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Okay, here goes I have class Thursday nights and there's this girl (duh) that's decent and we been talking just in class for about 3 weeks now, and I kinda like her but in my past every EVERY girl I have asked is like "I see you more as a friend" aaaahhhhh dammit stupid friendzone. So far I know I can make her laugh. And I look up once in awhile and I see she's looking at me. Am I blind or stupid or both?
so im kinda seeing how this goes tomorrow.. so i got this girl an interview at the place i work at, and she will most likely get the job. after the interview we are going out for lunch, and we are somewhat talking. the thing is, she just got back with her bf but they recently broke up a little while ago. so how should i play this?
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Ok so here's an update for those of you that remember the situation I posed and the advice I asked for the other day. Took her out to get some coffee, talked for a good hour or two, then went to the bar for a few drinks and played some pool. After a couple games of pool we went and sat down on the couch in the lounge area, ended up making out a little bit. We wound up going back to her place and chilling with one of her roommates that was up, but then she kicked him out of the common area and we watched Futurama and Family Guy. Had a serious makeout/groping/dry humping session, but no sex cause of the roommates. Tonight I'm supposed to bring her over to my place to ****. Just gotta clean my room now lol.
Okay, here goes I have class Thursday nights and there's this girl (duh) that's decent and we been talking just in class for about 3 weeks now, and I kinda like her but in my past every EVERY girl I have asked is like "I see you more as a friend" aaaahhhhh dammit stupid friendzone. So far I know I can make her laugh. And I look up once in awhile and I see she's looking at me. Am I blind or stupid or both?
Both, its been three weeks man. Take her out and make a move.
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Okay, here goes I have class Thursday nights and there's this girl (duh) that's decent and we been talking just in class for about 3 weeks now, and I kinda like her but in my past every EVERY girl I have asked is like "I see you more as a friend" aaaahhhhh dammit stupid friendzone. So far I know I can make her laugh. And I look up once in awhile and I see she's looking at me. Am I blind or stupid or both?
Two quick problems I see...
1- You're spending too much time trying to get comfortable and make her interested in you. That time being spent is making her comfortable with you, but it's taking away the thought of "Oh, I think he's into me" (because you're not making any moves) and it becomes the thought of "He's a nice guy."
2- "EVERY girl I have asked..." You should not be asking. You should be acting. You have to make moves on the girl and let your (and her) actions speak how you feel. Read up on kino and such in the first post. If you get good vibes, try to kiss her, if she lets you, progress. Having any conversations or talks before you get past making out a few times is awkward and will yeild said results!
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so im kinda seeing how this goes tomorrow.. so i got this girl an interview at the place i work at, and she will most likely get the job. after the interview we are going out for lunch, and we are somewhat talking. the thing is, she just got back with her bf but they recently broke up a little while ago. so how should i play this?
Pretend the boyfriend doesn't exist and tell her she owes you a date after she gets her first paycheck.
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Ok so here's an update for those of you that remember the situation I posed and the advice I asked for the other day. Took her out to get some coffee, talked for a good hour or two, then went to the bar for a few drinks and played some pool. After a couple games of pool we went and sat down on the couch in the lounge area, ended up making out a little bit. We wound up going back to her place and chilling with one of her roommates that was up, but then she kicked him out of the common area and we watched Futurama and Family Guy. Had a serious makeout/groping/dry humping session, but no sex cause of the roommates. Tonight I'm supposed to bring her over to my place to ****. Just gotta clean my room now lol.
Congratulations You better sex her up in round 2
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Haha thanks man. Don't worry, not even the zombie apocalypse will stop it from happening.
Mad props man, make us proud.
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To whoever said that the movies give little opportunity to communicate, and that dinner is forced communication. Well the way its always worked for me, even if I go to the movies im one of the *******s who will talk and ****, and what would happen if you go to dinner for some "forced" conversation and it just turns out to be an awkward **** fest? Doing something less personal the first date is a much better idea than going all out on the whole conversing idea.
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so im kinda seeing how this goes tomorrow.. so i got this girl an interview at the place i work at, and she will most likely get the job. after the interview we are going out for lunch, and we are somewhat talking. the thing is, she just got back with her bf but they recently broke up a little while ago. so how should i play this?
If it were me I would never date/hump a chick I worked with, if **** goes south work will suck even more after that...
haven't been in here for awhile.
stuff hasn't been improving much
no new girls really. haven't really been trying. really no reason too. graduation is comming up then college. i don't really need to be in a relationship now.
Started talking to my ex again after almost a year. things were going pretty good, like flirty good. but i kinda ****ed that up. told her to either pick her bf and never speak to me or pick me. she didn't pick me, i didn't think she would. Doesn't really matter. i told her to talk to me again when she's single. i doubt anything will happen. and yes i know, never go back to an ex. I don't think it was worth talking to her, but leaving her completely behind isn't quite right either. She was my first gf, kiss, all that jazz. So yea...
Sorry for the rant.
I need to get out and meet some *****es and have some fun.
haven't been in here for awhile.
stuff hasn't been improving much
no new girls really. haven't really been trying. really no reason too. graduation is comming up then college. i don't really need to be in a relationship now.
Started talking to my ex again after almost a year. things were going pretty good, like flirty good. but i kinda ****ed that up. told her to either pick her bf and never speak to me or pick me. she didn't pick me, i didn't think she would. Doesn't really matter. i told her to talk to me again when she's single. i doubt anything will happen. and yes i know, never go back to an ex. I don't think it was worth talking to her, but leaving her completely behind isn't quite right either. She was my first gf, kiss, all that jazz. So yea...
Sorry for the rant.
I need to get out and meet some *****es and have some fun.
Lifes a *****, bend it over. amirite?
You always seem all about clenching a relationship. Definitely just 'go out and meet some *****es and have some fun.' Just because it doesn't seem like a great time to engage in a relationship doesn't mean you should give up. You can still practice closing and having fun with girls. Relationships are not necessary
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You always seem all about clenching a relationship. Definitely just 'go out and meet some *****es and have some fun.' Just because it doesn't seem like a great time to engage in a relationship doesn't mean you should give up. You can still practice closing and having fun with girls. Relationships are not necessary
i agree with you. i have trouble with just letting go. and it sucks. makes it hard. and im soooo impatient that i can't ever just relax and have a good time. Far to analytical most of the time. but yea. the last few months of my highschool years aren't going to be spent worrying about what could have been with a girl who i used to love and is now clearly insecure. not going to happen.a
You better sex her up in round 2 
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