[Strange1130]

But probably the christmas blowjob response is the one to go with.

[Rampager2000]

Of the two, would definitely go with blowjob. You're not going to drive her away any more than she already is. The possibility is there.

I would do it. Ferreal.

[R2-D2]

You heard it here. We bathe you in the fountains of success.

[dub CRISP]

Originally Posted by R2-D2

You heard it here. We bathe you in the fountains of success.

[empire112234]

Kinda getting tired of this girl. It's not really her, just the whole fwb thing gets too complicated when feelings get too involved. I feel like the whole seeing each other every day, sex but no dating, not exclusive thing can only last for so long. Just the wrong time for both of us. Maybe going home for winter break will help a little.

On that note, I'm completely done with this semester of work as of an hour ago.

[SUR3]

Then why not just make it exclusive? You doesn't hang out with you all the time because she's not interested. A true fwb situation would be having a girl you can call up to come over for sex. You don't date them as you are.

[Big_Dangerous]

Originally Posted by empire112234

Kinda getting tired of this girl. It's not really her, just the whole fwb thing gets too complicated when feelings get too involved. I feel like the whole seeing each other every day, sex but no dating, not exclusive thing can only last for so long. Just the wrong time for both of us. Maybe going home for winter break will help a little.

On that note, I'm completely done with this semester of work as of an hour ago.

Haven't you seen the movies? FWB and NSA relationships never work. You're either going to end up with a girlfriend or getting hurt.

[empire112234]

Originally Posted by SUR3

Then why not just make it exclusive? You doesn't hang out with you all the time because she's not interested. A true fwb situation would be having a girl you can call up to come over for sex. You don't date them as you are.

I'm not really looking to date her right now. Still making my mind up and after my last one ended I feel like I'd rather be single for a while. Hard to explain exactly why. Might be a little defense mechanism for attachment. The problem is that we're really good friends and it feels like a relationship but neither of us want to jump into one. It's confusing and probably unhealthy at this point.

edit: She just asked if she could come down to my room. I see her way too much.

[SUR3]

Then you're stringing her along. At least talk to her about it so you know she's on the same page as you.

[Rampager2000]

Originally Posted by empire112234

Kinda getting tired of this girl. It's not really her, just the whole fwb thing gets too complicated when feelings get too involved. I feel like the whole seeing each other every day, sex but no dating, not exclusive thing can only last for so long. Just the wrong time for both of us. Maybe going home for winter break will help a little.

On that note, I'm completely done with this semester of work as of an hour ago.

I disagree. The best relationship I've ever had was the 6 months FWB relationship I had. We treated each other great, were best friends, and had lots and lots of sex. There was nothing missing. There were some feelings that developed towards the end on her part but we were open about it and talked through what was happening. I moved about that time..

Originally Posted by SUR3

Then why not just make it exclusive? You doesn't hang out with you all the time because she's not interested. A true fwb situation would be having a girl you can call up to come over for sex. You don't date them as you are.

Also this. If you're just not happy being the way you are, talk to her and either go further or drop all the way.

Originally Posted by SUR3

Then you're stringing her along. At least talk to her about it so you know she's on the same page as you.

This. If it's a good FWB you should be so open with each other that you're the best of friends, in my opinion. Otherwise she's just an occasional booty call.

[Danglous]

Originally Posted by empire112234

I'm not really looking to date her right now. Still making my mind up and after my last one ended I feel like I'd rather be single for a while. Hard to explain exactly why. Might be a little defense mechanism for attachment. The problem is that we're really good friends and it feels like a relationship but neither of us want to jump into one. It's confusing and probably unhealthy at this point.

edit: She just asked if she could come down to my room. I see her way too much.

Just had the same exact situation. It started as a hookup, felt like a relationship but I didnt want to commit so we just never talked about it. We were best friends for months and I wound up falling for her but getting burnt because we never talked about our status or the future

[coltgibby]

Originally Posted by empire112234

I'm not really looking to date her right now. Still making my mind up and after my last one ended I feel like I'd rather be single for a while. Hard to explain exactly why. Might be a little defense mechanism for attachment. The problem is that we're really good friends and it feels like a relationship but neither of us want to jump into one. It's confusing and probably unhealthy at this point.

edit: She just asked if she could come down to my room. I see her way too much.

Almost exactly my situation.

[empire112234]

Originally Posted by SUR3

Then you're stringing her along. At least talk to her about it so you know she's on the same page as you.

I think I just needed to hear that from someone else. I'll talk to her before I leave tomorrow.

[SUR3]

you have some feelings for her, obviously. maybe she's cool with taking it slow and keeping things the way they are.

[casultytosociety]

yo tj, when you going to hit a ***** up with sexy pics of the ex?

[EmpireEmperor]

yo jesse, when you going to hit a ***** up with sexy pics of your butthole?

[casultytosociety]

brodawg, how do you not have them already?


i think i'm going to start gracing this thread with my presence again.

[peppelepugh]

plans to go out on 2nd date with girl i'm talking just hit the fan. Planned on going to a big light show east of Dayton today and oh thats right... 25+mph winds with gusts up to 50mph, rain all day, turning to snow... Any ideas? Simple is good, but not looking for something too cliché.

[R2-D2]

if you have your own place, have her over for dinner and a movie. weather outside lead to close contact and boom

[Rampager2000]

Originally Posted by peppelepugh

plans to go out on 2nd date with girl i'm talking just hit the fan. Planned on going to a big light show east of Dayton today and oh thats right... 25+mph winds with gusts up to 50mph, rain all day, turning to snow... Any ideas? Simple is good, but not looking for something too cliché.

Psh. We had constant 20s and 30s today with gusts in the 60s. Had gusts in the 80s last night.


Still had to move lightweight boxes in this ****.

GOML!

Go sailboating.

[SUR3]

Originally Posted by casultytosociety

yo tj, when you going to hit a ***** up with sexy pics of the ex?

deleted them a while ago