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Old 07-25-2008, 02:09 AM #1
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*Official* GIRL THREAD (Problems, Advice, etc)

I'm tired of all your threads.

From now on please post your problem here and wait for an answer.

The Dread Pirate's edit:

I've posted a very good write-up on developing "game" if you have none. It was too long to edit into here, so just click the link and read it.
http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...4#post23173234



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*Attention Read*

Some mentioned this on Page 1 and I think it would be a great idea. They said something about compiling a FAQ of the best posts. I don't think that would be a half bad idea.

So from now on I propose that if you think a post should be highlighted, as sort of a basic thing to know for anyone visiting this thread, let me know. I will edit this post with that post.

If you think this is a good idea, of course.

OK, PM me with link and post # if you want something submitted.

Post begins below here and goes through the end.

*Official Girl Problem Thread* Library

OGPT Version 1: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=1529791
OGPT Version 2: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=1691845
OGPT Version 3: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=1773113
OGPT Version 4: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=1859130
OGPT Version 5: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=1931543
OGPT Version 6: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=2015701
OGPT Version 7: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=2099587
OGPT Version 8: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=2174637
OGPT Version 9: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=2233592
OGPT Version 10: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=2233592
OGPT Version 11: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=2277911
OGPT Version 12: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=2313632
OGPT Version 13: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=2344037
OGPT Version 14: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=2380564
OGPT Version 15: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=2430796
OGPT Version 16: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=2483824
OGPT Version 17: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=2514629
OGPT Version 18: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=2561863
OGPT Version 19: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=2611190
OGPT Version 20: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=2660143
OGPT Version 21:http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=2747044
OGPT Version 22 (current) : http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=2776545

******* vs. AMOG vs. AFC (Bleachednblonde) Post #221: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=1529791&page=6
Basic Game (Bleachednblonde) Post #368: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...529791&page=10
Friend Trap (Bleachednblonde) Post #487: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...529791&page=13
Kiss-Close (t_mo) Post #827: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...529791&page=21
Basic Game (Other Webforum) Post #986-987: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...529791&page=25
Confidence (The Dread Pirate) Post #1364: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...529791&page=35
Basic Game (TuckerMax.com) Post #1402; 1404: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...529791&page=36
Group Theory (Bleachednblonde) Post #63: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=1691845&page=2
Physical Contact/Kino (Bleachednblonde) Post #662: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...691845&page=17
Step-by-step Game (t_mo) Post #787: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...691845&page=20
3 Quick Pointers (Bleachednblonde) Post #817: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...691845&page=21
More General Advice (Bleachednblonde) Post #824: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...691845&page=21
Grabbing the Rebound (Bleachednblonde) Post #1772: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...691845&page=45
Ideas For Dates (Bleachednblonde) Post #127: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=1773113&page=4
Pickup=Engineering (Bleachednblonde) Post #275: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=1773113&page=7
Best Analysis Ever/Escalate Flirting (Bleachednblonde) Post #358: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=1773113&page=9
Dating (t_mo) Post #538: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=14
Beginner's Guide to Game (TuckerMax.com- no registration required) http://messageboard.tuckermax.com/showthread.php?t=1260
Approaching/Signals (Bleachednblonde) Post #909: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=23
Cocky/Funny (Nips) Post #993: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=25
Confidense/Cocky/Funny vs. Arrogance (Bleachednblonde) Post #1215: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=31
Newbie Mission (Harlequin) Post #1237: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=31
IOI List (mysterymethod.com- registration required) http://www.mysterymethod.com/forum/s...&highlight=IOI
Cocky/Funny and Calibration (Bobeo) Post #1337: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=34
Kiss-Close (t_mo) Post #1386: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=35
Pick-up Timeline (Bleachednblonde) Post #1413: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=36
Confidence/Body Language (Bobeo) Post #1558: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=39
One Night Stands (Bleachednblonde) Post#1781: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=45
Boyfriend Destroyers (Tyler Durden@ mysterymethod.com- registration required): http://www.mysterymethod.com/forum/showthread.php?t=96
Signs/Lack of Signs (Bleachednblonde) Post #1994: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=50


PUA Required Reading

*These are torrents meaning that you are downloading them illegally. Download them, and if you find them helpful, as I did, go ahead and pay for them . They aren't very expensive and they are worth it.*

The Game, Neil Strauss:

The Venusian Arts Handbook, Mystery:

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Old 07-25-2008, 03:02 AM #2
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ok question. i tried to read the bf destroyer post but it seems to be a bad link to the site(ie not found).

i just recently started hanging out with this chick the past week. i met her though a car club and we would briefly talk at gtg's but recently she started to hang out with me. now after the first day i met her, i found out she has a bf so i automatically avoided her since i figured she was off limits. she then struck up conversations about hanging out and everything, so i just went along with it. the other day i briefly brought up the topic of her bf and she was definitely not excited to talk about him. she was giving me short answers about how he is being a d-bag and a jerk and quickly changed the subject.

now im usualy not the one to try and steal a girl from her bf, but this may be a different case. it seems as though we're hitting it off pretty well. i every now and then throw a very slight sexual innuendo or comment to her and she always give me the "what are you trying to say?" and gives me a smirk(only happened twice so far). shes a cool chick and would be a good friend, but id prefer to stay out of the friend's zone with this one.

what do you guys think? we're working on her car for a couple hours tomorrow then we're going swimming at a car gtg on monday. should i just spit more game to her or should i make an actual move/casually ask her out? ive never had to deal with this situation before.
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Old 07-25-2008, 03:29 AM #3
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how old are you? If she is so willing to give up her current boyfriend what makes you think she won't just dump you after you're all used up?
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Old 07-25-2008, 03:34 AM #4
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First of all, don't "spit" anything at her.

I would say, until the pros move in, to stay back in the sense of asking her out and such. Hang out and feel it out, but not for too long because the friend zone hits. If she really is upset with her boyfriend maybe encourage the break up slightly. But that whole issue is touchy anyway you look at it.

SOB is also correct, witch might happen.
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Old 07-25-2008, 03:34 AM #5
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You never mess with another mans woman seriously or else you'll end up fooling around with her one night and then get your *** beat the next after she tells him what she did with you.
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how old are you? If she is so willing to give up her current boyfriend what makes you think she won't just dump you after you're all used up?
im 20, shes 19. and thats my thinking too, which is why i usually avoid those girls.

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First of all, don't "spit" anything at her.

I would say, until the pros move in, to stay back in the sense of asking her out and such. Hang out and feel it out, but not for too long because the friend zone hits. If she really is upset with her boyfriend maybe encourage the break up slightly. But that whole issue is touchy anyway you look at it.

SOB is also correct, witch might happen.
ya im not gonna move in on her too strong. this whole thing seems a little sketch to me, but it could just be that its a new situation for me. ill just take it easy and play it by ear...its not like i have anything to lose.
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You never mess with another mans woman seriously or else you'll end up fooling around with her one night and then get your *** beat the next after she tells him what she did with you.
thats something id have to be fully prepared for since i would be deserving it haha
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Old 07-25-2008, 03:54 AM #8
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She probably just got in a fight with her bf, but she will probably go back to him. I would stay away from her if I were you. If you have to, explain to her that you don't want to do anything with her while she has a boyfriend.
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ya thats probably the wise thing to do. id hate to be labelled as a douche so ill just lay off.
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**** that, don't lay off. hang out and stuff, but make yourself randomly unavailable so you're not around all the time.

and you can maybe expect **** from the ex, it just depends on the guy. just don't steal her and use her, not saying you would, but thats the worst.
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im thinking a hookah bar would be a hit or miss as a first date. it could be a lot of fun but the girl may not be into smoking.

but yeah after reading the posts linked on this first page yet again, ive noticed the "signals" from the girl i kinda like (she is a fatty but i like fatties, they are fun to touch and squeeze, idgaf lol) she sits accross from me in our training class and constantly keeps looking up, staring at me, and smiling. so this is a very good sign.
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Shes probably invisioning your head as a roasted chicken. DO NOT WANT.
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so im getting married really really soon
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Even we can help you with that.

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im thinking a hookah bar would be a hit or miss as a first date. it could be a lot of fun but the girl may not be into smoking.

but yeah after reading the posts linked on this first page yet again, ive noticed the "signals" from the girl i kinda like (she is a fatty but i like fatties, they are fun to touch and squeeze, idgaf lol) she sits accross from me in our training class and constantly keeps looking up, staring at me, and smiling. so this is a very good sign.
I wouldn't do Hookah Bar. But Goooooood luck

Let's hope she's down.

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Just remember...if she's willing to break up with him for you...she'll be just as willing to break up with you for someone else.
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I think that since you don't know the boyfriend, you should lay off. Maybe if he was a cock to you then that'd be different. For all you know, this guy could be cool as **** and just have a ****ty twat of a girlfriend.
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Shes probably invisioning your head as a roasted chicken. DO NOT WANT.
lol no not really. im being quite myself now so even if its just to make sure im not falling asleep im happy because i feel very liberated openly being myself.
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I love it on SB, transfering to sbcc and I'll live in Isla vista. So many hot girls
yeah the girls factor does play a big role in how much you like a place.
apparently down in irvine its all asians. sometimes i have the yellow fever

but right now i have fat fever. im okay with that because the fatties i do like are usually the really cute fatties, like if they lost weight it would be a 50-50 of them being gorgeous or just look starved.

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