[iplaypballsometimes]

Originally Posted by Simplicity.

You better find out for sure if she likes you, flirt with her, dont talk about it, let your actions let her know.
edit:
look at this whole thread, theres other people wondering the same thing, we all pretty much covered everything

to the first part- i've pretty pretty much done that.

2nd part- i know, i was just wondering if anyone had any advice for my particular case

[p8ntballr1125]

Well what do you know the girl calls me back 7 hours after she said she wont be talking to me for a few days.

[Simplicity. (Banned)]

Originally Posted by p8ntballr1125

Well what do you know the girl calls me back 7 hours after she said she wont be talking to me for a few days.

Take a dump on her chest.

[bacon03]

I'm too shy. That's my problem. Any ideas on how to overcome my shyness?

[Simplicity. (Banned)]

Originally Posted by bacon03

I'm too shy. That's my problem. Any ideas on how to overcome my shyness?

Theres nothing other then i can tell you to just go straight in for the kill, pretend your with your boys and your pranking people, thats what I do.

[t_mo (Banned)]

Originally Posted by p8ntballr1125

Well what do you know the girl calls me back 7 hours after she said she wont be talking to me for a few days.

I hope you brushed her off. When she calls back next dont pick up!!!!

[p8ntballr1125]

Originally Posted by t_mo

I hope you brushed her off. When she calls back next dont pick up!!!!

i told her to call back when my cell minutes are free. Why shouldnt I pick up?

[t_mo (Banned)]

Originally Posted by Simplicity.

But what i wanna know, is what do you feel about girls older then you? Keep in mind i havent talked to her in a long time. So any advice would be good because she is a cutie

Older girls are harder to get. Generally they are more jaded, but at the same time more mature. There are less stupid games, and generally less bull**** to deal with.

To get an older girl, you dont want to match games with games like you do with younger girls.

I consider Bleached's specific stradegys to be perfect for picking up older girls.

In a sense you have to challenge them intellectually more so than you do with immature/younger girls.


Buuuuuuttttt...
There is a key factor that you can use to your advantage. You being the younger one in the equation almost automatically makes you the inferior one. So when an "inferior" party rejects a supposed "superior" party the "superior" party is automatically reconsidering itself. So if I were you I would def play the hard to get with this one.
Wait a little while, dont give her your aim/phone number/ email. Make her earn it.

[t_mo (Banned)]

Originally Posted by p8ntballr1125

i told her to call back when my cell minutes are free. Why shouldnt I pick up?

HAHAH perfect. HAHAHA thats classic.

When she calls back dont pick up. Chances are she will call back RIGHT after that as well. Dont pick up that either. Now you are shifting control, now she is waiting for you to call her. Then when you call her back nonchalantly say "Sorry I was in the bathroom, taking a ****" or something like "I was downstairs when you called I didnt hear my phone."

[t_mo (Banned)]

Originally Posted by bacon03

I'm too shy. That's my problem. Any ideas on how to overcome my shyness?

Dont try to change yourself for other people. That is one of the strongest messages I can convey in this whole thing. If people dont like you for who YOU are then screw them.

Shyness isnt a weakness and isnt something that you really need to work to change. A synonym for being shy is mysterious. Now shy has generally a negative connotation, whereas mysterious does not. Its all how you look at it.

Now generally "shy" people are not confident in themselves. So therefore the difference between someone shy, and someone mysterious is simply confidence in who they are.

So embrace the fact that you are quiet, you think before you speak and are very receptive in social situation and use all of this to your advantage.

[p8ntballr1125]

Originally Posted by t_mo

HAHAH perfect. HAHAHA thats classic.

When she calls back dont pick up. Chances are she will call back RIGHT after that as well. Dont pick up that either. Now you are shifting control, now she is waiting for you to call her. Then when you call her back nonchalantly say "Sorry I was in the bathroom, taking a ****" or something like "I was downstairs when you called I didnt hear my phone."

Im definetly not going to tell her im taking a **** lol..but she usually calls me in "3's" I never have "1 missed call," or "2 missed calls," its always 3. She will be calling soon if she hasnt already (phones in my room so idk) I will be sure to not pick it up. Thanks.

[t_mo (Banned)]

Originally Posted by p8ntballr1125

Im definetly not going to tell her im taking a **** lol..

Well thats the stuff I pull. Whether the female approves or not.

[Bobeo]

Originally Posted by bacon03

I'm too shy. That's my problem. Any ideas on how to overcome my shyness?

Think of things you are good at. For instance, before this summer, I was terribly shy around women. This year I am much more at ease because I have realized I am actually a pretty talented person - leading scorer on LAX team, planning on going to USNA.

Just play yourself up, even if it is only to yourself.

[baddogh26 (Banned)]

Originally Posted by SonyLover

Not really, I'm dyslexic

funny me too i can still understand it but w/ev

[baddogh26 (Banned)]

Originally Posted by Bobeo

You said you met her boyfrend and it is theis new guy you are worried about? If she has a boyfriend that might be the first hurdle...

no bf= bestfriend my bad

[p8ntballr1125]

Well she called me 4 times in a row..I waited about 20 mins and called her back. she didnt pick up. I call her again a half hour later she doesnt pick up wtf.

[Simplicity. (Banned)]

Originally Posted by p8ntballr1125

Well she called me 4 times in a row..I waited about 20 mins and called her back. she didnt pick up. I call her again a half hour later she doesnt pick up wtf.

You were sleeping! The best excuse EVAR.

[dplick28]

she obviously will know that you called her. Now you wait till she calls you back. This time you answer it.

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

I'd like to say a few quick general guidlines! I've seen these questions asked time and time again:
-You don't have to find out for sure if a girl likes you. Believe it or not women are not like us in the same respect, you can persuade a girl to like you. So whether or not she likes you doesn't really matter. Perfect example: I met a girl at a bar who told me "to go **** myself" within the first 30 seconds of meeting her. I took her home the next night and ****ed her two ways til tuesday.

-Asking a girl out does not need to be this big planned out production. Infact by doing that you put her under alot of pressure and in general it can kind of stress her out. Keep the "romantic sweep her off her feet ideas" for your 1 year or when you propose to her. The proper way to ask a girl out..."God it's so refreshing to meet someone different than all these other girls. Let's get lunch sometime."

-It doesn't matter if she has a boyfriend. You ask her out (like said above) anyway. If she says, "oh i have a boyfriend." Your response will be, "woah woah honey! I'm asking you if you'd like to get lunch and talk sometime... as friends. Are you always this presumptious or is your boyfriend that insecure?"

[N00bInG 0uT]

Originally Posted by Bleachednblonde

I'd like to say a few quick general guidlines! I've seen these questions asked time and time again:
-You don't have to find out for sure if a girl likes you. Believe it or not women are not like us in the same respect, you can persuade a girl to like you. So whether or not she likes you doesn't really matter. Perfect example: I met a girl at a bar who told me "to go **** myself" within the first 30 seconds of meeting her. I took her home the next night and ****ed her two ways til tuesday.

This is SO true. We sometimes become interested only after the guy makes it clear he is into us.

[12345421]

Originally Posted by snapshotthisx*****

you make it sound like freshman girls are just dying to let the upperclassmen guys into their pants. wtf

Pretty much. I'm not sure on what you mean by an upperclassman, but I'm just an average guy who works for minimum wage and that's how it is here. They arn't necessarily looking for an older to guy just have sex with... that usually comes after you've at least fingered her.

Originally Posted by Bleachednblonde

I'd like to say a few quick general guidlines! I've seen these questions asked time and time again:
-You don't have to find out for sure if a girl likes you. Believe it or not women are not like us in the same respect, you can persuade a girl to like you. So whether or not she likes you doesn't really matter. Perfect example: I met a girl at a bar who told me "to go **** myself" within the first 30 seconds of meeting her. I took her home the next night and ****ed her two ways til tuesday.

-Asking a girl out does not need to be this big planned out production. Infact by doing that you put her under alot of pressure and in general it can kind of stress her out. Keep the "romantic sweep her off her feet ideas" for your 1 year or when you propose to her. The proper way to ask a girl out..."God it's so refreshing to meet someone different than all these other girls. Let's get lunch sometime."

-It doesn't matter if she has a boyfriend. You ask her out (like said above) anyway. If she says, "oh i have a boyfriend." Your response will be, "woah woah honey! I'm asking you if you'd like to get lunch and talk sometime... as friends. Are you always this presumptious or is your boyfriend that insecure?"

What if you're in highschool and asking a girl out to lunch is like a "wtf are you talking about" kind of question.