[felicityrose]

There are some guys I don't mind flirting with, because we've already reached the friend zone and it's all in good fun. I try very hard not to flirt with men to lead them on, because it's gotten me in very bad situations before. I learned that the hard way; many girls (unfortunately) do.

[komodo_117]

Originally Posted by fireisgood4u

Trend in here is that people think just because a girl flirts she's interested. Not true, girls love to flirt and flaunt themselves. So if she starts flirting after a 'Lets just be friends' don't think she's suddenly changed her mind. Since you probably just said 'Oh ok' she can flirt with you now guilt free since you're just friends.

I'm still all angsty over one chick...and it's pissing me off. I just feel kind used and that I got nothing out the whole thing.(Two years niceguy) I've completly figured her out etc. I'm still hoping for something out of it. She gave me a 'I can see us together, just not now... I'm not ready to date.'(recent breakup of 1 year BF) I instantly saw it as a lie and a selfish last ditch attempt to keep me around. I just drifted away from her. Two weeks later and she's 'seeing' some junior.(we're seniors). Going out to some party tonight...hoping to get a number or two.

Yea, but in my case, it was more than "freind" flirting. I can kind of tell the difference a bit. Not to mention I had her effin freinds telling me that she still really liked me, and not in a "lets just be freinds" kind of way.

[IRStookmyspyder]

Ok guys, I have a serious question, should I do my gf, we have been together for about 5 months now, and I am a freshman in highschool. She wants to do it, do you think I should?

[B2KManiac]

Up to the both of you. If you two are mature, be careful and go for it. If you guys think your goin to split in a few months, i wouldnt do it. Just be safe about it.

[IRStookmyspyder]

Ya I am definatly going to be safe about it.

[Bobeo]

Hey fellas, I was brushing up on my game tonight for tomorrow and relaized this site has never been posted in this thread.

www.mysterymethod.com

Check out the forums. The place is a gold mine. This thread is great and all, but think this thread times 1000. Great place for people like myself who are trying to develop some game.

EDIT: Just came across this post. Talking about how to develop a Cocky/funny attitude.

You can practice it. Start off by memorizing stock lines and with solid inner game and practice, it will start to come naturally. I'll give some advice on developing a naturally cocky funny attitude.

First you need to ask yourself, what is a cocky and funny statement, and how can I learn to naturally think of cocky and funny statements to make?

Im sure you already know that most cocky funny statements are a humorous misinterpretation of what a girl says or does. She might give you a complement just because she is being nice, and you misinterpret it as a come-on to you.
For example,
HER:"i like your shirt"
YOU: "Wow! weve only known eachother for 10 minutes and your already trying to seduce me with complaments. Im not that easy!"

Which Im sure you already understand that. Now, your concern is about internalizing this attitude so that you can easily and naturally come up with these C&F remarks with out "looking like an idiot...standing there thinking of something funny to say".

This is where you need to begin. You should understand that the foundation for developing natural cocky and funny game is to have a solid inner game.

Before you even walk up to a woman you have to already have a solid frame set in your mind.
Your frame of mind should be something like:
1.) All woman are into you
2.) This woman your about to talk to wants you so bad that she is trying to get you to like her by giving you complements etc.
3.) You know she is going to try and win you over so you are going to tease her for her come-ons to you.(C&F)

It's a psychological fact that whatever we as humans believe to be reality, our mind will begin to find evidence in the real world to prove our beliefs to be true.
Heres an example of what im talking about. Lets say that Joe thinks that he is ugly. Every where he goes out he begins to notice people staring at him. So his mind tells him that everybody is starring at him because he is ugly. He thinks to him self "i know that person was looking at me because im ugly". When in fact, that person may have been starring at him because they liked his hairstyle. The point is that whatever we accept as out reality our brain will find real world evidence of this and convince us that it is true, even if it is not true.
So the point im trying to make with this is, that when you start to internalize the belief that ALL WOMEN WANT YOU then you will start to find REAL WORLD EVIDENCE of this and in return it makes it SO MUCH easier to think of Cocky Funny statements off the top of your head. You may be walkin in the mall and a woman looks at you and you think to your self, "oh yea she was checking me out". In the same way, if you are having a conversation with a girl and she says, "i like your shirt" your not going to say to your self "oh shes just being polite", your going to say to yourself, "whoa this chick is SO trying to get with me its not even funny". So NATURALLY, without "looking like an idiot...standing there thinking of something funny to say", your just gonna blurt out "Wow! weve only known eachother for 10 minutes and your already trying to seduce me with complements. Im not that easy!"
You say that you are a good conversationalist. I am too, thats good. The more you can get a girl talking the easier it is to find something to tease her about or misinterpret what she says as a come-on to you(C&F). Sometimes I cant catch a girl saying anything to tease her about in a C&F way. So not long ago i developed a way to set a girl up to say certain things for me to use C&F. For example the otherday i was talking online to this chick (HB9) and was using C&F relentlessly, and I was setting her up for alot of it.

I set one up like this:

ME: "if you could have any superpower, what would it be?"
(and because i knew most people say invisible i figured this would be a good time to use C&F)

HER: "um i would have to say being invisible."

ME: "oh you just want to be invisible so you can watch me get undressed without me knowing. You have such a dirty mind when you talk to sexy guys like me. You better watch it or i might have to get a restraining order against you!"

HER: " lol i cant help it :-) "

This was a good way to set it up because i knew what she was most likely gonna say and i already knew what i was going to say back. If she had said something different it wouldnt have mattered i could have just continued with the convo and probably even thought of something C&F to say of the top of my head.

Heres some last thoughts. While your at home try and think of some C&F lines you can use in certain situations and memorize them. Then go out and use them. Everytime you are listening to a girl talk try and catch her saying or doing something that you can misinterpret as a come-on to you and then tease her about it C&F style. When you are at home thinking about the girls that you talked to for that day, try and think about a time that you could have and should have used a C&F line on her and then write it down. If you do this enough you will have a good collection of stock lines. Having these with a strong frame and inner game you will start to developed it naturally.

Ive gotta stop here because i have some place i have to go. I hope this helped.


peace


-Nips

Taken from mysterymethod.com forums; "Nips"

[12345421]

Originally Posted by Nips

You can practice it. Start off by memorizing stock lines and with solid inner game and practice, it will start to come naturally. I'll give some advice on developing a naturally cocky funny attitude.

First you need to ask yourself, what is a cocky and funny statement, and how can I learn to naturally think of cocky and funny statements to make?

Im sure you already know that most cocky funny statements are a humorous misinterpretation of what a girl says or does. She might give you a complement just because she is being nice, and you misinterpret it as a come-on to you.
For example,
HER:"i like your shirt"
YOU: "Wow! weve only known eachother for 10 minutes and your already trying to seduce me with complaments. Im not that easy!"

Which Im sure you already understand that. Now, your concern is about internalizing this attitude so that you can easily and naturally come up with these C&F remarks with out "looking like an idiot...standing there thinking of something funny to say".

This is where you need to begin. You should understand that the foundation for developing natural cocky and funny game is to have a solid inner game.

Before you even walk up to a woman you have to already have a solid frame set in your mind.
Your frame of mind should be something like:
1.) All woman are into you
2.) This woman your about to talk to wants you so bad that she is trying to get you to like her by giving you complements etc.
3.) You know she is going to try and win you over so you are going to tease her for her come-ons to you.(C&F)

It's a psychological fact that whatever we as humans believe to be reality, our mind will begin to find evidence in the real world to prove our beliefs to be true.
Heres an example of what im talking about. Lets say that Joe thinks that he is ugly. Every where he goes out he begins to notice people staring at him. So his mind tells him that everybody is starring at him because he is ugly. He thinks to him self "i know that person was looking at me because im ugly". When in fact, that person may have been starring at him because they liked his hairstyle. The point is that whatever we accept as out reality our brain will find real world evidence of this and convince us that it is true, even if it is not true.
So the point im trying to make with this is, that when you start to internalize the belief that ALL WOMEN WANT YOU then you will start to find REAL WORLD EVIDENCE of this and in return it makes it SO MUCH easier to think of Cocky Funny statements off the top of your head. You may be walkin in the mall and a woman looks at you and you think to your self, "oh yea she was checking me out". In the same way, if you are having a conversation with a girl and she says, "i like your shirt" your not going to say to your self "oh shes just being polite", your going to say to yourself, "whoa this chick is SO trying to get with me its not even funny". So NATURALLY, without "looking like an idiot...standing there thinking of something funny to say", your just gonna blurt out "Wow! weve only known eachother for 10 minutes and your already trying to seduce me with complements. Im not that easy!"
You say that you are a good conversationalist. I am too, thats good. The more you can get a girl talking the easier it is to find something to tease her about or misinterpret what she says as a come-on to you(C&F). Sometimes I cant catch a girl saying anything to tease her about in a C&F way. So not long ago i developed a way to set a girl up to say certain things for me to use C&F. For example the otherday i was talking online to this chick (HB9) and was using C&F relentlessly, and I was setting her up for alot of it.

I set one up like this:

ME: "if you could have any superpower, what would it be?"
(and because i knew most people say invisible i figured this would be a good time to use C&F)

HER: "um i would have to say being invisible."

ME: "oh you just want to be invisible so you can watch me get undressed without me knowing. You have such a dirty mind when you talk to sexy guys like me. You better watch it or i might have to get a restraining order against you!"

HER: " lol i cant help it :-) "

This was a good way to set it up because i knew what she was most likely gonna say and i already knew what i was going to say back. If she had said something different it wouldnt have mattered i could have just continued with the convo and probably even thought of something C&F to say of the top of my head.

Heres some last thoughts. While your at home try and think of some C&F lines you can use in certain situations and memorize them. Then go out and use them. Everytime you are listening to a girl talk try and catch her saying or doing something that you can misinterpret as a come-on to you and then tease her about it C&F style. When you are at home thinking about the girls that you talked to for that day, try and think about a time that you could have and should have used a C&F line on her and then write it down. If you do this enough you will have a good collection of stock lines. Having these with a strong frame and inner game you will start to developed it naturally.

Ive gotta stop here because i have some place i have to go. I hope this helped.


peace


-Nips

That quote has me going crazy. It's pieced so many things together for me. Right now I've been talking to these two girls on MSN. Both are in University (and I'm 16) and one as been begging me for sex and offered to come pick me up numerous times but I'm just totally turned off by her because she has a "The world revovles around me" personality and I can't stand it, but I'm not the kind of guy to say anything. The other one is my sisters roomate in University and I had never met her but talked with her once on MSN and she was calling me casanova and that we had to meet up sometime and other strong signals that you would have to be a retard to miss. (I didn't bother with her either because my sister said she was ugly, turned out she was)

Anyway, after reading that quote from Nips I realized the difference of me between reality and MSN. On MSN I have an unwavering confidence and tell girls the first thing that pops into my head and in reality I have low confidence and over analyze every aspect to the point that I am not myself.

The main point for me saying that is that all the stuff that guys like Nips preach is actually true, and that some of us (like me) don't realize how easy it is, you just need a different mindset.

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

WOW, st has become a self sufficient resource for girl problems... i am impressed. I don't even feel the need to post here much anymore because so many people are giving the right advice! Even TheFightnnutsak!

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

and nips line about self confidence is sooo true. The bottom line is women aren't hung up on a guys looks as much as we are... as long as you're not a circus freak. I mean look these two guys are agueably the two best pickup artists in the world 2 years ago....


Neil Strauss, AKA "Style", author of the game


In the red jacket, "Mystery", Neil's mentor

What they do have, is the ability and self confidence to walk into a place with the mindset that they can have just about any woman there. When i walk into a bar i walk in KNOWING that i truly am best option there. The girl i choose to take home is LUCKY to be going home with me beceause otherwise, she'd be settling for second best (unless she goes home with my wingman!)

Until i got to the point where not only did i believe. this, i KNEW IT... but before that there was a mind trick i'd play. Listen you can spin anything in your favor if you look at it from the right angle. 80% of the guys in a club i'd rule out as tools. Then there's that other 20% who have something going. But i had to prove i was better in some way in my own mind.

That guy over there, yea he's dressed better than me and has more money... but he's in his 30's. I have youth, and have a much better sex drive than him, that's why i'd be a better choice to go home with.

That guy over there is younger than me and better looking, but i drove up in my BMW.

That guy over there is better looking, younger and richer... but i can tell he hasn't read the game or any PUA material, and i have!

Suddenly you realize that you have an edge on every guy in the club. Do this once or twice and you'll start walking into places knowing your the best option for any girl there.

[12345421]

Originally Posted by Bleachednblonde

and nips line about self confidence is sooo true. The bottom line is women aren't hung up on a guys looks as much as we are... as long as you're not a circus freak. I mean look these two guys are agueably the two best pickup artists in the world 2 years ago....


Neil Strauss, AKA "Style", author of the game


In the red jacket, "Mystery", Neil's mentor

What they do have, is the ability and self confidence to walk into a place with the mindset that they can have just about any woman there. When i walk into a bar i walk in KNOWING that i truly am best option there. The girl i choose to take home is LUCKY to be going home with me beceause otherwise, she'd be settling for second best (unless she goes home with my wingman!)

Until i got to the point where not only did i believe. this, i KNEW IT... but before that there was a mind trick i'd play. Listen you can spin anything in your favor if you look at it from the right angle. 80% of the guys in a club i'd rule out as tools. Then there's that other 20% who have something going. But i had to prove i was better in some way in my own mind.

That guy over there, yea he's dressed better than me and has more money... but he's in his 30's. I have youth, and have a much better sex drive than him, that's why i'd be a better choice to go home with.

That guy over there is younger than me and better looking, but i drove up in my BMW.

That guy over there is better looking, younger and richer... but i can tell he hasn't read the game or any PUA material, and i have!

Suddenly you realize that you have an edge on every guy in the club. Do this once or twice and you'll start walking into places knowing your the best option for any girl there.

You have a BMW and your in University.... parents rich? Or does your part-time job really bring in that much money?

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Originally Posted by 12345421

You have a BMW and your in University.... parents rich? Or does your part-time job really bring in that much money?

My parents have money, but they don't give it to me (except they pay my tuition which i am very grateful for.) But there are a couple of reasons i can affort a BMW

1) Yes our little part time "business" brings in ALOT of money. This is a great suplimental income for my roommate and i....

Here's him loadind his crotch rocket into his escalade the other day (with his hideous 24" rims that he needs to get rid of because he's not a gangsta!)



2) I am an engineering intern... engineers are in high demand and low supply in the united states which means we get paid more!
3) Mom and dad made me save soooo much money when i was a kid/teenager. I had to take a good portion of money i got for birthdays, christmas, jobs etc and put it into a mutual fund. (I hated them for this when i was a kid!!!) But let me tell you, it's nice going off to college with $35,000 + in your bank account.
4) Good credit is important.

[p8ntballr1125]

Here are some comments this girl Rachel left me in order. think she digs me? Should I ask her out?

10/27/2006 8:08 PM

ummm yo nig
i think you need to tell me
when you practices are so
i can come :]
umm yea basically our bdays
are in wat 2weeks?
so HAPPY EARLY BDAY
so im the first <3

10/27/2006 8:15 PM

umm so i m when you
finally go on aim
hooeee...
im bored and i need to tlak to you about somethign that happened
YESTERDAY!? :]
remember.rachel.loves.you <3

10/28/2006 2:23 PM

umm yea so im really bored...
and all my txts are out from last nite
and i love how you leave me
to go to your dads lol jk
Have Fun
tel me about it when you get bac :]

[12345421]

Originally Posted by p8ntballr1125

Here are some comments this girl Rachel left me in order. think she digs me? Should I ask her out?

10/27/2006 8:08 PM

ummm yo nig
i think you need to tell me
when you practices are so
i can come :]
umm yea basically our bdays
are in wat 2weeks?
so HAPPY EARLY BDAY
so im the first <3

10/27/2006 8:15 PM

umm so i m when you
finally go on aim
hooeee...
im bored and i need to tlak to you about somethign that happened
YESTERDAY!? :]
remember.rachel.loves.you <3

10/28/2006 2:23 PM

umm yea so im really bored...
and all my txts are out from last nite
and i love how you leave me
to go to your dads lol jk
Have Fun
tel me about it when you get bac :]

I read the first 3 lines... never talk to her again considering she is illiterate.

And Bleach, you are my idol. :nododgy:

[Bobeo]

Originally Posted by Bleachednblonde

WOW, st has become a self sufficient resource for girl problems... i am impressed. I don't even feel the need to post here much anymore because so many people are giving the right advice! Even TheFightnnutsak!

All thanks to you

Seriously, had this thread never come around I don't think I would be 1/100000 as well off as I am now. Thanks.

[12345421]

Originally Posted by Bobeo

All thanks to you

Seriously, had this thread never come around I don't think I would be 1/100000 as well off as I am now. Thanks.

.

[huh101]

ok so if i go to a private school with all guys is that considered gay?
also consider that the private school girls look better then black ppl so base your answer off that
and when your in a hug with a chick with a fatty piece so u try and grab or brush, or just completely ignore it?
just some opinionated ?'s

[MR. P1nK]

Originally Posted by huh101

ok so if i go to a private school with all guys is that considered gay?
also consider that the private school girls look better then black ppl so base your answer off that
and when your in a hug with a chick with a fatty piece so u try and grab or brush, or just completely ignore it?
just some opinionated ?'s

You're not funny.

[huh101]

im not trying to be funny

[12345421]

Originally Posted by huh101

ok so if i go to a private school with all guys is that considered gay?
also consider that the private school girls look better then black ppl so base your answer off that
and when your in a hug with a chick with a fatty piece so u try and grab or brush, or just completely ignore it?
just some opinionated ?'s

I'm sorry, I don't speak idiot.

[Jae.C]

Originally Posted by huh101

ok so if i go to a private school with all guys is that considered gay?

No, but its unfortunate. I go to an all-guys school but I'm one of my most known guys at the all-girls school thats our school does stuff with. First year there too.

[SecondRequiem]

Mystery method sucks, my buds all swear by it, but it's all common sense.