[AndyAllen019]

I'm tired of all your threads.

From now on please post your problem here and wait for an answer.

The Dread Pirate's edit:

I've posted a very good write-up on developing "game" if you have none. It was too long to edit into here, so just click the link and read it.
http://www.pbnation.com/showthread.p...4#post23173234

[paintball_4_life]

dude first page post and first page question, 2 birds with one rock!!

yeah anyways.. say u ask a girl out and u didn't know she had a bf. she rejects cuz she says she has a bf... is there any lines that make the question seem less dateish?

[l337moomoo (Banned)]

Originally Posted by paintball_4_life

dude first page post and first page question, 2 birds with one rock!!

yeah anyways.. say u ask a girl out and u didn't know she had a bf. she rejects cuz she says she has a bf... is there any lines that make the question seem less dateish?

I always say something to get them a little offended then say something like "Woah haha just kidding, I don't want your boyfriend to beat me up or anything." and if she doesn't have one she'll be like "Oh I don't have a boyfriend." But that plan can easily be a win/lose question.

[Fat_Man12345 (Banned)]

Originally Posted by paintball_4_life

dude first page post and first page question, 2 birds with one rock!!

yeah anyways.. say u ask a girl out and u didn't know she had a bf. she rejects cuz she says she has a bf... is there any lines that make the question seem less dateish?

the words "hang out" usually get this done pretty well.

ex. "so, you wanna hang out sometime"

notice how the use of the term "hang out" makes it seem less dateish.

now I feel like Dr.Phil.

[808paintballjunkie2]

**on topic**

1.I like this girl
2. 1Year/1month/2days older than me
3. Same Grade
4. Friends not close though
5. talks to me for an hour yesterday
6. shafts me completely the next day
7.
8. wtf m8?

[MuppetBus (Banned)]

Originally Posted by 808paintballjunkie2

**on topic**

1.I like this girl
2. 1Year/1month/2days older than me
3. Same Grade
4. Friends not close though
5. talks to me for an hour yesterday
6. shafts me completely the next day
7.
8. wtf m8?

No, 8 = PROFIT.

Shes a tease more than likely. have been in this scenario before. shes a tease. dont even bother goin there. seriously, youll profit if you dont.

[808paintballjunkie2]

Originally Posted by MuppetBus

No, 8 = PROFIT.

Shes a tease more than likely. have been in this scenario before. shes a tease. dont even bother goin there. seriously, youll profit if you dont.

i was thinking the same. Its just she has such a beautiful smile i cant even think about her being a tease. Good personality too. 3.8 GPA student. (im at 2.8 and above)

[drunktiger21]

Quiet of a dilemma:
Long story short, these 3 girls got a hold of my phone and saw my glory (honestly, don't ask).
I really don't care, because there's nothing to be shamed of, but they want to know why they were on my phone and I was like don't worry about it, it's none of your business, just pretend you never saw them. And they keep demanding explanation and keep adding to the akwardness, which I really don't have towards them, it's more they will feel akward toward me.

One of them I'm decent friends with (she's my best friend's gf, who's in bootcamp), I learned to like her, because of that sole purpose, she's a real *******.
The other one is so christian, i'm sure she was asking why vitalik doesn't have a vagina.
And the other one I hit it off pretty well, she's a *******, but she's also really easy. Also don't care about her.

I really don't care about these girls, I just don't want this **** to spread, and as a matter of fact, I have no idea why I posted this. But yea, that's my embarassing night.

I just want to know how would you handle this?

[bacon03]

I'll post this again because the other thread closed and no one responded except that dude telling me to grab her ***.

This girl I started talking to apparently has first period class near mine. She wants to me to come up to her on monday and say hi. When she walks out of the room, her locker is like 15 feet down the hall. Should I just talk to her until she gets to the locker and then walk away or should I stand next to her while she is at her locker and keep talking?

[Proto Pimp]

Don't go to her make her come to you otherwise she will just walk over you. If your trying to get laid just treat her like **** for some reason women love it.

[P0GU3]

sooo
last night i was talking to a girl i hardly knew...it was cool...shes a sophmore and iam a junior, we have a PE class, but i hardly get to talk to her there because i have to clean the weight room(Coach has like 5 players that clean)...i might ask her to go to the homecoming dance firday...

Question is, i hardly know this girl...should i ask her to the dance?

I have pics if need...

[superjoo]

Originally Posted by bacon03

I'll post this again because the other thread closed and no one responded except that dude telling me to grab her ***.

This girl I started talking to apparently has first period class near mine. She wants to me to come up to her on monday and say hi. When she walks out of the room, her locker is like 15 feet down the hall. Should I just talk to her until she gets to the locker and then walk away or should I stand next to her while she is at her locker and keep talking?

i suppose u didnt see where i gave u an answer in the last GPT so here it is again back by popular demand.

1. Meet her outside of her class
2. Walk with her to her locker
3. Wait there for her and just talk or do whatever
4. Walk with her to her next class
5. Give her a firm sqeeze on the ***
6. Say have a nice day
7. Leave for your class


its sure to work every time

[p8ntballr1125]

Okay I suck at girls but there is this one that I think I might have a chance with. She is fun to talk to but sometimes it is really hard to break the ice. She seems a bit stuck up. Also do girls like being touched and whatnot? Like not sexually, just like hugs and holding hands and stuff like that, or does it creep them out? And lastly is it wierd to go out with someone two years younger than you? She is only a freshman but she is much more mature than most and she looks alot older. Any help would be appreciated. That means YOU, Bleachdnblonde

[bacon03]

Originally Posted by bacon03

I'll post this again because the other thread closed and no one responded except that dude telling me to grab her ***

Originally Posted by superjoo

i suppose u didnt see where i gave u an answer in the last GPT so here it is again back by popular demand.

I saw what you said. I'm barely know her. It won't work. And I can't even walk her to her class because I'll be late for my class.

[Jlausen]

Originally Posted by bacon03

I'll post this again because the other thread closed and no one responded except that dude telling me to grab her ***.

This girl I started talking to apparently has first period class near mine. She wants to me to come up to her on monday and say hi. When she walks out of the room, her locker is like 15 feet down the hall. Should I just talk to her until she gets to the locker and then walk away or should I stand next to her while she is at her locker and keep talking?

Ask her whats up. Make small talk, and look at how she's acting. You probably can tell if she likes you. Walk her to her next class or something, and hug her.

I'd try to work it.

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And I have a problem of my own. My best friend asked the girl that I'm talking to out for a date thing. Not really a date, but they were doing something. She only sees him as a friend, and she thought that would be awkward, so she just told him that she had something to do for church, which I assume she did. I think I could have had the oppurtunity to take her out on a date today, after she was done whatever, but I decided against it, because I figured that would be wrong.

Did I make the right choice? My friend knows that me and this girl like eachother, but I didn't think it would be cool to do something on a day that she essentially blew him off when he asked her to do something.

[fireisgood4u]

Originally Posted by drunktiger21

Quiet of a dilemma:
Long story short, these 3 girls got a hold of my phone and saw my glory (honestly, don't ask).
I really don't care, because there's nothing to be shamed of, but they want to know why they were on my phone and I was like don't worry about it, it's none of your business, just pretend you never saw them. And they keep demanding explanation and keep adding to the akwardness, which I really don't have towards them, it's more they will feel akward toward me.

One of them I'm decent friends with (she's my best friend's gf, who's in bootcamp), I learned to like her, because of that sole purpose, she's a real *******.
The other one is so christian, i'm sure she was asking why vitalik doesn't have a vagina.
And the other one I hit it off pretty well, she's a *******, but she's also really easy. Also don't care about her.

I really don't care about these girls, I just don't want this **** to spread, and as a matter of fact, I have no idea why I posted this. But yea, that's my embarassing night.

I just want to know how would you handle this?

Best thing to do is make a big joke out of it. Seem casual and uneffected by it. Make a joke that it was cold or something and that's only half the size...

Originally Posted by Jlausen

And I have a problem of my own. My best friend asked the girl that I'm talking to out for a date thing. Not really a date, but they were doing something. She only sees him as a friend, and she thought that would be awkward, so she just told him that she had something to do for church, which I assume she did. I think I could have had the oppurtunity to take her out on a date today, after she was done whatever, but I decided against it, because I figured that would be wrong.

Did I make the right choice? My friend knows that me and this girl like eachother, but I didn't think it would be cool to do something on a day that she essentially blew him off when he asked her to do something.

Are you sure your buddy knows you like this chick? He should understand your feelings and not ask her out on 'datethings.' However don't go out with her on the same day, it'll only create angst for him. Show her that you put your buddies in front of women, somtimes it's a sign of respect that women like.(unless they're shallow attention whores, then they'll be pissed)

[12345421]

Originally Posted by 12345421

Just thought of a problem that will most likely come up. Our schools Christmas Formal is on December 8th. Would it be too early to ask a girl already? I know this pretty hot girl that I'm going to ask. I'm about 95% sure she'll say yes. Last year I waited way too late and ended up going with a hot girl from another school (that one of my friends set me up with). All went well and we went to a party afterwards... long story short she got drunk and threw up mulitple times and I had to carry her a kilometer down the road to her friends house.

.

[Jlausen]

Originally Posted by fireisgood4u

Are you sure your buddy knows you like this chick? He should understand your feelings and not ask her out on 'datethings.' However don't go out with her on the same day, it'll only create angst for him. Show her that you put your buddies in front of women, somtimes it's a sign of respect that women like.(unless they're shallow attention whores, then they'll be pissed)

Yeah, we've talked about how we like the same girl, but she's rejected him a few times. He knows, but he just keeps trying.

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Originally Posted by bacon03

I'll post this again because the other thread closed and no one responded except that dude telling me to grab her ***.

This girl I started talking to apparently has first period class near mine. She wants to me to come up to her on monday and say hi. When she walks out of the room, her locker is like 15 feet down the hall. Should I just talk to her until she gets to the locker and then walk away or should I stand next to her while she is at her locker and keep talking?

Either would work just fine. If you want to show "casual" keep walking. If you want to show interest, stay and talk for a minute. I'd switch it up, don't do the same thing every day. Best bet would be the try to get her to follow you. But honestly this situation isn't a big enough deal for it to make a huge difference

Originally Posted by p8ntballr1125

Okay I suck at girls but there is this one that I think I might have a chance with. She is fun to talk to but sometimes it is really hard to break the ice. She seems a bit stuck up. Also do girls like being touched and whatnot? Like not sexually, just like hugs and holding hands and stuff like that, or does it creep them out? And lastly is it wierd to go out with someone two years younger than you? She is only a freshman but she is much more mature than most and she looks alot older. Any help would be appreciated. That means YOU, Bleachdnblonde

When it comes to high school relationships there's a lot of small factors that effect what is acceptable. Plus there's that magic line when you instantly become an adult one day and if she's not that can be a real problem. Next, women and being touched, you're answer is yes and no. Usually there's a threshold where it's okay to start touching a woman. that point is when she starts touching you. You really have to read the situation and know whether or not she is enjoying it or whether it's freaking her out

Originally Posted by Jlausen

And I have a problem of my own. My best friend asked the girl that I'm talking to out for a date thing. Not really a date, but they were doing something. She only sees him as a friend, and she thought that would be awkward, so she just told him that she had something to do for church, which I assume she did. I think I could have had the oppurtunity to take her out on a date today, after she was done whatever, but I decided against it, because I figured that would be wrong.

Did I make the right choice? My friend knows that me and this girl like eachother, but I didn't think it would be cool to do something on a day that she essentially blew him off when he asked her to do something.

Well as far as high school rules go, yea you probably made the right decision. I mean if you're friend is confident and knows he has other girls then i'd say ask her out. My guess is he isn't don juan and he'd be upset. Between me and my friends it's understood you have one night to pull a girl, if there's no forward progress in one night, she's up for grabs. But my freinds are pretty good with women so to us it's like loosing pocket change. I guess there's a lot of factors to weigh in.

How good of a friend is he?
How much does he like this girl?
How much do you like this girl?
How upset will he be if you start dating her?

[stinman101]

my friend who is incredibly close to me that i like has a boyfriend. thing is, she likes me back, but also likes her bf. her bf doesnt go to our school, but cud prolly kick my *** if anything went down. meanwhile, shes always holding my hands in school, sitting on my lap at lunch, and walking arm and arm with me to classes. what do i do here? i like her, she likes me, shes got a bf. wtf!

[blaker615]

Originally Posted by stinman101

my friend who is incredibly close to me that i like has a boyfriend. thing is, she likes me back, but also likes her bf. her bf doesnt go to our school, but cud prolly kick my *** if anything went down. meanwhile, shes always holding my hands in school, sitting on my lap at lunch, and walking arm and arm with me to classes. what do i do here? i like her, she likes me, shes got a bf. wtf!

you waited too long to act. sorry. use it as a learning experience, there is plenty of other girls.