[Big_Dangerous]

Originally Posted by alex456

telling a girl how you feel about her emotionally is a bad idea 99% of the time.

being honest sexually is good. being honest emotionally is generally not, it will usually come across as creepy or clingy and scare them off.

I think women prefer that type of honesty, and if you can get comfortable enough to do that, I think it's better.

[Big_Dangerous]

Originally Posted by ---jp---

i'll never be your beast of burden

Was already listening to that before lulz.

[starforbrian]

+1 on the Stones.

[edudcixlsyd]

Originally Posted by Big_Dangerous

I think women prefer that type of honesty, and if you can get comfortable enough to do that, I think it's better.

Just stop. You're like a high school varsity basketball player trying to tell Lebron James how to shoot a free throw.

[Tayo (Banned)]

I said to a girl once that I had feelings for her, bad idea. Not saying anything, saying you like her works better.

[---jp---]

[Big_Dangerous]

Originally Posted by edudcixlsyd

Just stop. You're like a high school varsity basketball player trying to tell Lebron James how to shoot a free throw.

Either that or you just done like someone who has a different approach and way of thinking.

Well Lebron James's FT's could use some work. He has a career average of 74%, that's not great by any means.

[bubbleboy016]

Originally Posted by Big_Dangerous

It's like I said, tell her you have feelings for her (if you haven't already) and then if she says yes, cool, if not move the **** on and stop wasting time.

Based off personal experience, being honest/blunt/open with your emotions towards any girl you are trying to game is counterproductive to the end goal of getting with her.

From what I've seen, witnessed, if you're to open with a girl you're gaming in the comfort building stages, then you (generalization) will most likely creep her out. You've got to build comfort before you can build attraction. (I think this is the most important part of my post for you, Big_Dangerous)

IMO - Your advice may be worth value to those people in standing relationships with communication problems, however, its of lesser value/use when gaming/picking up girls. I can see your advice for being open and honest with your (generalization) partner being of more use than the use of a freeze out, because the comfort/attraction has already been built in the existing relationship. So basically, what I'm trying to say, is that most people in this thread aren't trying to maintain their relationships, but rather create new relationships or improve their game in order to create new relationships.

[edudcixlsyd]

Originally Posted by Big_Dangerous

Either that or you just done like someone who has a different approach and way of thinking.

Your "approach" and "way of thinking" is very AFC and is setting up anyone who's truly friend zoned up for heartbreak. The only time spilling your guts works is when the guy has the girl hooked but his game is so bad that he's not able to realize and he thinks he's friend zoned/losing attraction because she's tired of waiting for him to man up and do something.

[paintballer38-99]

Just found out my ex cheated on my twice. I loved this girl with all my heart and trusted her with my life and planned on marrying her. She left me about a month ago but it still hurts and i dont even know where to start

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