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Old 11-13-2012, 05:35 PM #1
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So I was dating this girl for just under 4 years before we broke up, basically she just got tired of me one day, told me she wanted to take a break, and then about 5 days after that she tells me she "doesn't need me in her life anymore" and finds a new boyfriend whom she starts dating. Now at the time I was upset because we dated for sometime and it honestly came out of nowhere, I just went to her place one night to chill when and she pulled that. I wanted to still remain friends with her but she cut off all contact with me even when I said I didn't care about her finding a new person to take my place.

So it's been roughly 9 months since then. Apparently her and her new boyfriend dated for a little bit and are no longer together.

Tonight she sends me a friend request on facebook after having me blocked for the past 8 months or so.

What do you think her intentions are? To talk to me again, to see if I'll even accept the request, or what? I'm hesitant to click accept because I don't know what her intentions are, but I also at the same time want to find out what they are.

I mean if she just requests me and I accept it and then she never talks to me, then I wouldn't get the point.

What do?

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Old 11-13-2012, 05:37 PM #2
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I've also been single this entire time since we broke up (though I had a couple flings), I can say I do in a sense miss her, but not really I just miss having a girlfriend who I cared about. I don't necessarily miss the person she was though.
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Old 11-13-2012, 05:38 PM #3
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Block that *****, and carry on with your life.

But seriously: block that *****, and carry on with your life.
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Old 11-13-2012, 05:39 PM #4
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Block that *****, and carry on with your life.

But seriously: block that *****, and carry on with your life.
This wouldn't be a bad idea but I think it'd be super funny if she has some intention of trying to talk to me again. I mean after all she was the one that didn't need me in her life anymore, just the fact that her *** had the balls to friend request me is weird enough

Though you all will not believe me, I have absolutely zero intentions of getting back together with her. I just want to see what she has to say or why she even sent the request.
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Old 11-13-2012, 05:40 PM #5
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you shouldn't care.

add her and make her jelly of all the *****es on your dick
make her want you again
**** her
break up with her
kill her family

in that order
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Old 11-13-2012, 05:40 PM #6
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Block that *****, and carry on with your life.

But seriously: block that *****, and carry on with your life.
AGREE. just ignore her she had the chance with u and blew it. **** her(not litteraly)
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Old 11-13-2012, 05:41 PM #7
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you shouldn't care.

add her and make her jelly of all the *****es on your dick
make her want you again
**** her
break up with her
kill her family

in that order
that's an awesome idea.
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Old 11-13-2012, 05:43 PM #8
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So I was dating this girl for just under 4 years before we broke up, basically she just got tired of me one day, told me she wanted to take a break, and then about 5 days after that she tells me she "doesn't need me in her life anymore" and finds a new boyfriend whom she starts dating.
You do realize she was probably seeing that guy while she was still with you, right?
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Old 11-13-2012, 05:44 PM #9
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you shouldn't care.

add her and make her jelly of all the *****es on your dick
make her want you again
**** her
break up with her
kill her family

in that order
Even better
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Old 11-13-2012, 05:45 PM #10
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You do realize she was probably seeing that guy while she was still with you, right?
wouldn't surprise me all that much to be honest

seeing as how they were working together and I could see them being all flirty and **** at work and whatnot.

but then that makes it even more dumb if she tries to contact me.
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Old 11-13-2012, 05:46 PM #11
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**** her. Literally.
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Old 11-13-2012, 05:48 PM #12
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Old 11-13-2012, 05:49 PM #13
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stuff like that is why I deleted my facebook
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Old 11-13-2012, 05:49 PM #14
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I'm going to accept it, what do I have to lose honestly? I moved away from her anyhow, so I don't know what her point is in the least.
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Old 11-13-2012, 05:52 PM #15
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wouldn't surprise me all that much to be honest

seeing as how they were working together and I could see them being all flirty and **** at work and whatnot.

but then that makes it even more dumb if she tries to contact me.
Here's what I'm saying; if you ever find yourself thinking about getting back together with her, don't do it. Because if she was willing to fool around with other guys behind your back the first time, she likely won't hesitate to do it again.
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Old 11-13-2012, 05:54 PM #16
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Get pictures of her an post them on here for revenge
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Old 11-13-2012, 05:56 PM #17
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Get pictures of her an post them on here for revenge
Agree
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Old 11-13-2012, 05:58 PM #18
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Bag it and tag it. **** her as much as you can, make her buy you ****, and treat her like the trash bag she is. But this thread is ****ing useless without pics.
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Old 11-13-2012, 06:02 PM #19
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I wish there was a ****ing thread for this.
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Old 11-13-2012, 06:02 PM #20
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Start talking to her
Do crystal meth
Eat her
Eat her family
Then do shrooms
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Old 11-13-2012, 06:06 PM #21
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Just accept it and she what she does, if she tries to talk to you or anything just make her feel how she made you feel. BAM
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