[alex456]

sup??

[yuik (Banned)]

Originally Posted by R2-D2

general social observance. I don't think this is a hotly contested point; it's easily observable if you participate in social media at all. many girls will post their displeasure with randoms. I have gathered from discussion with several females over time that random friend requests are generally ignored, and I'm not sure how many people even respond to random Facebook messages. it worked for me once back in high school, but it was a girl from another high school who looked me up after she saw me play in a baseball game against her high school and she messaged me because she thought I was attractive. I didn't even have to be the random initiator, and she was hot so I was obviously receptive.

Once you leave the Midwest or if you every do you will see a lot of different things . ***** can be acquired on the regular on Facebook , at the gym , supermarket , beach , parking lot , tailgating .

If your just working it from 8pm-2am Friday and Saturday your not getting reaching optimal production .

[yuik (Banned)]

Originally Posted by R2-D2

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And girls at bars often have the intention of meeting guys. I'm not saying it's really that much more different, but the social acceptance of meeting randos in person is much greater than online.

Also, I am not suggesting meeting online should be written off, I'm just saying from an acceptance/success standpoint, it's more prone to fail.

Didnt realize you were referring to randoms. Like no common friends or common places you goto . If you look interesting enough , have the right pictures and the right people blowing up your FB in the right way you can put in some serious work . It's not the best way but it's a way

[yuik (Banned)]

Originally Posted by TiAg46

Got a question for you all, been a while since I've posted here but this girl is being weird as ****.

Anyway, the quick summary:
I added this hot girl on FB, mutual friends, figured I'd get a chance to nail this one.

I add her, she likes a few of my pics, I'm instantly thinking "yo, this chick is in the bag".

I message her, and she starts opening fire. Questions left and right...how old am i, where do i go to school, all this ****. I'm thinking damn, this girl wants to know a lot...i'll just ask her out on a date and tell her that it'd be a better way for her to find out more about me if she wishes.

She says yes.

I say: okay how about tomorrow

no response.

i message her a few days later, we talk about how her thanksgiving went, pfft, like i really give a ****.

anyway, i didn't talk to her for like a month, and here we are tonight, and she ignored my message.

There's nothing i can really do over the internet i feel except keep on creepin' her pics and silently wacking off to them. unless if you guys have some better ideas that you'd like to share.

Guy you need doc Loves System , seriously get the land line .

[Watermelondrea]

Originally Posted by Mr.Familiar

Pshh, you mean AOL?

Now that's just a classic. I fell in love for the first time through AOL

[TheColorCute]

Been talking to this girl lately. She and are are almost 100% compatible. Anyway, we text, sometimes I'll see her at work and say hi to her, or I'll mention to her that I'm near her work and she'll ask me to come see her. That's when the body language comes screaming in. Non-stop smiles and giggles, stays close in proximity to me while talking, keeps solid eye contact, yet still a little nervous. Eyes widen when she sees me, etc. She's slightly flirty when she's around me, says things like "Oh I'm good at so and so, I'll have to show you sometime...", and then breaks eye contact and looks down at the ground next to me.

Anyway, she's said that we need to arrange a time to hang out, and the last time I saw her at work, she said multiple times that we need to find a time to hang out. Said it while we were talking, and again when she went in for a hug before I left. She's expressed lots of interest in watching a movie together, multiple times.

Here's the problem: She just recently got out of a relationship, and she seems to be having trouble letting go. She'll say that we need to hang out, but when I try to solidify on a specific day, that's where she starts becoming shaky.

She's clearly interested, however, I'm just having trouble solidifying a specific date. She says that "Whenever! " works for her, but when I try to plan on a day, she'll be like "I work on those days, but we'll figure it out!!".

Not exactly sure how to go about this. She's clearly interested, but she's having trouble letting go of her past relationship. She'll post sappy statuses on Facebook about it from time to time. Suggestions?

[Infinity Kid]

Originally Posted by TheColorCute

Been talking to this girl lately. She and are are almost 100% compatible. Anyway, we text, sometimes I'll see her at work and say hi to her, or I'll mention to her that I'm near her work and she'll ask me to come see her. That's when the body language comes screaming in. Non-stop smiles and giggles, stays close in proximity to me while talking, keeps solid eye contact, yet still a little nervous. Eyes widen when she sees me, etc. She's slightly flirty when she's around me, says things like "Oh I'm good at so and so, I'll have to show you sometime...", and then breaks eye contact and looks down at the ground next to me.

Anyway, she's said that we need to arrange a time to hang out, and the last time I saw her at work, she said multiple times that we need to find a time to hang out. Said it while we were talking, and again when she went in for a hug before I left. She's expressed lots of interest in watching a movie together, multiple times.

Here's the problem: She just recently got out of a relationship, and she seems to be having trouble letting go. She'll say that we need to hang out, but when I try to solidify on a specific day, that's where she starts becoming shaky.

She's clearly interested, however, I'm just having trouble solidifying a specific date. She says that "Whenever! " works for her, but when I try to plan on a day, she'll be like "I work on those days, but we'll figure it out!!".

Not exactly sure how to go about this. She's clearly interested, but she's having trouble letting go of her past relationship. She'll post sappy statuses on Facebook about it from time to time. Suggestions?

Give her time! If its apparent you see she can't get over the past, then the future will hinder you. Give her time. Let the past work out, and then penetrate the flood gates

[Mr.Familiar]

Originally Posted by TheColorCute

. She and are are almost 100% compatible.


Anyway, we text, sometimes I'll see her at work and say hi to her, or I'll mention to her that I'm near her work and she'll ask me to come see her. That's when the body language comes screaming in. Non-stop smiles and giggles, stays close in proximity to me while talking, keeps solid eye contact, yet still a little nervous. Eyes widen when she sees me, etc. She's slightly flirty when she's around me, says things like "Oh I'm good at so and so, I'll have to show you sometime...", and then breaks eye contact and looks down at the ground next to me.

There's a lot more to compatibility than this, Color...

[TheColorCute]

Originally Posted by Mr.Familiar

There's a lot more to compatibility than this, Color...

I didn't mean that to explain why we're compatible. That was to explain the body language. I could rattle off a big ole' paragraph on why we're compatible and why we enjoy each other's company, but I'll spare you guys the read

[Mr.Familiar]

Why would you rattle off and seemingly over think her body language when you already enjoy each others company? If anything, a big long paragraph about your perceived compatibility would be more interesting that what her body language is. Just saying.

[xFSUxlaxflip]

Color maybe you should stop feeding her emotional needs?

Its her turn to meet you half way now.. if she is giving you "whenever" as a good time but any time you suggest is somehow bad for her then perhaps its time to just put it in her court. Poke fun at her inability to make or maintain plans and see if you get a rise, a behavior adjustment, or an indication that you should move on to targets with more potential...

"You must never make plans with anyone since you are always working or otherwise unable to go out and enjoy yourself. You know what they say all work and no play make (her name here) a dull gal."

from there continue to banter and be playful depending on her responses you will know where to go from there

[Mr.Familiar]

I'd just go with, "Hit me up when you have a day off. I'll be looking forward to your call."

[Watermelondrea]

One of my ex girlfriends just put up a video of her playing the harp.

[peppelepugh]

I'm with FSU and Mr.Familiar. Before the new year took a girl out on a couple dates. Kept in touch but then saw things were getting quite one sided... figure it's my last semester of school anyways and i've got way too much on my plate to be playing the one sided game. I told her the same stuff. "Well when you're free, hit me up", even though I'm putting in 50-60 hours a week between school and work.

[Negligence]

Color sounds like you need to force her to make a move. If she doesn't then it's obvious you were just getting played for the emotional bull**** she was going through.

[raidenssj10]

Originally Posted by TheColorCute

Been talking to this girl lately. She and are are almost 100% compatible. Anyway, we text, sometimes I'll see her at work and say hi to her, or I'll mention to her that I'm near her work and she'll ask me to come see her. That's when the body language comes screaming in. Non-stop smiles and giggles, stays close in proximity to me while talking, keeps solid eye contact, yet still a little nervous. Eyes widen when she sees me, etc. She's slightly flirty when she's around me, says things like "Oh I'm good at so and so, I'll have to show you sometime...", and then breaks eye contact and looks down at the ground next to me.

Anyway, she's said that we need to arrange a time to hang out, and the last time I saw her at work, she said multiple times that we need to find a time to hang out. Said it while we were talking, and again when she went in for a hug before I left. She's expressed lots of interest in watching a movie together, multiple times.

Here's the problem: She just recently got out of a relationship, and she seems to be having trouble letting go. She'll say that we need to hang out, but when I try to solidify on a specific day, that's where she starts becoming shaky.

She's clearly interested, however, I'm just having trouble solidifying a specific date. She says that "Whenever! " works for her, but when I try to plan on a day, she'll be like "I work on those days, but we'll figure it out!!".

Not exactly sure how to go about this. She's clearly interested, but she's having trouble letting go of her past relationship. She'll post sappy statuses on Facebook about it from time to time. Suggestions?

I am in the same boat as you. This girl is clearly interested (we've kissed a few times and all that) but she never initiates anything. She never texts first, never calls me to hang out, but when I call her she jumps all over it.

Whenever I suggest that we do something, she also always says whenever works, and we just never end up doing it. The thing is that I'm just a really shy guy and she's a really shy girl, so neither of us have the confidence to do anything about it, though I'm about to ask her on a date.

[Elisee]

I'm a girl, I'm new here but you can ask me things.

[Rampager2000]

I like to play you in SSX.

[ProtoBaller1991]

Originally Posted by Elisee

I'm a girl, I'm new here but you can ask me things.

whats it like?

[pflfranco]

Originally Posted by Elisee

I'm a girl, I'm new here but you can ask me things.

Pics

[DaytonLax14]

Originally Posted by Elisee

I'm a girl, I'm new here but you can ask me things.

pics or shens