[deliverer of oreo]

Originally Posted by Bleachednblonde

I"m so busy with classes i don't really have alot of time for anything else. Were getting down to the last 4 weeks of the semester and i have alot of projects and exams.

Pretty much just been using the same lineup. Casual 3-somes with the two bondage girls, and then the two usuals that i've been hooking up with most of the semester. However this weekend my roommates cousin and her friends are comming to visit and go out drinking with us and one of them is very hot. So maybe i'll mix in a 1 night stand if i can.

Ever find out who that person that broke into your house was?

[t_mo (Banned)]

Originally Posted by blaker615

i know this isnt a relationship problem but it still deals with girls. i liked this girl in the past but i was AFC and it didnt workout but i moved on to other girls when i realized i was too much of a chump.now she wont even talk to me because she says im an *** and whenever ppl talk about me shes like eww dont say his name. but when i talk to her she is fake and acts all buddy buddy. how do i just maintain a friendship with a girl who im not inerested in at all.

Well she obviously knew that you liked her and relished that fact. When she figured out that you didnt like her anymore, she got mad. So now that you are under her skin its a perfect time to act, the reason she acts normal towards you when she is around you is because she in fact does like you and wants you to like her. But when she isnt around you she talks **** about you because she wants everyone to think that she hates you.

What you should do is take her out, you liked her at one point so she cant be that bad.

"I have heard that you hate me from other people, so to change that I decided we should get together so you can get to know me."

my $0.02

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Originally Posted by deliverer of oreo

Ever find out who that person that broke into your house was?

I have a sneaking suspicion. Infact i'm like 95% sure i know who it is. I just can't prove it.

[Bobeo]

Very nice t_mo. Sounds like a great plan.

Anyways, I have foudn that the most important thing to getting girls is to be confident. Control the frame of the situation. Humans are subject to suggestion. Therefore, simply by acting confidently, people will believe that you are in fact "somebody" beacuse you have this confidence. OK, now tha tthe theory is out of the way.

I have found 3 simple, easy things you can do that will make you appear more confident to anyone you meet. These are very small, and with nothing else will probably not amount to much of anything but it is a good starting spot.

1. FIX YOUR POSTURE! Don't slouch. When walking, show off your muscular physique. Suck in your beer belly and puff out your chest (within reason). Throw your shoulders back. It makes your shoulders appear larger (a good thing). Walk the walk. Now this is all within reason. Don't be obnoxious about it but I think if you have any sense at all you will know the limits.


2. Never let your eyes wander to the floor. Never! When walking, your eyes should always be up at eye level. Make eye contact with everyone. Guess what kind of people walk with their eyes on the floor at my school. The band nerds (sorry if anyone is in band- just an example). Guess who walks with their eyes up at everyone in the halls. The jocks. If your eyes are down you are just giving off the vibe that you were made to be ignored. Get those eyes up.

I personally have a problem with this. Sometimes while walking I will find my eyes on the floor. Old habits die hard right? Just make a game out of it. Make a concious effort to NOT do this and everntually the good habit will become habit.

3. Smile when entering a room. When people see you, you want to be viewed as someone who is fun to be around. Don't be a grouch.

See the best thing about these three things is this is not PUA advice. This is just advice on how to make your confidense level higher. That can affect hundreds of different thigs- not just your ability to attract women.

Once again, while these three are very small and will not completely redefine your personality to your peers, they are some things that you can easily change about yourself.

By the way, I haven't been around PBN lately because school is kicking my ***. 4 AP classes in my senior year is much too much. After this week though I have a couple of long term things clearing up so I can see the light at the end of the tunnel

[paintballnewbie123]

ok i am gunna look like a idiot saying this but i would rather be an idiot now than when it happens........i am 13 and have had girlfriends and little crushes and stuff like that and have kissed a girl but never made out with her......*technically* what is making out? and how do u do it? lol sry and thnx for the help

[Bobeo]

Dude, making out is just passionately kissing. Or, in easier terms to understand, you STICK YOUR TONGUE DOWN HER THROAT!

Seriously though, it comes naturally. It isn't something you have to learn, so don't worry abou it.

[12345421]

Originally Posted by Bobeo

Very nice t_mo. Sounds like a great plan.

Anyways, I have foudn that the most important thing to getting girls is to be confident. Control the frame of the situation. Humans are subject to suggestion. Therefore, simply by acting confidently, people will believe that you are in fact "somebody" beacuse you have this confidence. OK, now tha tthe theory is out of the way.

I have found 3 simple, easy things you can do that will make you appear more confident to anyone you meet. These are very small, and with nothing else will probably not amount to much of anything but it is a good starting spot.

1. FIX YOUR POSTURE! Don't slouch. When walking, show off your muscular physique. Suck in your beer belly and puff out your chest (within reason). Throw your shoulders back. It makes your shoulders appear larger (a good thing). Walk the walk. Now this is all within reason. Don't be obnoxious about it but I think if you have any sense at all you will know the limits.


2. Never let your eyes wander to the floor. Never! When walking, your eyes should always be up at eye level. Make eye contact with everyone. Guess what kind of people walk with their eyes on the floor at my school. The band nerds (sorry if anyone is in band- just an example). Guess who walks with their eyes up at everyone in the halls. The jocks. If your eyes are down you are just giving off the vibe that you were made to be ignored. Get those eyes up.

I personally have a problem with this. Sometimes while walking I will find my eyes on the floor. Old habits die hard right? Just make a game out of it. Make a concious effort to NOT do this and everntually the good habit will become habit.

3. Smile when entering a room. When people see you, you want to be viewed as someone who is fun to be around. Don't be a grouch.

See the best thing about these three things is this is not PUA advice. This is just advice on how to make your confidense level higher. That can affect hundreds of different thigs- not just your ability to attract women.

Once again, while these three are very small and will not completely redefine your personality to your peers, they are some things that you can easily change about yourself.

By the way, I haven't been around PBN lately because school is kicking my ***. 4 AP classes in my senior year is much too much. After this week though I have a couple of long term things clearing up so I can see the light at the end of the tunnel

I have the same problem with looking at the floor. I did it all through middleschool because my confidence level was zero so I'm still trying to break the habit.

[komodo_117]

Originally Posted by paintballnewbie123

ok i am gunna look like a idiot saying this but i would rather be an idiot now than when it happens........i am 13 and have had girlfriends and little crushes and stuff like that and have kissed a girl but never made out with her......*technically* what is making out? and how do u do it? lol sry and thnx for the help

Well, just to boost your confidence:

Im going to be 17 at the end of November here. Had a total of 0 actual girlfreinds in my life. A lot of "flings" if you will, and lots of kind of "attempts", but never anything that could actually qualify as a relationship of any kind. Therefore, I've never kissed a girl, other than the cheek peck, or stupid things like that. Never an actual full on, more than a second long kiss on the lips.

And what's terrifying? I now have a date Sunday with the previously mention girl, 2 pages back. She just so happens to be one of those who kind of expects a nice long romantic kiss on a first date. So, now I have no clue wtf I am going to do. Nothing I really CAN do, except just let it happen. If it sucks, it sucks, and I have to explain that this stuff is still new to me. If it doesnt suck, Ill probally **** myself, then proceed to make out with her like there was no tommorow.

But yea...dont worry if you've never really made out before. Hopefully, it should just come natural.

Any good tips though for kissing? Im not sure if that subject has been covered in either thread yet.

[Danegerous]

Alright, I have a problem with my ex. We broke up for some reason that really hasn't been specified, mostly due to my just trying to hard. So we broke up, and we talk a bit, and when I tell her that it all feels wrong that we broke up and that i still had feelings for her she admitted that she felt the same way. A week after that though, her parents sent her to montana to live with her grandparents. She had said the reason was grades, but a few days ago told me her parents had done so because 1) they were sick of her being so sad after we broke up and 2) her first boyfriend ahd shown up in their neighborhood and had tried to make up with her.

I guess i'm a fool for dwelling on the issue for so long (it's been a few months since we broke up), but I just can't get over it. We had talked about possibly getting married and all, and I still have hopes that we could make up if we were together again.

So, honestly, should i just give up on it all, despite the fact that she's one of my best friends, or what?

[12345421]

Originally Posted by Danegerous

Alright, I have a problem with my ex. We broke up for some reason that really hasn't been specified, mostly due to my just trying to hard. So we broke up, and we talk a bit, and when I tell her that it all feels wrong that we broke up and that i still had feelings for her she admitted that she felt the same way. A week after that though, her parents sent her to montana to live with her grandparents. She had said the reason was grades, but a few days ago told me her parents had done so because 1) they were sick of her being so sad after we broke up and 2) her first boyfriend ahd shown up in their neighborhood and had tried to make up with her.

I guess i'm a fool for dwelling on the issue for so long (it's been a few months since we broke up), but I just can't get over it. We had talked about possibly getting married and all, and I still have hopes that we could make up if we were together again.

So, honestly, should i just give up on it all, despite the fact that she's one of my best friends, or what?

Do what Bleach said a few pages back. Sleep with 10 other girls and then if you still want this girl back, go for it. Personally it sounds like she made up the stuff I highlighted in red.

[***************]

ok, hear me i am a 14 year old.. K there is a girl i like and pretty sure she knows it, but i dont know if she likes me, is there a way to tell with out saying " do you like me"?

[Danegerous]

Originally Posted by 12345421

Do what Bleach said a few pages back. Sleep with 10 other girls and then if you still want this girl back, go for it. Personally it sounds like she made up the stuff I highlighted in red.

Yeah, i see what you're saying. I don't need to sleep with 10 other girls to know that we could have been something special together, but I feel miserable that there's no chance of us getting back together in the forseeable future.

[Danegerous]

Originally Posted by ***************

ok, hear me i am a 14 year old.. K there is a girl i like and pretty sure she knows it, but i dont know if she likes me, is there a way to tell with out saying " do you like me"?

as you walk by her in school, try to catch her eye. If she smiles at you, chances are she likes you. If she doesn't smile it doesn't mean she doesn't likes you.

[***************]

like today is one cals our eyes met like 13 times, but our halls are to small for your idea but thx

[12345421]

Originally Posted by Danegerous

Yeah, i see what you're saying. I don't need to sleep with 10 other girls to know that we could have been something special together, but I feel miserable that there's no chance of us getting back together in the forseeable future.

You don't know this for sure until you've slept with 10 other girls. You're young a hormones play a massive part in everything.

Originally Posted by ***************

like today is one cals our eyes met like 13 times, but our halls are to small for your idea but thx

Lol, you counted.

[***************]

no it was a estimate *hint * the LIKE *unhint* plus i alwasy use thirteen its my baseball number

[felicityrose]

Originally Posted by paintballnewbie123

ok i am gunna look like a idiot saying this but i would rather be an idiot now than when it happens........i am 13 and have had girlfriends and little crushes and stuff like that and have kissed a girl but never made out with her......*technically* what is making out? and how do u do it? lol sry and thnx for the help

1) Type like a human.
2) Making out is basically tonsil hockey with a couple of roving hands thrown in here and there. No clothes are removed, and any sort of sexual organ is left untouched (unless brushed against by accident). And usually it's never an accident.

[Jae.C]

Gahhh, why doesn't anyone learn that it doesn't matter if she likes you or not? Regardless of the age, it should never matter.

By the way, this song's lyrics are almost a perfect example of what you should be like.

He's a prick, he's a cock
The type woman want to be with

(the lyric "sentence" doesn't end, but the ending is irrelevent)

Don't take what it says in a literal way. Being a prick, he means not being a nice guy, and by being a cock, it's being cocky.

[Goopunch]

Ok, I got a pretty unique up situation here...
Well, I guess I'm a Jock and a pretty popular guy at school. I'm friends with everyone and a standout in my sport. People nominate me for dances and senior polls and ****. And a ****load of girls at my school think im hot, and I'm not exaggerating or bragging when i say a ****load. Every day some new girl tells me so, or i hear from friends etc. Now, these are not fugly beasts either, these are like the hottest girls in school, who I have always considered untouchable i guess.
Now here come the kicker, I'm 17, 18 in a few months, and I've never had a girlfriend, and even worse, I've never even kissed a girl at all. Not even close. Everyone is always on my ***, punking me about it, and asking me why I don't have a girlfriend, and my excuse is that I'm too focused on my sport (which is partly true). You'd think that having the pick of almost any girl i want would make me more confident, but it has only made me more scared of pursuing girls in a relationship. It's gotten so bad that people joke around that I might be gay, yeah you think its funny i know but it actually facking sucks!!! I see so many girls that i think are beautiful and funny and all around great girls that i know wouldnt turn me down if i asked them out, but for some reason i cant get the balls to do it. I've pretty much dug myself a hole that i dont have the balls to dig myself out of

[screamin_nuts]

wow i jus totally botched up askin this girl out.


oh well i got her anyways. :]

[felicityrose]

Originally Posted by Goopunch

Ok, I got a pretty unique up situation here... [...] I've pretty much dug myself a hole that i dont have the balls to dig myself out of

Hey dude... don't kick yourself in the ***. It's totally OK if you have never dated whilst in high school. I have a very good friend (who's a really great guy) that didn't start dating until college... he's in a relationship now and (as far as I know) doing great. Your position is unique because of your popularity, and girls see you as some sort of unattainable - an excellent place for you.

That being said, is there any particular girl that stands out to you above the rest? This would be your first "conquest". If you can have a conversation with her, then it shouldn't be a problem to ask her out to coffee. The best way to do that is strike up a convo after school (I'm assuming you have a car)... talk to the girl, and say that you have to run some errands, but if she'd like to continue the convo at Starbucks (or wherever you crazy kids hang out these days)... and there's your date. If the convo continues to go well, that's when you ask if she'd "like to grab some dinner this weekend"...

Keep in mind that girls are probably fighting to get your attention. Just go with your gut and everything will fall into place. Good luck