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Old 11-09-2007, 02:10 AM #1
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*Official* GIRL THREAD (Problems, Advice, etc)

I'm tired of all your threads.

From now on please post your problem here and wait for an answer.

The Dread Pirate's edit:

I've posted a very good write-up on developing "game" if you have none. It was too long to edit into here, so just click the link and read it.
http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...4#post23173234



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*Attention Read*

Some mentioned this on Page 1 and I think it would be a great idea. They said something about compiling a FAQ of the best posts. I don't think that would be a half bad idea.

So from now on I propose that if you think a post should be highlighted, as sort of a basic thing to know for anyone visiting this thread, let me know. I will edit this post with that post.

If you think this is a good idea, of course.

OK, PM me with link and post # if you want something submitted.

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*Official Girl Problem Thread* Library

OGPT Version 1: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=1529791
OGPT Version 2: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=1691845
OGPT Version 3: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=1773113
OGPT Version 4: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=1859130
OGPT Version 5: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=1931543
OGPT Version 6: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=2015701
OGPT Version 7: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=2099587
OGPT Version 8: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=2174637
OGPT Version 9: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=2233592
OGPT Version 10: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=2233592
OGPT Version 11: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=2277911
OGPT Version 12: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=2313632
OGPT Version 13: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=2344037
OGPT Version 14: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=2380564
OGPT Version 15 (current): http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=2430796

******* vs. AMOG vs. AFC (Bleachednblonde) Post #221: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=1529791&page=6
Basic Game (Bleachednblonde) Post #368: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...529791&page=10
Friend Trap (Bleachednblonde) Post #487: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...529791&page=13
Kiss-Close (t_mo) Post #827: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...529791&page=21
Basic Game (Other Webforum) Post #986-987: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...529791&page=25
Confidence (The Dread Pirate) Post #1364: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...529791&page=35
Basic Game (TuckerMax.com) Post #1402; 1404: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...529791&page=36
Group Theory (Bleachednblonde) Post #63: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=1691845&page=2
Physical Contact/Kino (Bleachednblonde) Post #662: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...691845&page=17
Step-by-step Game (t_mo) Post #787: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...691845&page=20
3 Quick Pointers (Bleachednblonde) Post #817: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...691845&page=21
More General Advice (Bleachednblonde) Post #824: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...691845&page=21
Grabbing the Rebound (Bleachednblonde) Post #1772: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...691845&page=45
Ideas For Dates (Bleachednblonde) Post #127: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=1773113&page=4
Pickup=Engineering (Bleachednblonde) Post #275: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=1773113&page=7
Best Analysis Ever/Escalate Flirting (Bleachednblonde) Post #358: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.php?t=1773113&page=9
Dating (t_mo) Post #538: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=14
Beginner's Guide to Game (TuckerMax.com- no registration required) http://messageboard.tuckermax.com/showthread.php?t=1260
Approaching/Signals (Bleachednblonde) Post #909: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=23
Cocky/Funny (Nips) Post #993: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=25
Confidense/Cocky/Funny vs. Arrogance (Bleachednblonde) Post #1215: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=31
Newbie Mission (Harlequin) Post #1237: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=31
IOI List (mysterymethod.com- registration required) http://www.mysterymethod.com/forum/s...&highlight=IOI
Cocky/Funny and Calibration (Bobeo) Post #1337: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=34
Kiss-Close (t_mo) Post #1386: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=35
Pick-up Timeline (Bleachednblonde) Post #1413: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=36
Confidence/Body Language (Bobeo) Post #1558: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=39
One Night Stands (Bleachednblonde) Post#1781: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=45
Boyfriend Destroyers (Tyler Durden@ mysterymethod.com- registration required): http://www.mysterymethod.com/forum/showthread.php?t=96
Signs/Lack of Signs (Bleachednblonde) Post #1994: http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...773113&page=50


PUA Required Reading

*These are torrents meaning that you are downloading them illegally. Download them, and if you find them helpful, as I did, go ahead and pay for them . They aren't very expensive and they are worth it.*

The Game, Neil Strauss:

The Venusian Arts Handbook, Mystery:

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Old 11-09-2007, 02:25 AM #2
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Old 11-09-2007, 05:53 AM #3
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Old 11-09-2007, 12:17 PM #5
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see i cant really tell how much she liked me after last night. so playin it safe and waiting til i see her again would be the best option?
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Old 11-09-2007, 12:49 PM #7
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see i cant really tell how much she liked me after last night. so playin it safe and waiting til i see her again would be the best option?
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I think you should. I mean why wait? but I guess that's just me...
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text her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Wait hold on-

If these guys are saying get a number from a friend and text her- don't do that. What are you some kind of a creepy pedophile?

Better yet wait till you see her in person. This isn't 7th grade anymore, you know?
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Old 11-09-2007, 01:22 PM #8
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so you say in this situation, as opposed to most other ones, sit back and dont be the dominant one or anything? and idk when i will see her again anyway, it may not be for another three weeks. does this make a difference?
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Old 11-09-2007, 02:21 PM #9
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No, that's not what I'm saying. If you wanted to be dominant, you would have already had her number, but since that isn't the case, you kind of missed the train so wait until you see her again. It's really immature if you get her number from a friend. She may be happy at first, but I guarantee you will not last long with her. I say wait 3 weeks. Plus, she's just another girl.
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Old 11-09-2007, 03:35 PM #10
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so you say in this situation, as opposed to most other ones, sit back and dont be the dominant one or anything? and idk when i will see her again anyway, it may not be for another three weeks. does this make a difference?
if you get that vibe from her that she likes you, then its no problem getting her number from a friend. if she likes you, let her know your willing to try.

now for my problem- my girl is starting to think she is on the upper hand of our relationship... i was gonna go out and party at my friends house tonight and she and i agreed we wanted to do something tonight so i asked my friend and said she can come. i told her this and now she is giving me a idk yet ill tell you in about an hour stuff. i know this is hard to understand but whats a way of telling a girl you will not be on the lower hand of the relationship without looking like an ***?
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if you get that vibe from her that she likes you, then its no problem getting her number from a friend. if she likes you, let her know your willing to try.

now for my problem- my girl is starting to think she is on the upper hand of our relationship... i was gonna go out and party at my friends house tonight and she and i agreed we wanted to do something tonight so i asked my friend and said she can come. i told her this and now she is giving me a idk yet ill tell you in about an hour stuff. i know this is hard to understand but whats a way of telling a girl you will not be on the lower hand of the relationship without looking like an ***?
That's exactly your issue.
You give that piece of advice and yet you have a problem based on the fact that you give the girl the upper hand.
It's extremely ironic.

You should be playing your game so SHE will have to try to get YOU not the other way around.

In your case it's best to show it in action. It seems like you already had plans to hang out. So she got the vibe that she's doing something with you and not you and all your friends.
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Old 11-09-2007, 04:26 PM #12
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hmm i see tiger. basically my ******* missed the oppurtunity =/ o well, no biggy. there will be more.
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so me and this girl hooked up like 4 weeks ago and last saturday

we both hooked up with other people in between

after saturday one of her friends told me to ask her out because she likes me

we've been tlaking on the fone like practically every night since saturday

i really want to ask her out

tonight shes going to a fotoblal game and some kid is going to be there, who i know probably wants to hook up with her.

i have no idea what to do.

i really am starting to like her

advice? hurry! thanks!

edit: hooking up meaning kissing and making out, not sex

edit 2: haha, i was thinking about aksing her out today, but we barely tlaked today, not as much as like this past week like every minute.. maybe she wants to hook up with this kid tonight. i need advice! thanks
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Old 11-09-2007, 04:48 PM #14
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also, we already have plans for tommorrow night to hang out, if that matters. thanks
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well are you sure she wants to hook up with this kid? if she does, then forget about her cause it will probably be like that the whole relationship. if not, ask her out soon. this kid may be a horn dog, but if she likes you enough, nothing will happen.

or you can just go to the game too...
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You kinda made it sound like she's slobbing on everyone's knob. But in the case that she's not a full blown whore bag, ask her out.
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well are you sure she wants to hook up with this kid? if she does, then forget about her cause it will probably be like that the whole relationship. if not, ask her out soon. this kid may be a horn dog, but if she likes you enough, nothing will happen.

or you can just go to the game too...
i cant, we have a game tommorrow and theres a curfew. im not SURE she wants to hook up with this kid, but theres a possibility

edit: iom pretty sure when i was with her my friend made ajoke to her and her friend about this kid, and they said they wouldn't ever hu with him.. this may sound awkward hes a good looking kid, hes about 4 feet tall though. turn off for her.. but she could always be lying.. i know she likes me..but if this kid makes a move, you never know what could happen..

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You kinda made it sound like she's slobbing on everyone's knob. But in the case that she's not a full blown whore bag, ask her out.
hahahahahahaha, nah, shes not like that.. likkeher friend wants me to ask her out but she hasn't talked to me about it since like monday.. and im not gonna ask her about it
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When you do ask her out, don't say the middle school, "will you go out with me?" crap. Tell her your doin something at a certain time and ask (or better yet tell her) that she is coming. Dont worry about the other kid either. Act like your the **** and you know it. No one is better than you.
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hmmm well there really isnt much you can do about it at this point. you just gotta let things work their way i guess and hope nothin goes down.
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When you do ask her out, don't say the middle school, "will you go out with me?" crap. Tell her your doin something at a certain time and ask (or better yet tell her) that she is coming. Dont worry about the other kid either. Act like your the **** and you know it. No one is better than you.
i kinda know what your saying, but on the other hand, we invite each other places all the time.. like thats not official

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hmmm well there really isnt much you can do about it at this point. you just gotta let things work their way i guess and hope nothin goes down.
ur exactly right.. this whole day has been weird, like the whole week like whenever we sign off of aim or finish texting or like start texting were like ilu!!! but like today it wasn't like that. and we barely talked the whole day.. she called me for like 5 minutes at around 1:00, then she had to go out to eat with her friend (which she didn't know about) who was like outside waiting for her. she told me that she would text me right then and there, and she didn't, then i was stupid and texted her like around 2;00 . when i shoulda waited for her it was only around like ten texts. and hten we just stopped talking.. should i text her now? the game starts at 7, she MIGHT be there already, its a big game, but i doubt shes there already..
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