As far as the pump arm being stripped, the ram end is trying to come out which could have just been an issue of nothing being put on the threads to keep it in place, or if it is just popping out without unthreading itself, then it is stripped.
Cocking rods, also can be a little tricky for adjusting, mainly if you have an old one that hasn't been adjusted in a long time. Best thing to do is put the rod end on a vice and use a set of vice grips to unscrew the cap (try to get some rubber to act as a buffer so you don't scratch it up), or if you have the nut style you can get a wrench instead of the vice grips. But of course make sure to get the set screw out first
