Mapquest says it's 20 hrs 10 mins / 1259.24 miles
from Melborne, Fl to Wyandotte, OK. BTW, I just
checked the D-Day Forum and I see that players
from Jacksonville and Orlando, FL are both looking
for people to convoy or split costs with them. Get
over to the forum and check out the Carpool
section
For more information about ALL of the units which
comprise both sides, visit the Official Oklahoma
D-Day website/forum..
The link to it is
http://www.ddaypark.com
As to your last question, you pick the primary unit you
wish to join. Some units require you to be at least 15
years old on the day of the main game. Others ask you
to be there no later than the Wednesday before, so you
can go though the Obstacle Course.
For more details about D-Day you can read back copies
of The D-Day Stars and Stripes -
http://www.issuu.com/dorsai
If you have any additional questions, especially about any
of the Allied Army's units, don't hesitate contacting/calling
me.
Sincererly,