[t_mo (Banned)]

Originally Posted by Bleachednblonde

Minus the color

That is pretty cool. Kind of emo, but def cool.

Ive been planning on getting a tatoo for months, but i cant determine where to get it. I was thinking about on the inside of my bicep, I dont want it to be visible when I wear a white business shirt. Im still not totally sure where I should get it though, any suggestions?

[p8ntballr1125]

Originally Posted by TheFightnNutsak

try this one...

Call me stupid, but I dont get it

[12345421]

Originally Posted by p8ntballr1125

Call me stupid, but I dont get it

:l

Charlie Brown stuck his penis in Lucy and lied to her and said that it is to stop her from sinking.

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Originally Posted by Nightfire303

ok my problem is i really like this girl and shes pritty cute to. Ive known her for 2 years BUT we have gotten really close as friends. We have hooked up before, but it was a few mounths back. Shes kinda a ditz (lol) and i dont want to ruin our friendship by asking her out and her saying no. So what do you guys think, take a risk and ask her out, or wait around and get bunkered by another guy

Nope, girlfriends are alot easier to come by than best friends

Originally Posted by t_mo

That is pretty cool. Kind of emo, but def cool.

Ive been planning on getting a tatoo for months, but i cant determine where to get it. I was thinking about on the inside of my bicep

Yea i was going for emo. I'm looking for something that displays my chronic depression problem.

As for you, take some time to think about what you want. Both of my current tattooes are ones i designed myself. They are completly abstract and have no meaning but they represent transitional periods on my life. I got one the day i turned 18. I got the other when i went to college. This is the first tattoo that will actually represent something.

[fireisgood4u]

Well that's that. I was with that girl I told you broke up with her boyfriend or whatever over me. Her and I were studying at a friend's house and afterwards went to her house. She got all silent and I asked what was on her mind and she started talking about her ex and blah blah. Then she said her heart was now empty, so after a bunch of kino and stuff I asked if I could be the one to fill it. She didn't give me an anwser so it was obviously no.

Blah blah she started talking more and she started crying and it ended up in a long holding thing, I get kino up and stuff but yeah I was farrr to on the friends ladder to hope for anything. I kept doing the suggestive leading in for kisses but everytime she'd look away. Finally I just told her plain out to kiss me. She just whispered my name and no. So I simply told her that the feeling she felt right now was the feeling I felt everytime she said she wanted me back as her friend. I told her this was the end and goodbye. I got her drive me home and voila here I am. I just hope she makes it home alright, she was in a pretty ****ty state.

So yepp that's that. Time to read up and practice PUA, there's a whole sea out there.

[12345421]

Originally Posted by fireisgood4u

Well that's that. I was with that girl I told you broke up with her boyfriend or whatever over me. Her and I were studying at a friend's house and afterwards went to her house. She got all silent and I asked what was on her mind and she started talking about her ex and blah blah. Then she said her heart was now empty, so after a bunch of kino and stuff I asked if I could be the one to fill it. She didn't give me an anwser so it was obviously no.

Blah blah she started talking more and she started crying and it ended up in a long holding thing, I get kino up and stuff but yeah I was farrr to on the friends ladder to hope for anything. I kept doing the suggestive leading in for kisses but everytime she'd look away. Finally I just told her plain out to kiss me. She just whispered my name and no. So I simply told her that the feeling she felt right now was the feeling I felt everytime she said she wanted me back as her friend. I told her this was the end and goodbye. I got her drive me home and voila here I am. I just hope she makes it home alright, she was in a pretty ****ty state.

So yepp that's that. Time to read up and practice PUA, there's a whole sea out there.

I just said, "Holy ****" out loud. That's insane man. Mad props to you for following through on what Bleach has been preaching (whether or not you were doing it because he said so or not). I'm still in amazement that you were able to do that. Just wow.

[fireisgood4u]

Originally Posted by 12345421

I just said, "Holy ****" out loud. That's insane man. Mad props to you for following through on what Bleach has been preaching (whether or not you were doing it because he said so or not). I'm still in amazement that you were able to do that. Just wow.

Haha. I've found myself so much more comfortable around women after reading a good portion of 'The Game.' I learnt a bunch about women from that girl, and after reading the book it confirmed most of it and taught me a ton of new things.

The whole thing had been going on for wayyy to long of a ****ing time. I niceguyed for her two years. I finally told her I couldn't be just friends with her and stopped talking to her. She'd always email me and **** about how much she missed me blah blah. Then she had some pretty heavy family stuff happen so I came back for a while then left again. We got drunk on the weekend and I slept at her house and next day her boyfriend dumped her. I started talking to her again, and tonight yea that happpened.

Realized I needed to make my move now while she had no paticular interest, but I'm too far on the friends ladder for her. If she loved me as much as she said she did she'd be willing to make a sacrifice or two and at least try things.

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Originally Posted by fireisgood4u

Well that's that. I was with that girl I told you broke up with her boyfriend or whatever over me. Her and I were studying at a friend's house and afterwards went to her house. She got all silent and I asked what was on her mind and she started talking about her ex and blah blah. Then she said her heart was now empty, so after a bunch of kino and stuff I asked if I could be the one to fill it. She didn't give me an anwser so it was obviously no.

Blah blah she started talking more and she started crying and it ended up in a long holding thing, I get kino up and stuff but yeah I was farrr to on the friends ladder to hope for anything. I kept doing the suggestive leading in for kisses but everytime she'd look away. Finally I just told her plain out to kiss me. She just whispered my name and no. So I simply told her that the feeling she felt right now was the feeling I felt everytime she said she wanted me back as her friend. I told her this was the end and goodbye. I got her drive me home and voila here I am. I just hope she makes it home alright, she was in a pretty ****ty state.

So yepp that's that. Time to read up and practice PUA, there's a whole sea out there.

I give you a lot of credit for having the balls to do that. But we need to critique what just happened. So let's make a learning experience out of this...

-When a woman is in an emotional state over another guy there's a few ways to handle this. First let's talk about how NOT to handle it. DO NOT be her shoulder to cry on. There is no quicker way to fall into the friend trap then to be the boy she cries to. DO NOT try to push her towards you. Women seemed to have this heightened sense of awareness when they're hurt and she will know right away if you're trying to move in on her and use her vulnerability. DO NOT be a dick about it and just come out and say, "listen i don't care okay!"
I would have handled it one of two ways. Either said, "Listen, i know your upset so i'm gonna leave you alone. Give me a call if you REALLY need to talk, otherwise how bout we hang out in a few days when you're feeling better?" (Sometimes it's better to just leave the woman alone and let her deal with her own ****. Dammaged goods is a pain in the *** to game!) Or the other thing i would have said was, "listen wallowing isn't going to make things better. Let's go do something fun together to get your mind off things." (This gives you a chance to possibly get her thinking in a new direction and get her mind off her boy. This allows you to kind of slip in under the radar)

-When a girl is in this stage making a move for a kiss (or anything sexual) has to seem to her like it's something she can't help. It has to be like out of a movie where she's just so uncontrolably attracted to you and it's so natural she can't help it. I jokingly think of that scene in "Starsky and Hutch" where Hutch is making out with the two girls and he says something like, "yea yanno i don't think we even need to judge it, it just feels so natural." lol. It should feel so natural to her she doesn't think twice about it. Which means you have to be twice as charming as normal!

So once again, much respect for your moves, they were ballsy. But there's still a lot to learn!

So in an ideal situation i would have taken her out somewhere and said, "listen you're comming with me! we're gonna go do something fun and try to get your mind off things for a while. You need to relax a little!"
Go do something fun and maybe a little original. Ice skating? i dunno something like that. Then i'd gauge her response. If you could get her mind off her boy long enough to see her smile and kind of forget about him i'd start making slight, playful moves. Maybe things she would just take as being flirty and fun. Then i'd just keep stepping it up as long as i was getting a positive response from her. Eventually building to the point where at the end of the night i could kiss her. THEN i'd take advantage of her vulnerablity. After you've kind of snuck you're foot in the door it would be easy to seal the deal! She's feeling lonely, doesn't want to spend the night alone. There's this romantic guy that just wooed her after a break up... that's easy sex right there!

[superjoo]

you have done it again bleach

BRAVO BRAVO

[TenaciousTomato]

Bleach, wow. Just wow. Great job.

[contractkiller20]

big problem

I just got girlfriend last friday and I had surgery yesterday..apperantly she called and I said that I loved her which I dont love her but I do like her what should I do? My guess is I was really emotional from the surgery and medication I was on. HELP!

[Bobeo]

Props to FIG for having the balls to do that. I am trying to get there

And once again, Blonde is the master with the ladies.

EDIT: Went out with girl I am trying to hook up with today before classes started Honestly, I think I did OK. as charming, blah, blah, blah, threw in some negs. It went pretty well I think. I a little kino walking with her, etc just so she had something to think about. I need to be a better conversationalist though.

[Bobeo]

Originally Posted by contractkiller20

big problem

I just got girlfriend last friday and I had surgery yesterday..apperantly she called and I said that I loved her which I dont love her but I do like her what should I do? My guess is I was really emotional from the surgery and medication I was on. HELP!

Tell her that you do have feeling for her but tell her that you were drugged up and takit for what it is. I would be basolutely honest and say that I was high and wasn't aware of what I was saying. However, you do like her and would like to get to know her better.

EDIT: Oops, this is already your girlfriend. Just tell her you were drugged up. That should handle it nicely.

[contractkiller20]

aight she is in class but i sent her a text she is gonna call me at lunch ill let you guys know whats up

[bunkermonkey8412]

Hmm, im having trouble formulating this into a post so be patient please. My problem is one of choices. Is seems like all of a sudden i have about 4 different options. I picked the first one and started dating this girl like 2 weeks ago. My problem is should i completely turn down the other girls? Is there a way to keep the others interested, should my current relationship not last (i guess a back up plan)? I doubt any of them would be interested in sharing b/c im in highschool (senior). I guess what im saying is i would like to keep my options open. Is there a way to do this or should i just focus on my gf? I hope this is literate cause im very close to falling asleep on my keyboard. any advice is appreciated but i mainly wanna hear what bleached has to say.

[TheFightnNutsak (Banned)]

you are in highschool the only reason people still go to HS besides to get into college is to **** as many whores as possible. you will regret not tapping their ***** when you are 35 and married to some random chick you knocked up.

[GK @ dgs (Banned)]

Originally Posted by TheFightnNutsak

you are in highschool the only reason people still go to HS besides to get into college is to **** as many whores as possible. you will regret not tapping their ***** when you are 35 and married to some random chick you knocked up.

You are wrong, seriously.You sound like you are in middle school, or a freshmen maybe. (or a person with no drive, looking at your location) I go to high school because I actually would like to get an education, and go on to have a high paying job and a good life. Sure, sex and girls is nice and all, but a lot of kids that I know are leaving that til after college. My parents, for one, don't care if I have sex. But they do care that I get a good education and get a good career going, and if I don't there will be hell to pay in my house.

[TheFightnNutsak (Banned)]

Originally Posted by GK @ dgs

You are wrong, seriously.You sound like you are in middle school, or a freshmen maybe. (or a person with no drive, looking at your location) I go to high school because I actually would like to get an education, and go on to have a high paying job and a good life. Sure, sex and girls is nice and all, but a lot of kids that I know are leaving that til after college. My parents, for one, don't care if I have sex. But they do care that I get a good education and get a good career going, and if I don't there will be hell to pay in my house.

sounds to me like you go to school to get into college. like i said. you kids just like to make your answers super long so people think you are smart.

[GK @ dgs (Banned)]

Originally Posted by TheFightnNutsak

sounds to me like you go to school to get into college. like i said. you kids just like to make your answers super long so people think you are smart.

You caught us, we're just trying to be e-cool.
You post the most useless, sensless **** in ST that I have seen in a long time. This thread was better off without you. Kids don't go to college to **** whores all night long, they go to play sports and recieve educations. (with sex on the side)

[TheFightnNutsak (Banned)]

Originally Posted by GK @ dgs

You caught us, we're just trying to be e-cool.
You post the most useless, sensless **** in ST that I have seen in a long time. This thread was better off without you. Kids don't go to college to **** whores all night long, they go to play sports and recieve educations. (with sex on the side)

do you read what i type? i said the only reason you go to HIGHSCHOOL is to get into college and to **** whores. this has nothing to do with college

high school = time to **** whores

[GK @ dgs (Banned)]

Originally Posted by TheFightnNutsak

do you read what i type? i said the only reason you go to HIGHSCHOOL is to get into college and to **** whores. this has nothing to do with college

high school = time to **** whores

Orrrr, high school is the time to try to get into college. Do you read what I post?