[pastel (Banned)]

Originally Posted by smokeage

If she ends up coming over im just going to shove my tongue down her throat when I meet her at the door.

Is that good enough for you? lol

making a move doesnt necessarily mean kissing her. there are different degrees of advances and you can always make more than one move on any given date. you can use them as indicators as well. for me, if its the first date then we'll go to dinner or whatever and on the way back to the car ill hold her hand. by seeing her reaction to that, you can pretty much gauge how much further you can press that night. if she doesnt want to hold hands, then thats pretty much it with her. if she does, then you have to go for a kiss and then you just keep building on that. my friend will leave his hand on a chicks thigh and rub and squeeze it while he drives around and that pretty much seals the deal.

Originally Posted by colors

Haha i feel the exact same way. and it definitely applies to me as well.

it happens to everyone, really. the more you go all in, the more you get used to it. it seems like a lot of people are either scared of the chick thinking theyre a creep or that theyll get shot down/friendzoned. if you want to hook up with a chick, then having sex/a relationship with her is a far greater priority than maintaining a friendship with her or gaining her approval. her opinion of you doesnt mean ****. if they arent paying your bills or giving you grades and a degree, then their opinion doesnt mean ****.

[dub CRISP]

Originally Posted by earlsweatshirt

relevant

I thought I posted that in the GDT

my bad

[DaytonLax14]

Originally Posted by pastel

if they arent paying your bills or giving you grades and a degree, then their opinion doesnt mean ****.

So true but also very hard to remember in everyday life. Definitely something I need to work on, just not giving a damn what people think.

[sennz]

Alright folks!

Pretty confused at the moment.
General run down:
Said girl showing signs of interest. (Biting / licking lips when in front of me, smiles what seems uncontrollably when looking at each other, seems shy when it comes to speaking about anything other then work, unless we're pretty much alone together - work at same place) A long with random bits of flirting.

Now here is what's confusing me. I asked to speak to her later, I just mentioned "Been wondering, would it be possible to get your number?" she immeditatly blushed and mentioned that she wasn't expecting that.

She didn't give a definite answer, just said "Wow, wasn't expecting that, give me time to think about it and I'll get back to you." - This is the part that is confusing me no end. That was at the start of a 8 hour shift, then near the last hour, just chatted about random ****, got a few giggles out of her etc.

"Wow, wasn't expecting that, give me time to think about it and I'll get back to you." So what's the best way to approach this sort of reaction? Leave her be? chat every now and again?

[SUR3]

i don't think she's interested. giving someone your number isn't a big deal at all.

[james bond 007]

Yeah, usually "let me think about it and I'll get back to you." is a nice way of saying "No, but hopefully you forget before I have to say it."

[SUR3]

and the whole her being shy when other people are around COULD be that she is embarrassed to be seen with you

[Mr.Familiar]

Actually, she does seem interested, but is playing the hard to get card. Just so you know, as we are sitting here, talking about girls, and strategies that do/don't work to "getting" them, girls do the same stuff. She's making you sweat. Just keep in pursuit, sennz

Or I could be wrong. Guess there is only one way to find out, eh?

[DaytonLax14]

For future reference don't ask for her number, tell her to give it to you.

"Give me your number and we can *insert whatever* sometime."

[Fuzzy R. McNuggs]

this 14 year old gave me her # lolololol

[DaytonLax14]

what were you doing with a 14 year old in the first place?

[pastel (Banned)]

do you even need game for a 14 year old? assuming youre under 18, just tell her shes hot.

[Fuzzy R. McNuggs]

snowball fight

boobies like you would not believe

[strostro]

So I was good friends with a girl in high school, never really anything other than that for the four years of high school, except I really liked her but she always had a boyfriend, but I just assumed I had been friendzoned. Now we went to different colleges and didn't talk or see eachother for three years until a few years ago.

With this time apart, would it be weird if I tried to make a move since shes been single for almost a year? Or does time not remove me from the friend zone. She's only gotten hotter so even if she shoots me down I think it's worth a shot.

[sennz]

Gonna ask why she was shocked that I asked. And go from there.

[Infinity Kid]

Originally Posted by Fuzzy R. McNuggs

snowball fight

boobies like you would not believe

Boobs at a 14 year old snowball fight! Your boobs are bigger than most there I bet!

Originally Posted by strostro

So I was good friends with a girl in high school, never really anything other than that for the four years of high school, except I really liked her but she always had a boyfriend, but I just assumed I had been friendzoned. Now we went to different colleges and didn't talk or see eachother for three years until a few years ago.

With this time apart, would it be weird if I tried to make a move since shes been single for almost a year? Or does time not remove me from the friend zone. She's only gotten hotter so even if she shoots me down I think it's worth a shot.

She is hot, go for it! It's only a learning experience if she shoots you down

[Ego_2k4]

I dont post too often on the nation but just wanted to say thank you for sharing your experiences and advice.

[xFSUxlaxflip]

Originally Posted by sennz

Alright folks!

Pretty confused at the moment.
General run down:
Said girl showing signs of interest. (Biting / licking lips when in front of me, smiles what seems uncontrollably when looking at each other, seems shy when it comes to speaking about anything other then work, unless we're pretty much alone together - work at same place) A long with random bits of flirting.

Now here is what's confusing me. I asked to speak to her later, I just mentioned "Been wondering, would it be possible to get your number?" she immeditatly blushed and mentioned that she wasn't expecting that.

She didn't give a definite answer, just said "Wow, wasn't expecting that, give me time to think about it and I'll get back to you." - This is the part that is confusing me no end. That was at the start of a 8 hour shift, then near the last hour, just chatted about random ****, got a few giggles out of her etc.

"Wow, wasn't expecting that, give me time to think about it and I'll get back to you." So what's the best way to approach this sort of reaction? Leave her be? chat every now and again?

She is weighing the value of you as a potential relationship at the cost of it going wrong and her basically not being able to work with you anymore...

I would say you have found a rare girl who is actually concerned with her life out look and may possibly be trying to not **** where she eats or on the other hand shes a whore and a half and has ****ed herself over in the past by ****ing dudes at work...

Either way I recommend you ease up a bit off her for a while let her come back to you.

If its the first case and shes just weighing the situation she will appreciate the space.

However, if its the second case youll get a better understanding when she re-approaches you of how high on the whore scale she is hitting based on how she plays the re-approach...

[sennz]

Originally Posted by xFSUxlaxflip

She is weighing the value of you as a potential relationship at the cost of it going wrong and her basically not being able to work with you anymore...

I would say you have found a rare girl who is actually concerned with her life out look and may possibly be trying to not **** where she eats or on the other hand shes a whore and a half and has ****ed herself over in the past by ****ing dudes at work...

Either way I recommend you ease up a bit off her for a while let her come back to you.

If its the first case and shes just weighing the situation she will appreciate the space.

However, if its the second case youll get a better understanding when she re-approaches you of how high on the whore scale she is hitting based on how she plays the re-approach...

Dude. Thats bang on.

Today. It was a simple hey and a smile.

I was sat on her chair she came over, I asked if she wanted her seat back and got a "No thanks darling" rather then some kinky flirty message back.

The day I asked she seemed to be sex orientated flirts. Like i said "i love working here" then she replied with a "i bet you do" with a wink. Seems as if her tones changed.

Gonna just keep being myself.

[colors]

Originally Posted by sennz

Gonna ask why she was shocked that I asked. And go from there.

ya i wouldn't bring it up again just do you and act like it didn't phase you.

[Mr.Familiar]

Originally Posted by sennz

The day I asked she seemed to be sex orientated flirts. Like i said "i love working here" then she replied with a "i bet you do" with a wink. Seems as if her tones changed

Yup. Playing hard to get. I don't even