, and she remembered that and agreed that I shouldn't. Lots of giggling from her throughout the night. Didn't pull back or anything whenever I touched her.

I eventually left and she said that she'll come and see me at work soon, etc.

When I got home she sent me a Snap saying "It was super great seeing you today ", to which I replied "Likewise, next time we'll go out and something", to which she replied "Deal <3"

Normally, I'd have no trouble in taking these sings of interest and escalating upon them, but she and I have just been such close friend for the past 7 years, I'm having trouble. And then there's the whole boyfriend of 5 years thing. I don't really know her boyfriend that well, but I've met him a few times, and he's a good guy. However, in the past, she has mentioned to me that was thinking about breaking up with him because she didn't like where he was going in life. But that was a year or so ago. However, I'm thinking that maybe she's starting to feel like that again. It seems like she cares about him and all, but doesn't really consider him a "boyfriend" anymore

Would I date her? Yes. Would it be weird and somewhat difficult? Hell yes.

Suggestions and/or advice, OGPT? Am I misreading these signs from her? How should I proceed? I'm just struggling with this concept. I'm so used to to her and I being close friends. I wouldn't say that I've friend-zoned her, but I'm just struggling with the concept of escalating on her, and of her escalating on me, like she seems to be doing...

TL;DR: Very long time and close female best friend of mine is suddenly showing lots of interest in me.

[Rampager2000]

Luke. Just stick it in.

[giants57]

I'm in college and looking to start going on dates with girls here and maybe even getting a girlfriend if it takes off as being right. I dated all through high school with ease but here I'm finding it hard to build that kind of relationship. Like many college guys I've had my share of random hookups, night flings, etc. but to be honest I really don't enjoy that, as gay as that might sound it just makes me feel dirty. At a large school with so many people I've found it hard to really establish a relationship with a girl that leads to dating, going steady, etc. It seems like the girls I've drawn interest in all have boyfriends as well, and I'm not about being the guy a girl is cheating with. Again, that might sound gay as hell to a lot of people but I was cheated on by a girl that I invested a ton of care into and it spiraled into the most depressing and hellacious period of my life trying to figure out how to let the pieces lie on the ground and move the hell on. My question is how do you guys that attend large universities or live in large settings initiate? Also in all honesty, I'm terrible at making the first move. I'm trying to improve upon this, but it's so damn hard. Literally every girl I've ever gotten anywhere with has approached me and made a move. I'm soon realizing that's now how it really works in most cases. I'm trying to work on that and it's tough on this big of a stage.

[SUR3]

keep banging one and hanging out with her until she catches feelings