[damico]

Originally Posted by JRX dm4 05

So like there this girl and she's a really hot, popular girl and i like her A LOT and im not sure if she likes me. I always come up to her at school and like follow her around and stuff but sometimes I kinda feel like she is ignoring me. Sometimes I don't say anything because I'm not sure what to talk about so I talk about the thing I love most, nazi's and satan. Now the problem is she is always with this other guy and sometimes I feel like he is protecting her from me. Sometimes I feel like she is creeped about by me and she trys to get away when I follow her around but I call it hard to get. So I just keep following her. Its fun. But anyway, today that guy that she is always with walked off with his friend after school and so it was just me and her. I asked her if she would go out with me and she said we don't really know each other. Even though I've been hanging around her for like the past month. Then her friend called her and she had to go. I should keep going for it right? I think I'm close to getting a date. For our first date we are going to dress up like nazi's and watch videos about the holocaust and listen to recordings of hitler and stuff. It should be fun.

[TheImpulse~]

Originally Posted by jacksonblue

Next time you go to a party with her, make sure you have grown a beard so she can braid it and then you can say "Muahaha, I am thandor" and run around and then go home and get an axe and start chopping off heads left and right before you realize you only need to kill the original zombie and all the other zombies will go back to normal, so kenny ends up being split in 2

uhh...thanks for the help?

[skatin707]

Originally Posted by xxxarsonist

damn the vagina.

i agree with you, its a love hate relationship our penis's have with their vaginas... ...and bleachedblond is a freakin guru...he knows his girl stuff...for the most part

[98customplayer1]

okay so bleached, i just want you to know that you are the man. I've realy been thinking about it and your probably right, that hannah chick probably isnt the girl for me. There realy isnt any harm in asking her out anyway tho... the worst she could say is no, and that realy wouldnt bother me that much so yeah. Thanks for the encouragment.

[4d4m |3 (Banned)]

There's this girl I like, but my friend used to like her as well, and she liked him too, I think, but now that he got back together with his ex, he kind of lost interest in her. I still like her, but I'm scared to make a move because I don't know if she has feelings for me, and I think she might see me as more of a friend. What should I do?

[webber827 (Banned)]

Originally Posted by 4d4m |3

There's this girl I like, but my friend used to like her as well, and she liked him too, I think, but now that he got back together with his ex, he kind of lost interest in her. I still like her, but I'm scared to make a move because I don't know if she has feelings for me, and I think she might see me as more of a friend. What should I do?

talk to her, she make it obvious on perpose

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Someone make this thread a sticky!

Originally Posted by skatin707

i agree with you, its a love hate relationship our penis's have with their vaginas... ...and bleachedblond is a freakin guru...he knows his girl stuff...for the most part

Yes I can honestly say I’m pretty bad at trying to make friends with attractive women. Also, I act pretty much the same around all women so sometimes I miss my target and piss off some people!

Originally Posted by 98customplayer1

okay so bleached, i just want you to know that you are the man. I've realy been thinking about it and your probably right, that hannah chick probably isnt the girl for me. There realy isnt any harm in asking her out anyway tho... the worst she could say is no, and that realy wouldnt bother me that much so yeah. Thanks for the encouragment.

THAT IS EXACTLY THE TYPE OF MINDSET YOU NEED MAN! Good job! Now you need a good game plan for asking her out.

Originally Posted by 4d4m |3

There's this girl I like, but my friend used to like her as well, and she liked him too, I think, but now that he got back together with his ex, he kind of lost interest in her. I still like her, but I'm scared to make a move because I don't know if she has feelings for me, and I think she might see me as more of a friend. What should I do?

If your friend dated her, talk to him about it first. Next, don’t worry if she likes you or not. Attraction isn’t a choice , if you take the right steps she will most likely be interested in you! Women can’t help how the feel about a man. Just like you can’t help it when you are physically attracted to a woman, they can’t help it when they are emotionally attracted to a you!

[skatin707]

yeah seriously, make this a sticky...

and 4d4m...bleach beat me to the answer...but i was going to say something along the lines of that

[WGP_TN (Banned)]

So my girlfriend (who i love alot) says that ive been acting different lately and says that she doesnt know whether to take time off for a while, or try one more time. I told her i can change but she doesnt believe me anymore cause it has happened a few times. She keeps sayin she has lost something, and wants it to be back. Well she decided to give it another shot but she keeps sayin She wants the old feeling back. What can i do to help it?

[skatin707]

bigger penis? no seriously, do you know how you have changed? is it new friends? new job? new paintball gun? new anything can change you in the slightest and girls know...its crazy but they do...try to revert to the way you were without totally giving up whats new in your life, unless you want to...i think i beat bleach to this one

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Originally Posted by WGP_TN

So my girlfriend (who i love alot) says that ive been acting different lately and says that she doesnt know whether to take time off for a while, or try one more time. I told her i can change but she doesnt believe me anymore cause it has happened a few times. She keeps sayin she has lost something, and wants it to be back. Well she decided to give it another shot but she keeps sayin She wants the old feeling back. What can i do to help it?

I went through this for a few months ago with a serious girlfriend. Here's the thing, we lost that feeling after 6 months and spent another year trying to get it back. And for that year we were both miserable. I said she changed, she said I changed and we both promised to go back to the way we were. But it never happened. If things aren't "clicking" anymore it's probably for a reason. For me, i felt like the special ed kid with the "box toy" trying to jam a square peg into a round hole. It just doesn't work. And once we offically ended it, i realized i was just scared of being alone. I was so much happeir when I could just be myself again and not have to worry about being the person I "used" to be. Sometimes the hardest thing in the world is to admit that you love someone... but you're just not made for each other. Personally it sounds to me like it's time to move on.

Originally Posted by skatin707

bigger penis? no seriously, do you know how you have changed? is it new friends? new job? new paintball gun? new anything can change you in the slightest and girls know...its crazy but they do...try to revert to the way you were without totally giving up whats new in your life, unless you want to...i think i beat bleach to this one

Yes you beat me to it but I don't agree with your point. In this context people are pretty static, they aren't going to just change unless they have a life altering experience. And when that happens it's usually something you can pick out and say "i've changed this!" It's much more likely that the relationship is changing and that's what makes her uncomfortable. But that problem falls on both of your shoulders... not just yours.




Now on to something else. So I'm getting like 20 private messages a week all with the same 3 questions. Ontop of that there is a lot of repetition to these questions. So i'm going to give some general answers ONE LAST TIME. So from now on i'm done answering these questions.

"There's this one girl..." STOP RIGHT THERE! Getting women to "like" you or getting women attracted to you is an artform. And just like art, you're not going to pick up the brush and instantly be a ****ing Van Gogh. I can not tell you how to get one woman because each woman is different. Once you can read women like a children's book, then you can have almost any woman you want. When my roommate or I get a new "project girlfreind" (a girl that's a real challenge); after every date, phone conversation whatever, me and him sit down and completly analyze the situation and plan the next move. I can not do that with any of you. So the short answer to this question. LEARN HOW TO READ WOMEN... then worry about your one girl.

"How should I ask this girl out" As cynical as this sounds your situation is not special. I ask almost every girl on a date in one of three ways.

"You know it's really rare to meet an attractive girl who I can have a engaging talk with. We should get together sometime and finish this conversation."

"Gee, I would love to talk to you again, but in this day and age of technology how in the world could i get ahold of you? If only there was some little device where we could instantly communicate." *hint hint*

"Hey I'm going to be at ______ later this week. You should stop by and get a drink with me."

"I don't have the confidence to talk to girls/I'm too scared to talk to girls" I can't help you with this. there are no magic words. We are socially programed to not step outside of our comfortable little zone. I've approached tons of girls and i still get scared (and sometimes even ***** out!) All i can suggest is for you to set a goal to start conversations with 3 new people everyday. It takes 21 days to break or make a habbit. After 21 days you should feel more comfortable just going up to random people and talking to them.

"I'm worried I'll run out of things to say" Go to barnes and noble, pick up an interesting book. Watch the discovery channel. Before you talk to her have some things in the back of your mind to talk about. I like to talk to women about psychology, really shocking scientific things, even sex. Women love to talk about sex if you make them feel comfortable about it.

"How Do I approach or start talking to a girl" Say whatever the hell you want. How you say something is much more important than what you say. AND what you say for the next 10 minutes after that is a lot more important than your opening line. You could open with "go **** yourself" if you know the right way way to say it and what to follow up with.

Okay i think that covers it all. So I am no longer responding to any of these questions unless it's a really unique circumstance.... and "I REALLY REALLY LIKE HER!" isn't unique!

[drunktiger21]

Originally Posted by WGP_TN

So my girlfriend (who i love alot) says that ive been acting different lately and says that she doesnt know whether to take time off for a while, or try one more time. I told her i can change but she doesnt believe me anymore cause it has happened a few times. She keeps sayin she has lost something, and wants it to be back. Well she decided to give it another shot but she keeps sayin She wants the old feeling back. What can i do to help it?

How do you spend your quality time with your girlfriend?

[skatin707]

ok bleach...i see how it is... jk...you are right though...and i have the same question as drunk, how do you spend your quality time with your girlfriend?

[98customplayer1]

Ok, well, i'm 15 and i want to ask this girl (who can drive) to hang out with me. I dont realy want to hang out at my house, but i live in a hick town. How exactly would i go about asking her out?

[Bleachednblonde (Banned)]

Originally Posted by 98customplayer1

Ok, well, i'm 15 and i want to ask this girl (who can drive) to hang out with me. I dont realy want to hang out at my house, but i live in a hick town. How exactly would i go about asking her out?

That's not a girl problem... that's a transportation problem.

[PLAYER#1 (Banned)]

Well today was our last day of school. I went up to my gf and kissed her forehead as we huged and she said you know we are not going to be able to talk or anything over the summer. I said why? She said because her mom took her phone away and they are going to socal for the summer. I fealt my heart drop. We have only been together for 2 weeks but it fells like i have known her my whole life. I think i might even love her over time.

I fell so lost with out her, no hugh, no kiss, nothing. I wish school will start back just so i can still see her for a nother day.

What do i do now?
btw we have been GF BF 2 weeks. But we have been friends for about 10 months. (the start of the school year) and I kiss her on the lips all the time, but when we are huging i kiss her forehead because im 6'2" and she is 5'7" do it would be hard for me to reach her head.

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[Josh376 (Banned)]

Why doesnt everybody just STFU and get help instead of being a *** about their problems with chicks and how you can't get none.

[~Maxpow+DarshSauce~ (Banned)]

Ok I have a huge ****ing problem. K, i have the worlds best girlfriend but sometimes i dont know when her "no's" really mean NO. And so today I ate her out on my bed and she was saying no at first but she didnt even resist really, then afterthat we just kinda chilled then i went to do it again and she said "no" in the same tone that is kinda playful but this time she meant it so when i ended up going down on her she pretty much ran away from me at first then I convinced her to cuddle with me, but she wouldnt talk to me... she just held onto me and was qiuet and i tried to talk to her but she wouldnt talk to me... then she had to go cause she was getting picked up.. and so when i was walking her to the door, i told her that i didnt want to make her not trust me and i didnt want her to feel like I was going to go against her will... and we kissed and said bye, and then i held onto her and asked her to talk to me... and she said really softly "we'll talk about it later"....but she hasnt come online. I'm just really worried I mean its been a month since we started officially going out but its been like 3 months that we've been together. And she means the world to me, but I dont know what to do cause its happened once before like this only that time I was pretty much just being a horny *** and this time i was just trying to make her happy... I guess i ****ed up super bad but what should I do/say?

[QuickDrawMcGraw5739]

Originally Posted by ~Maxpow+DarshSauce~

Ok I have a huge ****ing problem. K, i have the worlds best girlfriend but sometimes i dont know when her "no's" really mean NO. And so today I ate her out on my bed and she was saying no at first but she didnt even resist really, then afterthat we just kinda chilled then i went to do it again and she said "no" in the same tone that is kinda playful but this time she meant it so when i ended up going down on her she pretty much ran away from me at first then I convinced her to cuddle with me, but she wouldnt talk to me... she just held onto me and was qiuet and i tried to talk to her but she wouldnt talk to me... then she had to go cause she was getting picked up.. and so when i was walking her to the door, i told her that i didnt want to make her not trust me and i didnt want her to feel like I was going to go against her will... and we kissed and said bye, and then i held onto her and asked her to talk to me... and she said really softly "we'll talk about it later"....but she hasnt come online. I'm just really worried I mean its been a month since we started officially going out but its been like 3 months that we've been together. And she means the world to me, but I dont know what to do cause its happened once before like this only that time I was pretty much just being a horny *** and this time i was just trying to make her happy... I guess i ****ed up super bad but what should I do/say?

Pics of said girl?

[~Maxpow+DarshSauce~ (Banned)]

Originally Posted by QuickDrawMcGraw5739

Pics of said girl?

On the right.

[waterdude]

Originally Posted by ~Maxpow+DarshSauce~

Ok I have a huge ****ing problem. K, i have the worlds best girlfriend but sometimes i dont know when her "no's" really mean NO. And so today I ate her out on my bed and she was saying no at first but she didnt even resist really, then afterthat we just kinda chilled then i went to do it again and she said "no" in the same tone that is kinda playful but this time she meant it so when i ended up going down on her she pretty much ran away from me at first then I convinced her to cuddle with me, but she wouldnt talk to me... she just held onto me and was qiuet and i tried to talk to her but she wouldnt talk to me... then she had to go cause she was getting picked up.. and so when i was walking her to the door, i told her that i didnt want to make her not trust me and i didnt want her to feel like I was going to go against her will... and we kissed and said bye, and then i held onto her and asked her to talk to me... and she said really softly "we'll talk about it later"....but she hasnt come online. I'm just really worried I mean its been a month since we started officially going out but its been like 3 months that we've been together. And she means the world to me, but I dont know what to do cause its happened once before like this only that time I was pretty much just being a horny *** and this time i was just trying to make her happy... I guess i ****ed up super bad but what should I do/say?

dude as long as you ate her out good then you have no problems.

btw shes hot.<-- ****ING PERIOD