Official GIRL THREAD (Problems, Advice, etc)

AndyAllen019 · 03-17-2009, 02:10 AM

I'm tired of all your threads.

From now on please post your problem here and wait for an answer.

The Dread Pirate's edit:

I've posted a very good write-up on developing "game" if you have none. It was too long to edit into here, so just click the link and read it.
http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...4#post23173234

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Originally Posted by Bobeo

Spike8890v.2 (Banned) · 03-17-2009, 02:10 AM

This is not a GDT.

john146504 · 03-17-2009, 02:11 AM

what do i do?

greenvertboy · 03-17-2009, 02:15 AM

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Originally Posted by Bleachdnblonde

if you feel you need to end the relationship you are not doing anything except making it worse for all parties involved by dragging it out. i think step one should be to decide whether or not you want this relationship to go on. Dislike of "dumping a girl" should not be a factor AT ALL. Life is about making some tough decisions and doing things we don't like simply so things turn out better in the long run.

All girls fantasize about marriage... especially high school girls who are looking for acceptance and security. They pulled the **** when i was your age and they will be doing it for years to come. You can handle this any way you'd like EXCEPT feeding into the idea that you also think it's a good idea. I believe i was normally dismissive and just said, "ok whatever." and ignored it. It allowed me to avoid confrontation and long deep talks without having to give in to her

This is some of the best advice I've seen given from Bleached in my half a year here. Some of the best advice I've seen period for High School students. All HS girls think that it would be AMAZING to marry their HS sweetheart. Then they get to college, cheat on you, and ACTUALLY experience life.

HS girls don't know what life is like. They "love" you because you are all they know. Once they get out of HS they learn something. There is more than you. It doesn't matter how perfect you are, they will leave you.

Learn from me, and do the exact opposite of me. In HS you should be going after girls that "seem" like a "challenge" to you. You will learn more, and get a LOT more *****.

Take my advice. Have fun with as many girls as you can in HS.

Yes. Even the "ugly" ones.

Edit: "ugly" doesn't count if you are drunk.

Edit2: That means **** every girl you can when you're drunk.

auggs · 03-17-2009, 02:16 AM

Haha i was last post, sweet.

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So two weeks ago this chick and i (the same chick i've been talking about solely throughout this thread thus far) have dinner. She comes over, i cook in front of her. We sit down, have a few drinks, couple'a shots. And i convince her (although without being overbearing) to come with me to the club. Have a few drinks, good night of dancing, i go over to her place (already mentioned). Things get pretty hot and heavy.

Fast forward to present and this past weekend. Friday i hangout with a different chick. So chill, love to be her friend. Anyways, saturday the university puts on a huge party of st. patty's. 600 ticket. Sold out event.

I go early with the boys, dance with a few broads. She shows up, spend the rest of the night with her (albeit a good portion with her friends too, but i wanted to show them i'm a good choice, haha ).

Anyways, dancing and drinks end, she invites me over. Although things got pretty close, not near as close as before, but i think i'm building her trust, all the while keeping it flirty.

Ugh, i just don't know what to do anymore. Should i keep trying? Let it slide? Definitely not friend zoned because of how close we are sometimes..

But lately she's been disconnected and just not with the conversation like before. And she's also hanging out with other guys, blah blah blah, but she is a party girl.

What to do?

TLDR: chick seems odd and slightly different.. hangin' out with other d00ds (yes i can get jealous) so... wtf?

Just validate my point that i guess it is time to move on, right? I'd like a relationship or at the very least see where it goes but she has no thought of anything similar, and isn't looking for anything in the least bit long term. But, oh well.

Deadly Milk Man (Banned) · 03-17-2009, 02:20 AM

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Originally Posted by greenvertboy

This is some of the best advice I've seen given from Bleached in my half a year here. Some of the best advice I've seen period for High School students. All HS girls think that it would be AMAZING to marry their HS sweetheart. Then they get to college, cheat on you, and ACTUALLY experience life.

HS girls don't know what life is like. They "love" you because you are all they know. Once they get out of HS they learn something. There is more than you. It doesn't matter how perfect you are, they will leave you.

Learn from me, and do the exact opposite of me. In HS you should be going after girls that "seem" like a "challenge" to you. You will learn more, and get a LOT more *****.

Take my advice. Have fun with as many girls as you can in HS.

Yes. Even the "ugly" ones.

Edit: "ugly" doesn't count if you are drunk.

Edit2: That means **** every girl you can when you're drunk.

haha i just CANNOT 'practice' on the fugly ones it just is not even close to the same... first off its easy as hell and 2nd it's just like "aww gross i hope she doesnt think im tryin to get w/ her"

dna_gnirettiL · 03-17-2009, 02:26 AM

i like girls.

greenvertboy · 03-17-2009, 02:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Deadly Milk Man

haha i just CANNOT 'practice' on the fugly ones it just is not even close to the same... first off its easy as hell and 2nd it's just like "aww gross i hope she doesnt think im tryin to get w/ her"

When you are REALLY drunk it shouldn't matter. **** them. That's right, go the whole ****ing way. Drive it home champ.

Too often, the fugly girls around here act like they're good looking anyway (that means they're very prude, and in fact are afraid of sexual relations, which makes them almost more of a challenge then the HB's). Which means they are good practice. And, if you are drunk, you can pas it off as, "I was VERY drunk, I didn't want to, I think it was fugly girl rape.".

god the sequel · 03-17-2009, 02:32 AM

how do I talk my girlfriend into getting a hair cut?

heres how her hair looks now

but im thinking that going for a really short chelea would be sweet.
any ideas?

dcpusher · 03-17-2009, 02:51 AM

Theubernoob, and BleachednBlonde thanks for your help! Any advice on how to bring up the conversation of wanting an open relationship. I don't want to offend her, but she is graduating in another quarter.

dna_gnirettiL · 03-17-2009, 02:52 AM

yeah, you say "how about us have an open relationship?"

god the sequel · 03-17-2009, 03:05 AM

me and my broad are straight up swingers.
pm me for a trade

-olio- (Banned) · 03-17-2009, 04:39 AM

First page. sup?

greenvertboy · 03-17-2009, 04:42 AM

Who is that too?

Sorry, I fail to see how you are saying that to.

-olio- (Banned) · 03-17-2009, 04:45 AM

I don't know, I just got back from the bar **** off. But what you were saying about boning ugly chicks in highschool; I agree 100% if you're just some horny *** teenager, throw your standards to the wind. **** anything with a vag, **** reputation, you'll look back and laugh hard. Good practice too.

greenvertboy · 03-17-2009, 04:54 AM

DAWT DAWT DAWT DAWT.

That's what I;m saying. HS is PRACTICE. So **** the **** out of EVERYTHING that you can.

Trust me.

Trust olio.

If you don't, you will have some VERY boring HS school years.

-olio- (Banned) · 03-17-2009, 04:55 AM

I learned the hard way.
Don't make the same mistake as me youngin's.

greenvertboy · 03-17-2009, 05:00 AM

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Originally Posted by -olio-

I learned the hard way.
Don't make the same mistake as me youngin's.

As did I.

Honestly. Listen. to.

Us.

Invisible but not edit: Ypu are high or drunk. I think I love you.

That's right. That's all I need anymore.

Edit again: but reallly kiddies, listen to us.

-olio- (Banned) · 03-17-2009, 05:03 AM

I don't know what just happened but are we best friends?

greenvertboy · 03-17-2009, 05:13 AM

Either that or **** buddies...

*thrust thrust thrust*

greenvertboy · 03-17-2009, 05:14 AM

Well............

*Official* GIRL THREAD (Problems, Advice, etc)

*Official* GIRL THREAD (Problems, Advice, etc)

Official GIRL THREAD (Problems, Advice, etc)

Official GIRL THREAD (Problems, Advice, etc)