[Mr. Bush]

Originally Posted by Bobeo

Dude, just let him know your intentions (asking his little sister out). If he is cool with it, go for it. You don't sound like a dick so this won't vbe a problem but just treat his sister with respect. That is all he can really ask.

And thats all id ever do, is treat her with respect. Ill see what I can do.

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Gentlemen,

So the other afternoon my roommate (wingman) and I were talking about the similarities between teaching someone to pick up a women and learning engineering. The one thing we found that always holds true is that it’s much more beneficial to teach someone the theory behind picking up women as opposed to just giving them a set of rules to memorize. I think this is the biggest downfall of the book “the game.” The problem is, just like in our engineering courses, if you just keep doing the same examples over and over, when a new situation arises that you are unfamiliar with, you have no clue how to handle it. But the other huge similarity between engineering and picking up women is how you handle problems. The problem is most likely very complex. So you break it down into stages.

Known: Re word the problem in a simple and easy to understand way. What do you know FOR SURE about the situation.

Find: What is your true objective here? What are you actually looking to achieve?

Assumptions: Based on your previous life experiences and what you know about the woman what assumptions can be made.

Properties: List all relevant information that may help you out as you solve this problem.

Analysis: Solve the damn problem!


Finally, my roommate and I came up with a set of goals that we give to our clients that will help them be successful with multiple women. (Keep in mind this is a rough draft) I think this set of guidelines stresses the idea behind meeting women and the prerequisites that will lead to success; not just a list of things to memorize. THIS IS NOT a good guideline if you’re striving after a specific woman. The best you can hope to do is get advice from someone else and pray that you execute it correctly.

1) First you need to learn how it all works. We’ll call this research and development stage. Pick up a psychology book. Read a romance novel. Watch every brad pitt movie. Understand WHAT attraction is and HOW it works.
2) You must learn good social dynamics first. You’re communication skills must be impeccable! To do this I recommend observing people who are socialites. Go to social settings and just observe people. When I’m in a large group of people (Christmas party or something) I can always tell who the successful people are just by how they communicate. If you’re already very good at social behavior you may be able to skip this step, but there’s always room for improvement
3) Break out of your shell. You’ve learned how to communicate, now practice it. PRACTICE EVERYWHERE. Meet as many people as you can (this doesn’t have to be women.) Talk to the guy in front of you at the grocery store. Talk to the woman in the waiting room at the doctor’s office. You need to become very comfortable with breaking that invisible social barrier.
4) Befriend those that you want to be like and those that can help you. (Now I realize this may sound like you’re using people but you will find every quickly that these people become your friends.) This base is very important because it’s going to be proof of your social superiority. Decide what you want in a social base. My social base consists of a lot of beautiful female friends and guys that I consider much like myself. YOU WILL START MEETING BEAUTIFUL WOMEN AT THIS POINT. Be patient, do not jump on these women. These women will be much more useful as social proof than they will a girlfriend. Besides, at this point you probably think she’s a 10, but when you realize your potential, you will look back on her as an 8. You have to use the minnows to catch the bass! It will reflect well on you to be able to take a girl somewhere and know 10 people at the place that think you’re a “great guy” and have respect for you.
5) Get your mitt and bat because it’s time to start yourself a batting order. With your skills and your base of social proof you are going to start lining up women. By this point it should be easy! You’ll start meeting friends of friends and random women and you’re going to start dating them. Honesty is the key here, you’re not a player, or a pimp, or any type of low life like that. You are a social person who is not interested in being tied down right now!
6) Research, practice, refine, and practice more. Perfect your game and have fun.

[jerseyballer15]

Originally Posted by pbhunter5190

So this girl I am asking to homecoming was absent on friday(the day I was going to ask her to homecoming) that wasn't the big deal. The problem was that when I came to 4th period(the class I have she is in) this other girl I talk to alot asked me if I asked her yet. I proclaimed "No, she isn't here otherwise I would" then people around me all started asking me and asking like they already knew like "are you gonna ask her out"blah blah blah. Then about 5 minutes later the girl behind me is putting on multiple shades off eye shadow/eye liner **** on and asks me if it looks cute. I say "No"(it makes girls look like whores if they wear it too much) then she gets all pissy and starts saying "don't get pissed at me" I said I wasn't pissed and then somehow all the people around us start talking about me and the girl I am asking out. They say "Oh shes turned down 3 guys that have asked her to homecoming", "I wonder what she meant in her intro speech(4th period is speech class) when she said she was going to move in with her 18 year old friend." Then someone asked after all that was told to me about her "are you still gonna ask her" I said "Ya, I don't care." See I don't know if this girl is playing games with me or what. At sometimes I feel like I have her on a leash because whenever I walk to 4th period we always walk the opposite ways but then I can make a motion to her that says "Come here, walk with me this way." But on the other hand I feel shes playing games because when I said "hey if you ever need a ride(she rides the bus), give me a call, oh wait I didn't get your number" she said that weekend she got her cell phone taken away. I'll probably ask her monday I just needed to get that off my chest.
Yes I realize that was horribly disorganized

freshmen? i dont understand why everyone would know ur going to ask her to homecoming unless u made a horrible huge deal about it.

[12345421]

Originally Posted by Bleachednblonde

Gentlemen,

So the other afternoon my roommate (wingman) and I were talking about the similarities between teaching someone to pick up a women and learning engineering. The one thing we found that always holds true is that it’s much more beneficial to teach someone the theory behind picking up women as opposed to just giving them a set of rules to memorize. I think this is the biggest downfall of the book “the game.” The problem is, just like in our engineering courses, if you just keep doing the same examples over and over, when a new situation arises that you are unfamiliar with, you have no clue how to handle it. But the other huge similarity between engineering and picking up women is how you handle problems. The problem is most likely very complex. So you break it down into stages.

Known: Re word the problem in a simple and easy to understand way. What do you know FOR SURE about the situation.

Find: What is your true objective here? What are you actually looking to achieve?

Assumptions: Based on your previous life experiences and what you know about the woman what assumptions can be made.

Properties: List all relevant information that may help you out as you solve this problem.

Analysis: Solve the damn problem!


Finally, my roommate and I came up with a set of goals that we give to our clients that will help them be successful with multiple women. (Keep in mind this is a rough draft) I think this set of guidelines stresses the idea behind meeting women and the prerequisites that will lead to success; not just a list of things to memorize. THIS IS NOT a good guideline if you’re striving after a specific woman. The best you can hope to do is get advice from someone else and pray that you execute it correctly.

1) First you need to learn how it all works. We’ll call this research and development stage. Pick up a psychology book. Read a romance novel. Watch every brad pitt movie. Understand WHAT attraction is and HOW it works.
2) You must learn good social dynamics first. You’re communication skills must be impeccable! To do this I recommend observing people who are socialites. Go to social settings and just observe people. When I’m in a large group of people (Christmas party or something) I can always tell who the successful people are just by how they communicate. If you’re already very good at social behavior you may be able to skip this step, but there’s always room for improvement
3) Break out of your shell. You’ve learned how to communicate, now practice it. PRACTICE EVERYWHERE. Meet as many people as you can (this doesn’t have to be women.) Talk to the guy in front of you at the grocery store. Talk to the woman in the waiting room at the doctor’s office. You need to become very comfortable with breaking that invisible social barrier.
4) Befriend those that you want to be like and those that can help you. (Now I realize this may sound like you’re using people but you will find every quickly that these people become your friends.) This base is very important because it’s going to be proof of your social superiority. Decide what you want in a social base. My social base consists of a lot of beautiful female friends and guys that I consider much like myself. YOU WILL START MEETING BEAUTIFUL WOMEN AT THIS POINT. Be patient, do not jump on these women. These women will be much more useful as social proof than they will a girlfriend. Besides, at this point you probably think she’s a 10, but when you realize your potential, you will look back on her as an 8. You have to use the minnows to catch the bass! It will reflect well on you to be able to take a girl somewhere and know 10 people at the place that think you’re a “great guy” and have respect for you.
5) Get your mitt and bat because it’s time to start yourself a batting order. With your skills and your base of social proof you are going to start lining up women. By this point it should be easy! You’ll start meeting friends of friends and random women and you’re going to start dating them. Honesty is the key here, you’re not a player, or a pimp, or any type of low life like that. You are a social person who is not interested in being tied down right now!
6) Research, practice, refine, and practice more. Perfect your game and have fun.

You're starting a business?

[pb4life110]

Id go...

[Bobeo]

Originally Posted by 12345421

You're starting a business?

In real life he is basically "Hitch." :nododgy:

[12345421]

Originally Posted by Bobeo

In real life he is basically "Hitch." :nododgy:

Sweet, Bleach come to New Brunswick. I have cash.

[L0S3R]

K guys of ST(including bleachesNblonde(t3h sexkz master)), i need your help. Homecomming is this friday at my school. My friends want me to come with them, but i've never been to a dance(shame on me). Our group has 2 girls and 5 guys including me, we need more girls in it. I do want to go, but I'm also afraid. If i do go i was thinking about this girl in our history class that sits 2 seats behind me. I haven't really talked to her and she's good friends with half the people in the group. How do i know if she's already taken, and how do i approach her? btw, i don't want my friend's asking her for me...

[Bobeo]

Just strike up some conversation before class:

"So, are you planning on going to homecoming this Friday?...No? You should come with us."

If she says she is already say that you will see her there.

EDIT: About the dancing thing, I think you will find that a) it isn't very hard and b) there aren't going to be people that will be able to say they are good dancers and you are bad. It is a homecoming dance. Just dance. Enjoy the music and the people around you.

Girls like guys that don't really give a **** and just want to enjoy the moment.

[12345421]

Originally Posted by Bobeo

Just strike up some conversation before class:

"So, are you planning on going to homecoming this Friday?...No? You should come with us."

If she says she is already say that you will see her there.

EDIT: About the dancing thing, I think you will find that a) it isn't very hard and b) there aren't going to be people that will be able to say they are good dancers and you are bad. It is a homecoming dance. Just dance. Enjoy the music and the people around you.

Girls like guys that don't really give a **** and just want to enjoy the moment.

So true. I have trouble a lot of time dancing (not slow songs) because I'm always thinking that everyone is watching me. They arn't watching you and none of the other guys can dance either. You just think they can dance because the girls love it. What the girls really love is that those guys don't give a ****.

And do exactly what Bobeo said about asking her. The thing I would do if she said she was going is reply by saying, "Right on, see ya there" and walk away. "Right on" just seems like such a casual word that works in a lot of situations.

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Originally Posted by 12345421

You're starting a business?

Not starting, we've had one for a while. But it's not like "how to pick up women 101." it's more of helping guys become more successful in life. How to dress, how to meet women, how to be more confident, how to be more successful at work, how to have more friends. A lot of young guys get out of college, move to a new city and suddenly realize... "uh now what?" I mean when you're in high school you plan for college and when you're in college you plan for a career. Well in college and high school the social scene is just part of the package. But when you get into the real world you have to at least have a clue on how to form your social life... amazingly a lot of people don't have a clue... and are willing to pay to be coached.

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Originally Posted by Bobeo

Just strike up some conversation before class:

"So, are you planning on going to homecoming this Friday?...No? You should come with us."

If she says she is already say that you will see her there.

EDIT: About the dancing thing, I think you will find that a) it isn't very hard and b) there aren't going to be people that will be able to say they are good dancers and you are bad. It is a homecoming dance. Just dance. Enjoy the music and the people around you.

Girls like guys that don't really give a **** and just want to enjoy the moment.

Dancing is alot like sex with clothes on these days. You have to try to be a ****ty dancer. When it's a slow dance, you put your arms around her and rock back and forth and try not to step on her toes. When they tone it up, she bends over a little you get behind her and bump and grind. And rub your hands around her. Once again, pretty much like sex with clothes on.

[12345421]

Originally Posted by Bleachednblonde

Not starting, we've had one for a while. But it's not like "how to pick up women 101." it's more of helping guys become more successful in life. How to dress, how to meet women, how to be more confident, how to be more successful at work, how to have more friends. A lot of young guys get out of college, move to a new city and suddenly realize... "uh now what?" I mean when you're in high school you plan for college and when you're in college you plan for a career. Well in college and high school the social scene is just part of the package. But when you get into the real world you have to at least have a clue on how to form your social life... amazingly a lot of people don't have a clue... and are willing to pay to be coached.

What are you charging?

[fireisgood4u]

So I think I've gotten my kino escalation down. I've 'practiced' it on two female friends(I've niceguyed for) that probably wouldn't even think of holding my hand before. I didn't push things farther since both had boyfriends at the time and I'm in regular contact with them and wouldn't want to make things akward.

I just start with hair and go from there... I enjoy the tracing down their spine with a finger. I just tell them to squeeze my hand tighter when it feels good. First time I tried this out I lightly used my nail, the harder I scratched the more the chick squeezed. She showed me her back the next day it was just covered in scratches.

I just need to find a chick to test things farther now.

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Originally Posted by 12345421

What are you charging?

$80 per hour

[Bobeo]

[pb4life110]

F That!!!

Why do girls seem to forget that they wanted to go somewhere with you

[12345421]

Originally Posted by Bleachednblonde

$80 per hour

Seems reasonable, cheaper than a hooker.

How do you advertise your business? (Ya, I'm asking a lot of questions, I just find it cool that you're a real life hitch)

[pbhunter5190]

Originally Posted by jerseyballer15

freshmen? i dont understand why everyone would know ur going to ask her to homecoming unless u made a horrible huge deal about it.

I told the one girl that sat behind me just because she could sense that I liked this girl. This spread because the girl behind me told everyone. Im a junior BTW.

Originally Posted by Bleachednblonde

$80 per hour

have you seen the movie Hitch? Do you think what happened to him will happen to you?

[TheFightnNutsak (Banned)]

Originally Posted by pb4life110

F That!!!

Why do girls seem to forget that they wanted to go somewhere with you

because women are by nature, idiots. only good for screwing.

[pb4life110]

Man I hate when girls say they want to go to the movies, then suddenly they bail on you... Its always the Same girl too... Only time we hang out anymore is if its something Important... pretty gay...

Originally Posted by TheFightnNutsak

because women are by nature, idiots. only good for screwing.

woops forgot I even sayed that...