[t_mo (Banned)]

Originally Posted by Crazdelight

..... so play it cool and take a chance? I have bad luck..

There is no such thing as luck.

Just chillax and everything will fall into place. I promise.

[t_mo (Banned)]

Originally Posted by bacon03

Alright, well this girl who has her locker next to mine has this hot friend. Her hot friend always comes up to her and talks to her while she's at her locker.

I would like to get to know her friend...any ways to spark up a conversation when she comes over and talks to the girl whose locker is next to mine?

(i am hammered so take this for what it is worth)

well if i was next to a girl that had a hot friend first thing I would say is "you havent introduced me to you friend" then you have a contact.

if you want to go hardcore, then say
"umm, i dont want to be mean but you have something on your shirt"
"hey I saw you at (insert place), im gonna take you out to (insert trashy place)
"hey your outfit looks really nice today, where did you get it?"

thats all i got

[cookie123]

Alright, I recently met this girl and after I met her, she gave me her myspace/phone number/SN. so I have been talking to her, and really like her. but I haven't hung out with her a lot just talked to her online (I didnt meet her online) And I really seem to like her. but I feel I am falling into the "bff" category and not relationship. you know how it is, where you become "one of the girls" And I really dont want that to happen. but she doesnt seem to act a lot like she likes me like that, what do i do? how do I tell

[t_mo (Banned)]

Originally Posted by cookie123

Alright, I recently met this girl and after I met her, she gave me her myspace/phone number/SN. so I have been talking to her, and really like her. but I haven't hung out with her a lot just talked to her online (I didnt meet her online) And I really seem to like her. but I feel I am falling into the "bff" category and not relationship. you know how it is, where you become "one of the girls" And I really dont want that to happen. but she doesnt seem to act a lot like she likes me like that, what do i do? how do I tell

Well you are talking to her to much. more so than causal conversation.

stop talking to he and do your own thing, dont get so hung up on her.

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

I must say i'm relativly proud of this... i pulled off an S&M 3-some with 2 girls tonight

[satamusic]

S&M

didnt know there was some fetish members on here

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Originally Posted by satamusic

S&M

didnt know there was some fetish members on here

Well there's alot of differnt types of S&M. We don't like dress up in black leather and chain each other to things.

[satamusic]

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Originally Posted by satamusic

well the one girl is my favorite with S&M. She's a hardcore masochist... likes to be tied at the hands and ankles and get spanked and whipped during sex... hair pulling too. Actually, she likes to be forced to do things. The other girl just kind came into the mix as "curious." she turned out to be a sadist like me. Better?

[satamusic]

much better!

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Originally Posted by satamusic

much better!

yea except she has a boyfriend... and she has my hand marks all over her ***. lol

[satamusic]

im sure that any fetish/s&m liking girl's boyfriend must have to understand that fun = more than 2.

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Originally Posted by satamusic

im sure that any fetish/s&m liking girl's boyfriend must have to understand that fun = more than 2.

He's in the military, pretty conservative... i don't think he'd understand S&M... more so i don't think he has a clue that she's into it.

[satamusic]

so whats her alibi? she itched and scratched too harD?

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Originally Posted by satamusic

so whats her alibi? she itched and scratched too harD?

she's just not gonna take her pants off for a day or two. But the other girl put some nail marks in her back... i dunno how she's gonna explain that one

[satamusic]

omg. you guys went to a dungeon.

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Originally Posted by satamusic

omg. you guys went to a dungeon.

Fingernail marks... she was stratching her back when they were fooling around. And no dungeon... we were in her condo... bedroom and then somehow the kitchen.

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Originally Posted by Astronomer Sol

Oh, OK. I was the one confused...

It sucks that they're so darn hot, though.

Okay dude lets get you on the fast track to fixing your problems here. Bobeo is completly right. Confidence is going to be your sole key. Now i know your sitting there thinking, "okay i can't just GET confidence out of the blue" And you're right, you have to work for it CONFIDENCE AND COCKY ARE EARNED, ARROGANCE IS NOT First we have to get to the root of your problem. Lack of confidence is fear. And fear, at it's basic root is simply feeling unprepared to handle a situation. So ask yourself, what about women do you feel unprepared about? You're looks, you're social skills? Narrow it down and work on improving those. There's a simple fix to just about anything... not happy with how you look, you'd be amazed what a new hair cut, a tan and some gym time will do. Not confident with your social skills? Simply practice having improtu conversations with people you don't know.

Okay once you fixed that, don't expect any miracles. you should feel better but you won't magically have gained confidence. there's a leap of faith involved here, you've just narrowed that gap a little to feel the best you possibly can about it. Next, you're just gonna force yourself into situations with women where you're forced to sink or swim. Walk up to a woman and start talking! The first few times you may sink like a rock, but that's the learning curve! KEEP AT IT. Once you've learned to swim, you'll be amazed at the confidence boost. Then keep work on improvment

Originally Posted by Blackdog455

ok well the girl i like just got home from spending the day with one of my "friends" at his house. I asked nicely cause i was curious of what they did together. So i asked and all she said was "we just hung out at his house for awhile."

it hurt to read that but do you think it means anything?

Let's talk a little about jealousy. IGNORANCE IS BLISS! Don't ask her what she's doing with another guy. You will never get over jealousy until you first stop ACTING jealous. Changing your actions is step one... eventually a change in your actions will lead to a change in your habits which will lead to a change in how you feel!

Besides that, asking her what she did simply makes you look like a tool. It makes you look insecure and inferior.

Could "ah we just hung out" mean something? Yea but anything she said could mean something, "eh not much" could mean something. IT DOESN"T MATTER... because you're not going to prode her for anymore inforation.

Originally Posted by cornhead

i have girl issues. i aksed this girl out a month or two ago and she turned me down. i wasnt really friends with her when i asked her, just kinda runshed into it. anyways i still like her and were getting to be good friends but she thinks im over her. what should i do here?

Well she wasn't interested before you were friends... and now you're in the friend trap... my advice.. you've made a great new friend, now go look for a girlfriend somewhere else.

[satamusic]

keep the friend, get a girlfriend, then get together in Bleachednblonde's S&M Dungeon

[p8ntballr1125]

Im going to my HS football game tonight with this girl. Im not really sure if she likes me or not. Should I try and make a move or what?

[Bobeo]

Originally Posted by Bleachednblonde

I must say i'm relativly proud of this... i pulled off an S&M 3-some with 2 girls tonight

Please tell me you got pics or video