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09-29-2010, 02:09 AM
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Join Date: Aug 2004
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*Official* GIRL THREAD (Problems, Advice, etc)
(Original credit, and thread poster, for this idea goes to TylerValo.)
I'm tired of all your threads.
From now on please post your problem here and wait for an answer.
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09-29-2010, 02:17 AM
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So my girlfriend is long distance and lately we've been thinking about breaking it off. We go to college about four hours' drive apart from each other and things can get strained sometimes because of that distance. I am very happy with her and I'm glad I'm dating her, but at the same time there is a part of me that thinks I'm just staying with her because she'd be absolutely crushed if we were to break up. Is it worth giving that part of me any consideration? Any thoughts are appreciated.
Ps first. Why am I awake?
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09-29-2010, 06:09 AM
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phx to nyc
Join Date: May 2004
Location: AZ and nyc
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god dammit
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09-29-2010, 06:11 AM
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phx to nyc
Join Date: May 2004
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Originally Posted by inkjt510
So my girlfriend is long distance and lately we've been thinking about breaking it off. We go to college about four hours' drive apart from each other and things can get strained sometimes because of that distance. I am very happy with her and I'm glad I'm dating her, but at the same time there is a part of me that thinks I'm just staying with her because she'd be absolutely crushed if we were to break up. Is it worth giving that part of me any consideration? Any thoughts are appreciated.
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i don't think that kind of distance is worth it. you should probably break it off.
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09-29-2010, 06:41 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by inkjt510
So my girlfriend is long distance and lately we've been thinking about breaking it off. We go to college about four hours' drive apart from each other and things can get strained sometimes because of that distance. I am very happy with her and I'm glad I'm dating her, but at the same time there is a part of me that thinks I'm just staying with her because she'd be absolutely crushed if we were to break up. Is it worth giving that part of me any consideration? Any thoughts are appreciated.
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Honestly distance is a really tough thin to deal with. You are going to have way to many opportunities to cheat on her, your are hardly going to see her. I'd break up with her, just explain to her that you don't think a long distance relationship can work out.
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09-29-2010, 07:38 AM
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Car Emblem For sale PM Me
Join Date: Jan 2007
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Originally Posted by tehk00l$chemcksykid
Honestly distance is a really tough thin to deal with. You are going to have way to many opportunities to cheat on her, your are hardly going to see her. I'd break up with her, just explain to her that you don't think a long distance relationship can work out.
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09-29-2010, 07:48 AM
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gotgamegotgamegotgame
Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: ate-five-sex
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Happy hump day!
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09-29-2010, 08:14 AM
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SMASH! Now clean it up!!
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Long distance should only really be attempted later on in life. Not really in college. By long distance I mean anything >1 hours drive. It is a lot of stress, and some things can be very hard to deal with if the maturity level is not there in both parties.
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09-29-2010, 08:17 AM
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f u luck
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all of you ****s have turrible grammar
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09-29-2010, 08:52 AM
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Just my drunken ramblings
Join Date: Dec 2008
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all of you ****s have turrible grammar
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09-29-2010, 08:57 AM
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f u luck
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contain your excitement
don't worry; posting here won't be a regular thing for me
p.s. i saw your comment last thread, hence the continuation. also making this comment just to let you know that i'm consciously avoiding posting here
i realize that all of you are better in every facet of life than me and have proven yourselves much more than i ever could, so i obviously cannot contribute in any way.
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09-29-2010, 09:49 AM
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OG status
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09-29-2010, 09:57 AM
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synthetic like rayon
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: Maryland
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I'm kind of involved in a long distance thing. She lives in NYC for school, I live about 3 hours away in MD.
Before we met I wasn't really interested in anything but broing out and school, so long distance kind of caters to me. I don't really care to talk to most girls, because they're unbearably stupid for the most part. I've never been capable of maintaining a platonic relationship with a female so having some sort of obligation would make that easier, no pressure to escalate a situation for me at least.
With her living so far away it's easier to arrange when we'll see each other, so most other times I can go out and play football or study or whatever. I'm not really big into parties or anything, I seldom drink. I'm not the kind of person that gets really attached either so if for whatever reason she cheated or anything, I'd just break up with her and go back to the way I was. It may be different over the summer or something if we get closer but until then I'm not "close" to her. I like her a lot but I'm not putting myself out there. The distance relieves a lot of pressure for me.
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09-29-2010, 10:06 AM
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gotgamegotgamegotgame
Join Date: Apr 2008
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Long distant relationships are actually becoming more and more apparent with the younger generation.... not so much high school, but there is an emerging trend for college students and even more so with recent college graduates. It has a lot to do with means of communication, ease or travel, the job market, and the desire for the younger generations to have more "me" time.
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09-29-2010, 10:19 AM
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f u luck
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i wish i could have an opinion on the matter
oh well
i'm going to go hide in a corner
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09-29-2010, 10:37 AM
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synthetic like rayon
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: Maryland
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Originally Posted by whiteyg0tgame
Long distant relationships are actually becoming more and more apparent with the younger generation.... not so much high school, but there is an emerging trend for college students and even more so with recent college graduates. It has a lot to do with means of communication, ease or travel, the job market, and the desire for the younger generations to have more "me" time.
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Yeah my biggest problem with relationships was girls wanting to be together constantly. With college especially, I've just got **** to do. Living far apart gives me time to do all of that. And depending on when I get tickets, a bus, round trip, is less than $40. If all we do is walk around the city (and sex  ) and get pizza or whatever that's cheaper than having a gf nearby.
She's not my girlfriend though, haha, I'm not trying to tread into that territory yet. We're in that weird "obligated to one another but don't want to title it" stage.
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09-29-2010, 10:48 AM
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gotgamegotgamegotgame
Join Date: Apr 2008
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Those stages are sometimes pleasant... other times awkward. Another thing with long distance relationships is the amount of time they take. Since you see each other less and you interact with each other with the normal daily grinds you actually to to know each other slower and the relationships typically progress much, much slower.
P.S. JP, don't be so mopy 
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Last edited by whiteyg0tgame : 09-29-2010 at 10:51 AM.
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09-29-2010, 10:57 AM
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f u luck
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don't worry about me; i'm out of here like republicans in congress
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09-29-2010, 10:59 AM
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gotgamegotgamegotgame
Join Date: Apr 2008
Location: ate-five-sex
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But they always come back 
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09-29-2010, 11:04 AM
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FTW
Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: Bed Stuy
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'scribin
and jp ur my fav in here <3
edit: originally wrote Jt; was watching planet terror last night and got the bbq sauce dude's name in my head instead of jp lolz
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09-29-2010, 11:09 AM
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The Legend
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contain your excitement
don't worry; posting here won't be a regular thing for me
p.s. i saw your comment last thread, hence the continuation. also making this comment just to let you know that i'm consciously avoiding posting here
i realize that all of you are better in every facet of life than me and have proven yourselves much more than i ever could, so i obviously cannot contribute in any way.
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